Tuesday 15.3.2011 / Wednesday 16.3.2011

I went out again with my wingman to a student party, there were some really cool trumpeters having a concert in a local disco, so we went there and at the beginnig everything was empty, but when they started playing, folks were getting CRAZY.

Objectives:
- Have fun
- Game girls and go as far as possible

Field:

Again, when I went out, I was a little bit in my head, cause, the first approach is the hardest and I totally forgot about the warm ups. So for the first hour I was just walking behind my wing, he opened sets and I listened. Now the thing about my wing is, he can game girls, only when he's super drunk, if he's sober, he won't even go out and try it, but if he gets wasted before at home, he has no fear, now that's good and a bad thing. Having no fear, turns up your confidence, but the girls see that you're drunk and they'll blow you off more often, but who cares.
Anyway after that I also started gaming and at first I really wasn't in the mood, but then the mood just grew and grew and grew, until I was so hyper, that I don't even remember, what happened (have in mind, that I was sober whole night and I never take any drugs, but just gaming made me so high and on that I blacked out most of my memories last night ) BTW that stuff happens to me on a regular bases these times, but just at nightgame.
So we bounced around every club, every disco in town and it was a great night out, but man that thing of him being drunk, just makes me a little anger, not because of game, but because I need to drag him from one corner to the other (I remember, that at some point it has gotten so bad, that he fell asleep standing in front of speaker, with music pumpin and fell right through the doors into the backstage of trumpeters), but he's a very good and handy wingman sometimes (he would never fuck up a friend or talked bad about him, just to make the girl want him and that's very important to me), so that weighs over his drunkness.

What did I do right:

- After I did my warm ups I hit the state and just gamed it from there.
- Stayed sober, even, when others were trying to make me drunk as hell.
- I take care of my friends (my concious is clean )

What did I do wrong:

- I didn't approached at the begining (hesitated) (Correction: Make it happen )
- I should do my warm up sets as soon as I enter the venue and I should blew them up (for fun)

What have I learned:

- Staying sober is very important
- Do warm up sets, when you enter
- Once you've done your warm ups, everything'll flow naturally.

The problem is, I don't remember much (really stupid ), so next time I'm bringing cam and a mic into the field (just kidding )

It was a good night tough.

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Saturday 12.3.2011

So me and some of my friends (we met here on the forum [metamorph, janez]) made some plans to do daygame today, we said, we're going to Ljubljana, the capitol of Slovenia, where we met another PUA Žiga, who is really good at this stuff.

Objectives:
- Approach
- Number close
- Use a wingman
- Try as much crazy shit as possible (since I'm not from Ljubljana, no one knows me and I really didn't gave a shit about what happens)
- Go to a Burger King (They opened the first on in Slovenia a week ago )

Field:

As soon as we came off the train, we said to ourselves, we gotta warm up, so I did an approach with fake phone call (Sinn's technique), I picked up my phone [turned my ringer off, cause I don't want for my phone to ring in a middle of a fake phone call] and I went side to side with these two girls (HB8 and HB7.5):

ME: [pretending to be on a phone with my friend] ''Whatever man, look she can't do this to you, you need to leave her, she's just manipulating you…''
HB8: [Looks up for a sec]
ME: [still faking a call] ''Alright I'm gonna ask. [to HB8] Hey tell me something real quick…[back to the phone] Hello, oh damn he just broke off, he's just jelaous, that I'm right!
HB8: ''Right about what.''
ME: ''Well here's the deal, he went out with his new girlfriend the other night and she got really really drunk and said to him that she loves him, but then she took it back this morning, can you even do that?''
HB8: …

From there on we were talking a bit about relationships in general, I teased her for being a nice girl, she would probably never did that to a guy, she gave some advice, but then she said: ''We gotta leave.'' And I chickened out for a phone number, but man, I knew it in my heart, that if would've asked I would've got it. But not bad for a warm up set.
From there on we met Žiga, he's been in the game for about 3 to 4 years and the guy tears the shit up, I learned a lot from him (as soon as we met up man it wasn't 3 minutes, he was in a 2 set at the bus stop talking having fun, no nervousness , when we went back, h ere-opened those girls, againg c/f style) in one day and the main advantage here was, that for the first time I saw someone from my country how to do this from beginning to the end (he number closed at the mall big time), and the main point he makes, is to be naturally funny (that comes with practice BTW ) and it works, perfectly, if someone would have told me to do this 6 months ago [when MM was all I had (no disrespect)] I would laugh to his face, but when you see it, you say to yourself I can also do this, it's not some special routine or a line, that I need to use.
I can say, that his style of gaming is almost identical to Sasha, a guy on which blonguy posted once, here's the link:

sashapua-direct-daygame-approaches-vt85518.html

And that stuff works like charm

Anyway, at the mall we splited up into pairs and just did some daygame. I don't know, how many sets I opened, but man it was some crazy shit, I opened with pick up lines just for fun, I opened direct, indirect, with good/bad BL, man I was in the mothefuckin state dog and most importantly I had fun while doing it, cause I knew, that I had wings at my side and that nobody knows me, so I don't give a fuck.
I remember that at one time we were at the train station and there was HB9 standing one of us opened her (I don't remember who at the moment) and she was really bitchy, so we broke off and half an hour later, we saw her still standing at the station, so we all went into a line in front of her and each went up to her and told her in her face, that she's very beautiful. Then we went other direction and in about 15 minutes (I don't know why but she was still standing there) we did the same thing again, man it was hullarious .

