Hey fellas. I got a bad habit. After, before, or during almost every message (facebook chat or text) I have an "lol", "haha", or ":P" included. I know this is a bad habit because it doesn't get me anywhere with a girl. It usually kills a conversation.
My messages are never just "haha" or ":P" (unless I'm trying to kill the conversation). But I get the feeling it keeps things almost too light, and so I can't get that needed attraction.
But I also don't want a girl to think I'm too serious. I say cocky or funny things, and I feel the need to end it with "haha".
What should I put instead? Or am I completely off in my assumption?

Let me know guys!

I use a lot, but only when telling sarcastic or c/f jokes... It lets the receiver know not to take the remark in a serious nature...

I do think I have the same problem... But I am always talkin in a cocky/funny way when im on facebook or txrting... Or it gets boring!