I told a girl to drive down to see me for Spring Break. She did. She drove 55 miles. Before she got there I bought a bottle of wine because she likes to drink wine (8 dollars - yes it was that low quality). I took her out to a cafe near my house. I paid for both of our meals and drinks (35 dollars - gone). We then drove back to my place and walked to a bar near my house to play darts. She ordered three hard liquor drinks and a beer, and we played darts for about two hours (27 dollars). She wore a shirt skirt, and basically flashed the entire bar for an hour because she was drunk and straddling a barstool. I went to give her a kiss on the top of her head because she was like a foot below me, and she assumed I was trying to makeout and looked up, which made things kind of awkward. The entire night she was text messaging a different guy, which she apologized for but then kept doing. Then i took her to a dive bar to meet up with some other people I know, where I got her a glass of wine (4 dollars) which she didnt drink because she wanted to sober up at that point. We left, went back to my place, went inside where she sat on my bed for a second, and then said she was going home and left. Although she asked me where a street was at some point so my guess is she went to that other guys house.

Just to recap -
Met up with a girl
Spent 74 dollars on her while she texted other people
Got ditched so she could most likely go sleep with the guy who sat on his couch texting all night.

Yes, I am a chump.
This is posted as a "FOR GODS SAKE DO NOT EVER DO WHAT I DID" post.
I do not regret the night. Lessons not learned in blood are soon forgotten.

In conclusion, I am going to die alone.[/u]

you broke cardinal rule #1:

Don't pay for a girl your not dating or sleeping with (there are some exceptions)

Dude you never pulled the trigger... She drives 55 miles to see you, get drunk, goes back to your house, sits on your bed and you didnt do shit.. You two should hav been all over eachother all night.. I bet you didnt kino or better yet escalate at all the whole night.. And who cares about spending money on her, I mean she spent all that money driving 55 miles to see you when gas prices are through the roof right now..

You will get a lot of responses here but trust me you need to learn to man up and jump on that ass hommie..

Kino or bring up sexual topics. Girls like to get there "feet wet" before jumping into the pool. Is freaking awkward if you don't kino then just go for make out or try to sleep with a girl. There is lots of good info on kino so look it up.

without proper kino, you will end up in the friend zone.

Agreed! couldnt have written it better myself.
Just to point out that gas (guess you are from the US) is f**king cheap compared to Sweden. You have prices around ~3$/Gallon? we have 2$/L. 3.8L=1Gallon.... And that is fucked up!

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wow man hitchhiking must be popular in sweden huh? lol ;