But the best approach was my last one that day, where I opened like Paul Janka did on this video:


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GT2hvRipRSM[/youtube]


I did that and the girl laughed and was enjoying (altough I got her friend on her phone and not her mum ), anyway it went perfectly, but when I asked for a phone number, she would've given it to me, but she said, that her friend (on the fucking phone) doesn't let her. So then I ejected (politely) and kicked myself in the ass for the rest of the day, because I fucking froze up again, where I should've challenge her and said ''You always let your friends to control your actions, I thought you were adventurous.'' Man I really need to fix up that part of my game.
But still hey I've tried some things, that are out of my comfort zone and that was one of my goals for today.
At the end of the day, we got into some trouble, where Žiga approached a girl, which was with her father and he wasn't rude or anything, in fact, he was polite and playful, but her father freaked out totally and was a real pain in the ass (like he was about to fight), but FUCK HIM, who the fuck is he to judge us and our game, he can judge someone else, but not someone he doesn't know. Anyway no worries, he didn't kill our good mood
Me and metamorph went on a train for home at about 9 PM and were talking about inner game and stuff on the way home, I can say, that at the end of the day it was one of the best and most enlightning days for my game, cause with wings in the field, I've recognized my sticking points and now I see where to improve and HOW to improve.
So I highly recommend daygame winging

What did I do right:
- Warmed up perfectly
- Approached madly
- Tried all kinds of new things
- Pushed sets, even when they went bad (huge thing for me now)
- Went to a Burger King

What did I do wrong:
- Still hesitated sometimes, when approaching (Correction: Make as much warm up sets before as possible and have the right minset in your head)
- Had problems with transition (Correction: Just push the set and let the chips fall where they may, if nothing else, have ONE backround routine in your head locked and loaded)
- Hesistated for number close (Correction: When you think to ask for a number, that's when you should do it, not sooner, not later)

What have I learned:
- Going out with wing(s) gives you advantage in field (you push each other into sets [metamorph'll agree on this haha ])
- Do some crazy shit, the worst thing that, can happen is that a girl sais to you: ''FUCK OFF.'' And you say back: ''Wow you're really beautiful.''
- Do warm up sets A LOT
- Be funny, have fun, don't give a shit
- Learn from others and implement what do you fell that suits for your game and your personality.
- Hamburger at Burger King is better than the one at McDonald's hahaha

In one sentence IT WAS E.P.I.C

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oooops BTW, the date on the top post at this site is wrong, instead of Tuesday 15.3.2011 / Wednesday 16.3.2011 it should be written Tuesday 8.3.2011 / Wednesday 9.3.2011

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Teusday 15.3.2011 / Wednesday 16.3.2011

I've decided to make a little more detailed post cause right now, I have a chance to show you, how what looks like the worst night out can turn around into mothefucking ''birthday party''.

P.S.: I decided, to use some names of my friends in my post (It's hard to write about a person with no name ), but I won't use real names, just silly nicknames [so nobody can sue my ass ]

Before the field:

I was prepearing to go out and then a friend calls me, he said: ''Come on man, I'm at the dorm, you gotta stop by, we have tons of liquer, we'll drink some, before we go out.'' Lately I'm really staying sober, even when others are drinking, so I said I'll come over, but won't drink, cause I think gaming goes a lot better when sober. So I come over and my friend (lets call him Logic), his room mate and this other guy (they're also my friends) in the dorm were wasted, like really, really wasted they didn't saw how many fingers I was showing at them So the room mate went to bed and he fell asleep and as just as we were about to go, he threw up (yes in sleep) and he didn't even woke up, like the puke just was just swimming on his pillow at his face, I thought he was gonna drown himself. Anyway, we got him up threw him into the shower and cleaned the room (he threw up from bed to floor, to wall… you get the picture). Man it smelled really bad in his room and after shower, he went back into the bed he threw up on (but thank god we changed the sheets in time). I didn't really imagined that this night would start like this, but hey he's my friend we help each other, no questions asked On the way from the dorm we picked up another friend (we'll call him Primal) and then we went out.
At first I thought to myself, man what's it gonna be from this night, but I tried to get myself into a good mood, I was talking to my friends and by the time we arrived at the bar, I forgot everything and we played table football.

