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Ook, so i was out in a pub last ngiht, then a couple of Girls walk in (HB 8 and HB 7) I know them, i used to go to school with them, Well i was "talking" i can't say gaming as i dont really know what i'm doing. Anyway, i think i'm a flirtatious lad, i was making contact with her. Me just being me, i was teasing alot, throwing the occasional compliment with sexual innuendo's (i had to, they were just to obvious to ignore) i didn't colse or anything, i got her to walk with me didn't do anything again. i know, i'm a douche, She was making contact with me occasionally . I was also doing this to the HB7 but not as much.
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The question is: Am i flirting with her, or "gaming" her, this is just me being me and i'm wondering what i need to work on????
I know it's long, but i need your advice, Cheers.
My opinion is whatever works for you, works (period). You can call it anything--flirting, gaming, being yourself.
If the goal is becoming romantically involved with this girl, well you were able to hold her attention. However, what you did not do is schedule any future contact, have physical contact with her.
In your case, I would be very proud of being able to chat a girl up without her walking away from you. However, I would work on creating physical chemistry and following up with her in future.
And as the previous poster indicated, only you can work on that.