So there's this HB9 I've known for a long time. We were never close friends and I've never tried to sarge her, but I've built a really good "cool guy" basis with her without dipping into the friend zone since we don't really know each other. I can tell she finds lots of interest in me, I just need to escalate a little. This is a result of an element of the game I've never truly grasped - displaying sexuality. I figure if I can make her sexually interested in me then invite her 1 and do some DHVs, I should be able to easily kiss close with her.

So. How do I alter my behavior so it strongly displays sexuality? Links to articles would be greatly appreciated.

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Albert Einstein

I am not sure of the link but I saw a video on here with Gambler that was fucking perfect and is a cornerstone of my game nowadays. He was talking about kino escalation in very small steps.

example.

Whisper something to her

Put your hand on her lower back and whisper

put your hand on her neck and whisper

get closer and closer to where it almost feels like you are kissing

kiss her


It works amazingly fucking well for me.

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Alright, looks solid.

Anything else?

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"I have no particular talent. I am merely inquisitive."

Albert Einstein

Here's a summary of Gamblers escalation stuff from his Natural Game and Stealth Seduction videos. He is really smooth.

Being in a sexual state / shifting to seduction:
Slow down, smooth out, close distance, look like you want to kiss her (look at mouth, triangular gaze), Constant eye contact and introduce pauses if you are the one speaking. If you are not speaking look like you are not listening and just want to kiss her.
She will notice the sexual tension.

Stealth kino escalation (must first build attraction):
Move from touching arm while speaking to touching neck while speaking.
Close distance. (pretend you can't hear her and playfully move in closer)
Talk in her ear in a way that it's almost as if you are going to kiss her. Keep eye contact while doing this.
Add leg to leg contact.
Maybe add kiss to the cheek when talking in her ear.

Multi level communication:
Non sexual conversation, no eye contact, poker face, touching slightly inappropriate (stroking her back for example)

Advanced 'accidental kino':
Incidentally brush past boobs etc.
Hold hands and let arm brush boobs.

Unambigious touches:
Back of the hand against back of the hand. Find out where you are at by what she does with this (pull back, let is be, takes the hand, etc)
Your leg touching her leg while standing or coming in.

Plenty EC (eye contact) to build sexual tension, beware of looking like a murderer who is over focused!

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

Like a pussy muderer haha

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

Haha. im gonna try this. Thanks