Objectives:

- Forget the misfortune at the dorm and get into good mood.
- Try to build up as much AA as possible (yeah you read it right, it's something that I'm testing right now, for more deatils read this approach-anxiety-to-the-core-vt87192.html)
- Push your game as far as possible
- Try to number close

Field:

When we played table football, we had so much fun doing it (cause they were drunk and they missed every ball, we all laughed our asses out), we were smiling, screaming, having a good time and every girl in the bar checked us out, but we just didn't care cause we were so enjoying So at about 11.30 my wing arrives (the one from previous reports, we'll call him Aggressor) and again, he was drunk, but he controlled himself (last time, I dragged him from backstage passing out ).
So since the bar was half empty we decided to go to a close up disco. We came in and there were tons and tons of girls. When we came in, my AA grabbed me a bit, but didn't concentrate on that, I just did 'go with the flow'. Since I didn't approached any girls when I arrived at the club, I just went dancing with my friends and I danced like crazy.
I don't want to brag or anything, but I have kind of a unique dancing from other guys, while most of other guys in a disco dance only in a kind of a social norm, I just tare the shit up, I dance the just how I feel, it doesn't matter, if it's silly/cool/childish/professional/… I just don't care about that anymore (there was a time ago that I didn't).
And then I just saw, wtih corner of my eyes, that girls started checking me out, I danced at the with Logic and Primal and then 10 minutes later there were like groups of girls dancing around us, watching us, whispering, checking out, but we still danced like crazy didn't give out any attention and just enjoyed
Then Logic said to me: ''Dude this sucks, we gotta find some girls.''.

I just turned for 180 saw this really cute girl HB9 and just used everything I know and mixed it up. When I turned around, she was dancing with her friends faced with back to me. Logic went in and tried to game one of her friends, while I just grabbed her hand pulled her in very dominant and placed it on my shoulder, then I grabbed her other hand and also placed it on my other shoulder [AFC Adam's dancefloor game] she didn't resist at all.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRLEDSA4afo[/youtube]

The clubs here are very loud so you can't speak at all and I didn't, I just danced with her (seducing dance ), carresing her back with my hands, hloding eye contact all the time and smiling confidently (not like showing all of my teeth [mouth closed], but just enough that she could see a big smile on my face from the inital approach). At first she tested me some, she was looking in my eyes with a smile and I didn't break, I just did the same (building sexual tension [60 Years of Challenge]), so when she saw that, she looked down, I was still watching her in the eyes all the time, she looked back at me, but this time for a shorter period of time and then looked back down and then looked at me again for even shorter time and then down again. All this time, I held eye contact to her face, dancing, carresing her lower back and hips and then at the moment, she looked me back at my eyes, still smiling, I stopped dancing, pulled her as close as possible, brushed her hair of her face, leaned in and BOOM k-closed The best thing about that was that she knew it was comming, she didn't resist and when we made out, she was fully in, like nothing else existed to her (her friends were there BTW), we kissed for like a minute and then I heard Primal from the back: ''Holly shit, hey Logic, check this out, unbelievable dude.''
Man it felt to me, like I'm on the top of the world :D:D she leaned on my chest, we were dancing for 30 sec and then, I said to myself, OK I'm gonna try something from MM. I grabbed her by the hair, pulled it down (she was like paralized) and then made out, she liked it so much, that she put her tongue deep inside my mouth and was totally in the moment.
After that her she smiled at her friends and they simled at me, they pulled her in and Primal I let her go, turned to Primal and he said: ''What up dude, nice haha.'' I don't know where she went from there.
It looked something like this, but with no talking and a lot more dancing and caressing:



Since while I was k-closing all my friends went home (Logic, Agrressor), which was very strange to since I k-closed in 3 minutes and everybody except Primal were gone, we decided to go on stage and dance like crazy.
We danced and I celebrated (this was my first k-close on doing nightgame), I danced like I was on somekind of drugs (mind, that I was sober the whole night), for 3 hours straight, no pause and then DJ turned up a camera shooting directly at the dancefloor and me and Primal dancing our silly dance (there are TV screens all over the club, so the entire disco saw what we were doing). We just looked at each other, looked at the camera, lauged and started dancing even more freaky (we didn't fucking care, the whole club watching at us).
And it paid off, there was a girl that came up to Primal (I didn't saw her at first), started to dance for him and he tried to do something, but then he froze and she truned to me started dancing for me, I grabbed her by the hips, but then I saw Primal, looking at her sadly and I didn't figured it out first, but then I asked him: ''Dude is she with you?'', he nodded, so I asked her: ''What about him?'' She just waved with her hand, like she doesn't care and keeped on dancing, holding my hips. And I just tared her hand off my hip and put it on Primals, said to her: ''What gives you a right to blow him off like this, you started to dance with him, cause you like him, now prove that.'' I went off the stage to get my coat, while watching on a big screen Primal and this girl dancing together.
At the end of the night I said to him: ''Dude I gotta go, I'll see you tomorrow.'' And just as I was about to leave he took his coat and said to me: ''Man she isn't anything special anyway, you know I can find a lot better these days.'' So we leaved at that point.

