Since dedicating myself to doing approaches i finally went out. Any tips on how to keep this up? ive noticed when im in set im dying to get out and end up having a real short interacition any ideas?

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I did the same thing. I always ejected waaaay too early. What helped me most was when I met for some sarging with a guy from here. we held each other accountable. Once I got passed that block it's been gravy.

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Go for some less hot girl.

90% people on planet earth needs instant gratification for them to be motivated. You will be more motivated (and relaxed) when flirting with less attractive ones because they are more receptive, and you will be more eager to test new stuff with them because you can afford to lose them.

Much better than keep going for super model and got shot down 90% of the time when you are starting out and have no skill at all. It just hurts morale alot.

In short, lower your standard and you will find more motivation.

source: personal experience.

approaching strangers has not worked for me very well. on the street is the worst, coffee shops are pretty difficult too, although its easy to get short convo, but they never wanna keep talking or build rapport.

best is to find some hobbies and just smile and say hello and give people compliments. like take up social dancing or find a book group or card games group or a sport. make some friends that way. then you learn to take interest in ppl, your social anxiety goes down, and you build up a network of female friends who introduce you to female you can ask out. when you know one woman its much easier to meet another. also dress very well and try styles of clothing you would never wear.