Ok so I lost my virginity. first time was great. both of us had a great time. yes she loved the sex even tho i was a virgin lol but now im having problem with premature ejaculation. we do foreplay and right when i insert i cum. like 10 strokes max and im bust. really embarassing. we had sex 3 times and all times i busted in about a minute. but we ended up going for round two. but its not as good as it can be first time because i have to stop and wait for it to get hard again.

I'm not circumsized so i guess that might be the problem? because im extra sensitive. I even tried masturbating 20-30 mins before we had sex and still ended up busting really quick. Are there any other solutions i can do? because its the only thing thats holding me back from good sex lol i really need help with this

Couple of things you can do.

1. You can go to a sex shop and buy yourself some cream or lube that delays ejaculation.

2. Learn to control yourself. Serioulsy, masturbate less. I find the longer I go without sex or jerking it, The longer I can last before sex is more fun.
Also, when your about to come, pull out and start going down on her or finger her

3. I would highly suggest looking up David Shade so you can some cool shit about giving you women awesome orgasm

Google kegal excercises, theyre supposed to help.

Also, hard to explain, but try to reduce your feeling of sexual excitement during mentally. Try watching porn and doing it to practice

Secondly, keep having sex, the more you do it the more used to it you'll get and the longer you'll last, by your 20-30th time you'll be fine.

Third tip I can give you is DONT masterbate, or if you do try to last 15+ minutes, bring yourself to to just before cumming then stop for a bit, then repeat.

^Agree

Kegel excercises are great, here's the link:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_6 ... e_tip.html

I've been doing them for about a year now and you can get to control your ejaculation in about 6 weeks (if done reguraly), just go slowly, before you cum and you'll be able to control it.

ALSO have a nice long foreplay (30+ min), cause not only, you get her aroused, but you make your body used to touching, excitement...

And like dark said, the more you do it, the more you get used to it

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The other thing I wanted to add was just try and get her off before sex, then she'll care less about how long you last, make sure you know exactly what you're doing with your fingers and tongue.

Ok

Go out on an empty tank. Empty your load before you meet up with her etc.

im glad someones brought this up, I have the complete opposite, I cant cum at all, ive looked into and its all mind games and psychological, but im not gonna lie, i would happily swap problems, i get fuck all from sex tbh

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i have the opposite problem to this and cant ejaculate at all no matter how hard i try, if anyones got any advice on that, would be appreciated

Premature ejaculation has to do with your serotonin levels, they are low if you're cumming early.

Go to the doctor and get an SSRI (antidepressant). This will fix your problem.

Sometimes if I really wanna show a girl a good time, I'll take 60 mg of celexa about 4-6 hours before sex so I can't cum now matter how hard I pound it.

I had the same problem. I literally wanted to die.
I found out it was becAuse when I used to whack off ( before I had had sex) I was getting it over and done with as quick as I could. My body just got used to nutting ASAP. So yea stop masterbating. And seriously, just keep at it. I was having sex 7 tomes a week and it stopped happening after about a month.

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the important thing is not masturbating to "get it over with"
a lot of people do this when they're single for too long because they're tired of being horny and alone

NEVER MASTURBATE UNLESS YOU KNOW YOU CAN SPEND AT LEAST 20 MINUTES DOING IT

they say if you can last 20 minutes you can last as long as you like. Never spend less than 20 minutes, hold off for longer if you can, if you really want to train up your stamina keep stopping every time you get close for as long as you have.

Right now your body thinks "I want to come" !!!
you want to retrain your body to think "I dont want to come, I'm really enjoying this and if I come now it will be over, I want to enjoy this for longer."

I believe this works!

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those who say it can't be done should get the fuck out the way of those doing it

it's all mental

you are like ZOMG PUSSSSSY!

you'll calm down with time lol

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Kegal exercises help you last longer, and be harder(helpful because you can be less tense as well)

Relax your body and your breathing, often that makes you cum faster when your all tense and panting like a freak.

Don't block the image out, that makes you enjoy sex less.

Move her body as well. Move your body, but at same time, move her body at same time.

Sex should be fun, don't treat it too seriously and try enjoy it.