What did I do right;

- Escelated
- Did the escelation, without nervousness, with 100% belief
- Kiss closed
- Had fun (didn't let the start to ruin my night)
- Didn't fall under social pressure (When the cameras were turned up)
- Didn't give a shit about anything
- Didn't took over my wings girl (''Bros before hoes'' I believe that to be nailed true)

What did I do wrong:

- Didn't warmed up, when comed in (Correction: Do warm up sets)
- Lost the set, after interruption came (Correction: Say to her, to introduce me to her friends, or I introduce her to my friends)
- Had approach invatations, but didn't used it all (Correction: Next time you see a girl smiling at you or holding an eye contact, 1…2…3… boom go in with anything)

What have I learned:

- In nightgame, where the venue is too loud, just do the escelation all the way on interested girls and keep your mouth shut.
- Doing crazy/silly things skyrockets your value for having the balls to do that.
- Smiling has its power.
- Seductive eye contact has even more power.
- Staying sober while gaming has more advantages than being drunk [Primal was also sober whole night].
- If you're dancing and rocking all the time, even if you're ordering your drink at the bar, you're much more interesting, than other boring guys.

What I wanted to say with this post is, what I've said on the top, it doesn't matter, how shitty (literaly in my case:roll:) your day can be, in 10 minutes all that can change.
I think, that for the first time k-closing at the club I did pretty well, I'm really proud of myself and the feelings are undescribable.
Now I know it's not impossible, you do it and you saw it, at the end, the person that you trust the most is you right?

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Really good journal. Updates would be appreciated

Best feeling there is, right? I'm following this journal, very good field report!

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wow, nice I can totally see myself when reading this haha like you said at my FR that you had a similar night was very true... I'm gonna keep reading this journal.

I loved this part the most though: Would wing with you any day man, keep it up.


btw objectives like: "Game girls and go as far as possible", "Push your game as far as possible" aren't really good objectives to have. Instead you should have objectives like: "Try to kissclose", or "try to pull her home" etc...

things that are concrete so that after you've done them you know: "alright, I've done what I came here to do."

For instance the "Try to number close" objection is a good one.

You should also keep in mind that: "Get a number close" and "Try to number close" are totally different. Whereas the first one you have no control over, and the second one you do.

I'm just saying this so that if you don't get a number you'll still have done your objective. It'll guarantee that you'll get into that wonderful state.

Just a tip.

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Good job, you're truly progressing. Keep it up!

In one of your posts, you lie about speaking Japanese to some girls, and you say that you feel bad that you did it. Cool! You SHOULD feel bad, cause it's a fucking pussy move to pretend to be someone you're not. I used to do it all the time, and while it can be entertaining to tell people you've got the world record in bungee-jump or some shit, you're actually just betraying yourself, and using the lie as a shield, cause you're afraid of showing your true self.

So keep being as honest as possible, trust me, it's way more satisfying to kiss a girl that knows who you are, in comparison to a girl that thinks you're someone else


Rock on

I agree that we shouldn't lie, but sometimes you have to pretend you are someone else if you want to change.

I guess you can still be honest as long as you tend to be who you truly are.

Hope it makes sense in English.

I have two point of view. If you are sarging in your town, I wouldn't recommend you to lie at all fore several reasons right. You might want a relationship with her and then will regret you lied, or the person might know you..etc..you got my point.
It does feel good to pick up someone for who you really are. This is what I do most of the time

Sometimes though, if you're in another country, city, and you don't know anybody....just go crazy man. Just lie, be someone else, take this chance to have fun and try crazy things. it's so fun to pick up a girl by being someone else too.
This one time I came back home to Brazil for some vacation, I went to the clubs and since I hadn't been there for so long, nobody knew who I was at night. I k-closed and f-closed quite a few girl that still think I am a French, or Canadian guy - they still think I don't speak portuguese either. I don't look brazilian so it was pretty easy to play this game. that's the fun of knowing 3,4 languages.

The funniest part, one time, was hearing one girl talk to her friend in portuguese "I think this french guy is pretty cute, should I take him home ??" "you should! why not?" "yea I'm gonna abuse his body tonight" - she was a 30yo HB8- LOL and I had to fake like I have no idea what they're saying. I'm not proud of this...but it feels good to be another person sometimes haha just for the hell of it. I'm not afraid to show my true self. not at all. Most of the time I'd tell them the truth.

SO yea Kupid. I wouldn't recommend you lie when sarging in your town. But when you're traveling, just do whatever you wanna do. go crazy dude! Just remember of Barney Stinson from How I Met Your Mother ahahha

Good progress by the way. I'm following your journey!
keep it up

GringoZ

Tuesday 29.3.2011 / Wednesday 30.3.2011

Today, I've been so pumped with energy that I almost exploded. And at the beginning I didn't even meant to go out, cause I have class 7.30 next morning. But then around 10 PM, Logic calls me and sais, that he and Jester (that's the guy that threw up on his own bed in previous report ) are going out and also that there is a welcome party for social faculty and the faculty of natural sciences (which means tons of pussys). So I went out.

