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| Danzella | PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 9:32 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Mon Jul 26, 2010 8:32 pm Posts: 456 Location: North Kent, England | | I've been seeing my ex girlfriend on a more Fuck buddy level recently, we broke up a few years ago, stayed friends for a while and we're now fuck buddies.
Shes admitted several times that shes really attracted to me and really likes me, and we're always snuggly when we're around each other. I've realized that I'm developing feelings for her. How can I make the step to making it exclusive without verbally saying it or asking her?
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| Jits138 | PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 10:40 pm | |
Joined: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:46 am Posts: 749 Location: North Carolina | | Just say it. If you still have a fear of rejection then you don't need to be tied down yet and you need to get out in field for a while longer. _________________ You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.
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| mastvin | PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 11:47 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Feb 09, 2011 2:14 am Posts: 60 | | idk jits I don't think its that simple. You have to think tactically. Just build an attractive lifestyle and continue to game other women. If a girl wants to be exclusive she'll let you know.
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| Jits138 | PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 11:58 pm | |
Joined: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:46 am Posts: 749 Location: North Carolina | | trust me it's that simple.
"So I think things are going really well, I think I want to keep you"
her affirmative
"Good, we are gonna be a great team"
her negative
"Well I just wanted to tell you I like you, I'm not saying I'm IN LIKE with you though"
Either way who cares. _________________ You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.
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| Lava | PostPosted: Sun Mar 20, 2011 3:28 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Dec 31, 2010 9:15 pm Posts: 134 Location: UK | | I'm no relationship expert but from what I've seen from friends when a couple break up and they re-initiate contact and start seeing each other again, it usually means that none of them found someone better to be with, getting back with the ex is something I see around me in my social cirlces a lot. the funny thing about it is when u ask either of them when they started seeing each other again if they're together again, for a long number of days, maybe a few weeks they will say "yea, kinda", they both know that subconciously they're together but "kinda" dont wanna admit it just yet...what difference does it make? I think you're in the "kinda together" phase, once its official again you gradually start seeing each other more and more slowly, til bang, before you know it, you spent all week with her....you can let time do it for you naturally but there is a risk if you dont escalate, but my heart tells me that asking her again shouldn't be too bad, bare in mind whatever reason you broke up for in the first place is something that you will show will never happen again! its up to you if you want her to give you the same impression
good luck _________________ Inner game is ALL you need, then create your own routine
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