This HB, who is my ex of few years back, is not looking for a relationship and knows im a PUA/Player. We made out the other day, but cuz im cocky nothin can happen?

FB Convo
--casual talk prior--
ME: see red riding hood with me friday night?
HB: to intimate
ME: wat?
HB: like ide rather do something not dateish
ME: like wat? ha.
HB: to be blunt you are extremly cocky and until i am positive that i am not just another way for you to stroke your already extremly inflated ego i think we should stick to like ritas and not datelike things
ME: i am cocky, red riding hood looks good. ritas sounds not so much fun.. but if you dont wanna come see the movie with me, ok
HB: well maybe ur cockyness works with some girls but not me i just find it really annoying
ME: ok
HER: k night
-i sign off-

Im mindfucked on how to change or approach this situation. This hit me like a shot in the dark! Besides "fuck her, talk to someone else", anyone got ideas on this??

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Were you cocky when you were with her. If not, she can see right through you. She liked you the way you were.

You gotta drop the C&F after awhile bro. I made the same mistake with my ex. I picked her up... made her my g/f, but kept the cockiness going... She initially thought it was C&F, but after awhile, it's C&Annoying... I was her bf and still using pu tactics like a dumbass. She's your ex, just drop the C&F... unless if it emotionally triggers her... But shit like, "Damn, I look good".. is useless at this point with your ex.