Objectives:

I didn't set any objectives for tonight, cause I had a really hard week (been studying for 3 days almost no sleep ), but I had a test (differential equations) that day and as soon as I finished it, profesor already assessed my and Logics test and we both passed (with 100% percent ), so we REALLLLY had a reason to party and just have a good time.

Field:

So, I grabbed a six pack from the fridge and went out, met Logic and Jester and this was my first night out, that I was drunk as hell after a long time (I don't drink so much anymore as I go out and plus they brought more booze ), we wanted to get to the club, but the bouncer stopped us asked us for our tickets, so Jester went to buy his ticket, got a stamp from the bouncer and me and Logic just copyed it (with a chemical pen and beer yeah I know, we're smart ) So after we got into the club (for free ), we just talked, drink, danced like crazy had a lot a lot of fun and others in the club seemed to noticed that, cause there was suddenly a lot of groups of people forming around us.
I just didn't care about game (man I've passed Differecials, one of the hardest tests on our faculty , LETS TARE THE SHIT UP) so after a while, we schwitched clubs and we went to Trust (a club next door ).
So I came in, saw this cute girl dancing with her freinds and I just grabbed her by the hand pulled her in and started dancing (exactly the same as in my previous FR [60YOC method] ). But then I went in for the k-close and she said:

Her: "I'm not like that."
Me: "Common don't tell me, that you don't have that bad girl part inside you. [going for k-close again]."
Her: [Rejects it].
Me: [Try again, with more escelation]
Her: [Rejects it again]
And then I ejected, but I ejected polite way (not like fuck you bitch), saying to her "Alright, see ya, enjoy the night!"

So I don't know exactly what went wrong, oh BTW I noticed at the beginning that when we started dancing, she wouldn't held eye contact, she just looked at my chest (dunno why?), now maybe she wasn't interested or something like that, but anyway I didn't care, nothing is 100% fullproof so I just went forward (altough that I was drunk as hell I didn't showed any signs of drunkness, so that isn't the reason).
If anyone has some suggestions about how to solve this problem, please post it here kiss-close-situation-vt88748.html
Anyway I saw that Logic and Jester looked like two flowers, man they were really drunk, so they said, that they'll go home. We said goodby (it was 2AM) and I was walking down the street to my home, when I see three of my other friends from high school (Lets call them Torrid, Apeball and Boogie [Boogie was acualy one of my best friends, up untill he betrayed me big time and the he said he was sorry, but that's another complex story, we're frineds now.] ). They were all pumped and said to me, common man lets go hunt some pussys.
So altough that I was really drunk I went with them.
We arrived at the club and took our seats, I was already ready to pary (the dancefloor was empty tough), but my friends were just looking sad sitting on a couch, looking around, so I fucking snapped and said to them ''You fuckers came out to party not to sit and look at your phone's web browser for football results''. (I know it soudns fucking ridiculous, but almost every time we went out together, that's exactly what they did. Every time, so they would look 'cool' and 'busy'), so after I said that to them, Apeball just said ''Oh no man, this is not the right music to dance.''
I thought I was going to grab a bottle and broke it on his head, but I just thought fuck it, they don't wanna party that's their problem, I'm here and I'm here RIGHT NOW.
So I just went on a dancefloor and there was only one girl on it, dancing all alone, very boring, very shy style, everybody were just at the bar doing nothing and I looked at the DJ, he changed the song and I started to dance like crazy jumpstyle & shuffle. It looked something like this:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qv22LEs_GlM[/youtube]

(That's not me BTW, but I danced almost like that guy )

Anyway, I saw that at first I danced at myself and then that shy girl started to dance jumpstyle also, I challenged her and before I know it, there was her friend coming in also jumpstyling and then another friend and before I realized in about 10 minutes the whole club started to jumpstyle, shuffle at the dancefloor, I just couldn't believe it man I wasn't even paying attention to it (I don't even train Jumpstyle or shuffle, I just acted like I do), I didn't fucking did anything, I just had a good time and then boom the place just exploded. I danced there for about 2 hours and after that I went home, or at least I think I did, it was all blury from that night

What did I do right:

- Had a good time
- Haven't pussyed out when it came to escelation (even when I saw, that it isn't gonna work, I pushed myself 20% further)
- I brought a good mood to the club
- [I helped another person to step out of her comfort zone (that shy girl)]

What did I do wrong:

- I don't have any complaints about that night, no regrets, but I could opened more sets.

What have I learned:

- If you don't care about game, you don't feel AA (or maybe that was just alcohol, but I'm pretty sure it wasn't)
- I need to update my k-close skills a little
- You can bring an entire club into a good mood if you can bring yourself into a good mood.
- If you don't care about what you do (even if you're a total jackass), no one else will also. (Like someone once said, ''You can do the same thing and some people'll call you crazy weirdo and other'll call you excentric, it depend on your ability on not to give a shit about it.'')

I'll keep you updated, have fun :D:D

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I love it... I can definitely relate. My friends are the same when they're sober (at the beginning of the night), they need alcohol to get in the party mood.

