Just thought it would be funny to name my topic "sex"
btw love the smilies
Introduction
Hi, my name is Tom. I'm 21 years old and I live in Knokke-Heist, Belgium. I play tabletennis for more then 10 years now and I've got a sister age 23.
Experience
I've kissed a few girls and slept with 1. I dont have a lot of succes with women though currently there are 2 girls in love with me but I have no interest in them. I have a hard time with meeting new people but once somebody knows me, he or she says I'm a real nice person.
How I learned about PUA
I learned about the game by watching a documentary on tv about PUA's. There was 1 PUA who really caught my eye and that was Richard La Ruina. I was totally amazed by what he showed me and since he's the person I'm looking up to the most.
PUA materials
I'm currently reading 2 books: "Double your dating" from David Deangelo and "The game" from Neil Strauss. Double your dating is helping me to change myself and the game thought me that I wont be happy with picking up any woman. But with things I learn from PUA I'm hoping to increase my dating and the chance of finding mss. right for me
. I'm also watching vids of Gambler
First step I took
I started with improving myself. I started working out in a gym, eating a lot because I'm way to skinny (Won 3-4kg this month). Got myself a nice haircut, using crème against dry skinn and etc. and I went shopping with a few women friends that gave me a lot of advice and some nice clothing to go out with.
What you should know about me
When I was young I had to go into therapy to learn how to make friends (without any succes) and pronunciation and to learn how to copy human behavious (I walked in a very strange way, my body language wasn't like that of a normal human by far)
Untill I was 16 I never had a real friend. At age 17 I had a few friends and I considered 1 to be very close but then he stole some of my money and I found out. From that point I really had a hard time trusting people around me.
I built up my friendsnetwork again and now I've got 3 very close friends, around 20 friends I see every week and a few hundred mateys. I also have some girls as friends. Since a few weeks ago I got the experience of a womans warmth but after that it didn't go into a relationship as I had hoped. Since then I've been keeping an eye on the PUA community and I figured out things I did wrong and a few things I did right. For example I was courting her too much and I didnt pull her 2 stept to push her 1 back. I pulled her all the way.
What I'm hoping to achieve
-Making more contact with women
-Make myself feel more comfortable around people I dont know
-A few short relationships to start with
-Eventually a long relationship
-A few adventures
-A PUA that would like to take me under his wing
Any comment, hints or tips would be very welcome. I enjoy listening to people
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