Awesome that you said you fuck it, I'm gonna do what I WANT and I want to dance! Even when there was almost nobody there. I've done that too once when I came early to the club. Nobody there and danced, and other people followed.

Keep it up.

p.s. You shouldn't have ejected that chick btw, if you try for the kiss and she doesn't go for it, but she still STAYS there.... it's just a matter of time.
1. Maybe she's scared of being judged as a slut (by you) for kissing too quickly. (Let her know that you don't think she is, by saying something like I don't judge, I hate people that judge, etc)
2. She's scared that her friends will think she's a slut (isolate)
3. She read some pickup material and is playing hard to get.
4. She's not attracted, or not in the mood.

If she stays, she's attracted. You've even shown her that you go for what you want, and that you're persistent. She knows that you see her as more than just a friend. All she has to do is walk away or tell you to "fuck off!". If she doesn't.... she knows what she's in for and that you'll most likely try again in the near future.

But her response "I'm not like THAT", is probably number 1. (Like a slut, or someone that's really easy to get physical with really quickly)

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Hey in which mall in Slovenia are u sarging? And keep up the good work , stari

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The Dude Abides

Hey guys, thanks for all of the replies, they really helped me, I've learned a lot I haven't been on this forum for a while (I had some issues to solve) but now ''I'm back'' and trust me, you'll love next FR, so here it is

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Saturday 9.4.2011

Daygame, that's the word of the day today, man I haven't done that for ages, I did it again today and it was freaking awsome. I went out with my wingman from this forum [nickname: janez] and I know, that this FR is really really really really really really really really really really long (lets make it no longer with writting 'really' over and over ) but it was a good day, so here it is.

Objectives:

So I'm following Coldman's advice on writing more clear objectives, than just ''game a lot, push is as far as it goes…'', cause I really gave a thought about it and I realized, why did I set my objectives so unclear? And the answer is, I make them unclear, so when I don't reach them, I still have an exuse to say to myself, oh OK, well I went as far as I could, but that's probably just cheating on yourself, so I'm making my objectives clear as diamond from now on , so here they are for today:

- Get a Number close
- Don't eject the set, if you fuck it up
- Approach sets in stores (I haven't really done that before)

Field:

So janez was a little late, so I just went in to the mall and in to the mall's grocery store. I had maybe a little bit of AA, but funny thing is, I felt like I was just chill in and doing nothing, so I was very very relaxed IN grocery store, I walked by a ''standing table'' I don't exactly know, how to translate that in English, but you know one of those tables, where you have a lovely colledge girl, which offers you samples of yogurths, crisps, drinks and all kind of shit that it is for free, but only one or two samples. So I went in, she offered me yogurth and we just started talking about yogurths and when we eat them and I was slightly teasing her, for not eating enough vitamins (yogurth), tlaked about her job in general bla, bla, bla… and when I left there was another table 20 ft up front, so I stopped there too, the girl was offernig chocolate, again same thing, talking about chocolate, teasing on the brand of chocolate, she was selling Gorenjka, but I like Milka more … Two warm ups not bad, again I went 20 ft up front and there was another table in front of me, I thought to myself ''Man WTF, it is free fair today here or what.'' I came up to the girl and she was selling soups, so I said ''Oh damn, you're selling soups, so nothing free for me.'' She said no, with kinda of a scary face, but she was cute tough, I ejected damned :@
Anyway janez called, he was waiting outside, so I went there we talked for a bit and then he said I need to warm up, so I've told him about my warming up and we went to same grocery shop and at the same tables, first the yogurth ones, but she was closing down her table, so me and janez just fucked around ''Common just one yogurth sample, we'll go on our knees if neccesary'' She laughed and we had a good talk, just casual and funny.
Next one chocolate table, we got free chocolate and the girl was even more into the conversation, we again started to talk about chocolates and brand and then she said, she likes to buy Slovenian chocolates, to give money to our people. Janez then made a good transition into holiday topic, he asked her, where she goes on holidays and he said that he goes on Slovenian shore, again to give money to our people, but she said before, that she goes to Croatia, as soon as I saw that, I teased her for it.
We ment to get out of a shop and as just as we went by soup table I didn't expect anything from this one, but still I said with a smile

ME: ''Still nothing free for me.''
HER: ''No.''
ME: ''Oh well'' [walking away]
HER: ''I like your shirt.''
ME: ''Really ''
HER ''Yeah.''
ME: ''Oh thanks it's original from Egypt.''

Which it is BTW, I bought it in Cairo, but when she heard, that I was in Egypt she jumped up, like her hair was on fire, she said that she was in NY, Paris and it's her life dream to go to Egypt one day, so we talked about travelling a lot, janez again did a nice move, when I said that my shirt was original, he like went behind my back and looked at my neck, I said: ''Dude, what're you doing.'' ''Just checking if it is original '' And she laughed, it hitted, who would of thought anyway, we talked a lot about Paris, London, Cairo, Sharm El Sheik and now that Mubarak has fleed to it, I actually have a friend from Shar El Sheik. She said, that she really wants to see the Pyramids, so I teased her ''Look I really don't want to kill your dreams, but the Pyramids aren't that big as they look on TV [they really aren't at least in my opinion].'' She made a sad face, so I pulled her back in ''But don't worry, there is a lot of other things to see, like…'' So after, we talked about that, I remember, shit dude, we have something in common, let's go for a nuber close, I've pulled out my phone. ''So anyway, I have to go now, but I would like to chat with you sometimes about xyz, listen give me your ………….. Facebook [FUUUUCK] and I'll add you as a freind.'' She said: ''Yeah sure, I would love to talk again, but my FB has some technical problems, so you give me yours.'' Shit dude WTF am I gonna do now, I don't even have a FB account, so I just gave out FB from janez (he was at another department at the time), said goodbye to her. And went looking for janez.
OK so fucking pussyed out for a number, but hey at least I didn't ejected and I got FB ''sort of '' This was my first FB close.

So we went on and we were warmed up, so we just opened sets for fun and just did the game chilled out, very calm, I actually can't belive, how relaxed I was today, usually it is hyper hyper, today it was like ''Yow I smoked a bag of weed haha maaan.''
We changed venue and as just as we went in we passed candy shop and I didn't noticed, that there was a hot shop assistant in there and janez told me, dude you should tottaly open her, I looked back and she was really cute HB 8.5, so I just said fuck it I'm gonna try it, we splited and he went on gaimng his sets, I went in for the shop assistant:

ME: ''Hey, so tell me which ones are the sweetest [cause she was selling candies]''
HER: ''Chocolate ones [smile ]''
ME: ''Well which ones, you have like 30 different chocolate sweets here.''
HER: ''I don't know pick one and try it.''
ME: [teasing] ''You'll not gonna charge me like 5 bucks if I try one sweet right, cause that's too much.''
HER: [laughing]

We talked about rum coconut candy, I told her, that I love them, I always eat them when I study, she said, but how can you study then aren't you drunk form all that rum in sweets. ''Well you know how they say in Maribor [I'm studying there and so is she ], you can't study if you don't drink something first (which is true BTW, they all say that ).'' She laughed. I teased her for everything that came to my hands and when I had the chance I pulled her in again with some comfort and rapport conversation, man my game was smooth with that girl. The funny thing is, you don't even notice, how time passes by, I thought, like I was 3 minutes in, I looked at the time, 10 minutes Wow. We talked a bit about school, so then I just said to myself, this is it, it's now or never, I pulled out my phone, said: ''Hey you know what you're studying math, you also have instructions.'' ''No.'' ''Oh, OK it doesn't matter, I know math anyway, I would like to get together sometimes so just put your number in and we'll meet up.'' I've putted the phone into her hands [like Alex Coulson did on his video ] And she was all like: ''Oh yeah great, I would love to meet with you again.'' She typed in her number and I wnated to leave, but I stayed for another 5 minutes, to solify my number close, I teased her for should I put a smiley in my phone book, when I save your number, or do you think, I'll remember you and then I said bye and went looking for janez.
I could hardly cover my smile, I was the shit man. You know that song from Black Eyed Peas

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uSD4vsh1zDA[/youtube]

''I gotta feeling that tonight… my Game is a good good … oh is at its fucking peak ''
My first number close, yeah it felt good, oh yeah BTW, do you guys have any suggestions, where should I take her for a date, cause right now I'm little out of ideas, if you have some post it at the bottom, or post it here here-vp459316.html#459316 I found janez and we went on with approaching, we drived downtown at the park and there was a 2 set on rollerblades (like two HB 10’s like really really hot ones ), sitting on benches, so we made a quick gameplan, we walked passed them, sit on benches next to them and like talked really loud about, how my 18 year old cousin is going on a senior highschool trip and she wants to take tons of liquer with her, so I’ve opened them with that ''Hey do you think, I should let my cousin, to take 3 liters of vodka and 2 liters of absinth with her to a senior trip'' I know it's a lame opener, that I've just came up with, but supriseingly it hit. The blonde one asked me, which school is my cousin visiting, I said one and she said ''Really I go to that school to, but I don't know your cousin.'' I thought to myself OK I fucked up now, but janez is going to the same school and he knows the programmes more than I do, so he saved my ass, when he said something back. They stayed and we talked about senior trips a lot, but the redhead was a little bit uninterested (I mean, she wasn't bitchy or anything, but she was just in and out and in and out) and then she pulled her friend with her, so they left, just before they left I asked her if they were going out tonight and that our female friends dumped us for tonight so they can come with us and they were interested for a moment, but then they realeased (don't ask me why), and when they bladed out, I wanted to go for a phone number, but they were already too far. But still not bad.

It was getting dark, so the downtown was dead, everbody were going back to the mall, where we came from before, so we went back. We spotted 2 cute girls at DM shop, so we went in and I didn't even looked at the hot one and I started talking to the other, something about ''Hey are girls using this for hair, she wasn't interested, so I turn to the hot one (also not interested) and almost fucking felt on my ass and hit my head to the floor, when I saw, that I was actually hitting on my cousin's (male cousin, I have lots of cousins ) girlfriend (the hot one). So she looked at me with funny face and I was like ''Holly shit what're you doing here.'' I had flashbacks, like oh shit, oh shit, I was hitting on my family and one of my best friends GF, man how fucked up is that. But I quickly transitioned into ''Hey nice to see you agian it was a long time.'' She smiled and we talked, even her friend was more calm and even smiling, so I just turned the set in a way, that it didn't looked like, I was hitting on them, I actually said for that opener

ME: ''Oh no I'm buying something for my cousin (the female one)''
HER: ''Yeah right.''
ME: ''No really.''
HER: ''Are you serious?''
ME: ''Yeah.''
HER: ''OK, Cool, I didn't knew that.''
I just started casual talk, like we haven't seen for a long time, how's it going, where is my cousin, why is he not with her… I really pulled this one smoothly, so when I felt like, they put their defences down, I ejected, man she is hot, but family and friends are first, no questions asked!

The last interesting set happened around 8 PM, when we went to some store at the mall, where they sell clothes, me and janez, we were talking about a cute shop assistant and we were in the corner talking really quiet, so it looked like, we are about to steal something, so she comes up and sais:

HER: ''Hey can I help you.''
JANEZ: ''Yeah, which item doesn't beep if I steal it from the shop.''
HER: ''Haha none, they are all tagged.''
ME: ''Do you have security.''
HER: ''No.''
ME: [about to grab a pair of pants] ''How fast can you run.''
HER: ''Enough to catch you, I was a runner 15 years ago.''
ME: ''Really.''
JANEZ: ''Common dude, 15 years is a long time my friend, hurry up take those pants.''
ME: ''What's your record on 100 meters.''
HER: ''Fast ''
ME: [to janez] ''Let's call Eddy, he runs 9.5s on 100m, he'll be out with the stuff in no time.''

She laughed big time, we were just fooling around, me and janez were teasing her and she took it and hit back, it was good funny conversation. And somewhere in between, when the convo stalled, I just said:

ME: ''No we're not actually here to stealo shit, we're here to pick up chicks.''
HER: [smiling even more]: ''Really.''
JANEZ: [shows 4 fingers and she looks at him strange]: ''I got 4 numbers today, that's something.''
HER [laughs a little more and then all serious]: ''Are you serious.''
JANEZ: ''Sure.''
HER: ''Wait, hold on, so you're saying you did that during the day, how did you do that, what did you say to start the conversation.''

I thought to myself 'Baby if only you would knew about daygame then your jaw would probably drop to the floor '

JANEZ: ''Sorry that is a bussiness secret haha.''
HER: ''OK haha well you gotta start somewhere, I give it to you boys, that's unique to do that during the day.''
ME: ''It has its advantages.''

We just talked a little more and then as we were leaving I said ''janez hurry up man, let's steal those pants, I bet she won't run after us.'' She laughed again and then we said goodbye and left for real.

Just to mention, there was a set but it wasn't going nowhere (pet shop assistant), janez opened, with ''I'm looking for a bunny for my little sister.'' They talked a bit and when it stalled, i went in with something that I thought it would never work in a million years. I remembered, that we were learning about Fibonacci sequence at math, which has a pretty complexed formula http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fibonacci_number but its original purpose was, to calculate, how many bunnys can multiply in a certain time and she though it was interesting when I told it. I guess even some of the most boring things that we can learn in school can be useful somewhere, even in PUA

From there on we approaced a few sets, but didn't go anywhere, anyway we were very tired (we were gaming from 5PM to 9PM), so we called it a day and a fucking good day.

What did I do right:

- Number closed
- Teased
- Gamed in sotores for assistants
- I didn't eject the sets right away, even when I felt like fucking up (well I did eject one set right away, but no worries)

What did I do wrong:

- Instead of FB I should ask for a number.
- And don't hesitate for a number.
- With those 2 girls in park we might do a bounce on an instant date, but I fucking remembered that after they were gone (Or at least I should have asked them for a number sooner)

What have I learned:

- Daygame is a lot a lot lower energy than nightgame, if you're chilled out, where you walk around for amusing yourself, you'll be relaxed and your AA'll drop down close to zero. Just chill, fuck around and amuse yourself.
- When you think, that the set might go really bad and boring, it can go really well (Soup shop assistant)
- Warm up sets for intro, it doesn't matter who they are or what they do, just do a few of them.
- Before you go hitting on girls, take a quick look at the whole group, so you don't fucking start hitting on your family member's GF
- Best number close is probably between 5 to 10 minutes of meeting a woman, but I still have to test this theory.

I can say, that I learned a lot today and I don't wanna say this too early, but for the first time in my life I'm getting a feeling, that I'm getting good at this stuff and I know, that if I'll be persistant I'll get even better.
Anyway, I'll finish this report, like janez said: ''Let's call it a (good) day!''

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