Hi guys

In brief:

First date with a girl. Good time, some drinks. I convince her in joining me in the disco. We dance. KCLOSE.

- It was SHE who asked ME to go out
- It was SHE who initiated all kino and dancing
- It was SHE who kissed me first in the neck before i went for the kiss.

We salute eachother after. Day after, i initiated a short conversation, casual. Second day after: i asked her to meet on monday evening. She responded: i'll let you know monday morning (today)

So today she didn't let me know anything this morning. I asked her around 4PM what we are going to do. She said tonight she wants to study, and she said too it will be difficult this week to meet up cause she will be going out (which i doubt cause she nearly never goes out). She wrote: "ill let you know as soon as i know something".

So fuck that, clearly she doesnt want to meet up.

Dont know wtf i did wrong. She was 100% into me, initiating all stuff, and now she FREEZES ME ????


2 important things:
- i'm leaving the city for 2,5 months in 2 weeks. She knows that, but i told her i'm coming back for sure (which is likely)
- i think i signalled myself as a guy who just goes out partying along each day, which is true aswell... could be she sees me as a PUA just wanting to fuck her and dont care about her...


What should i do? Why she freezes me? How to signal i want something serious with this girl?


thanks a lot

Could she have been upset that she didn't get any dick after you went through all that trouble?

Nope. Not at all.

It was 100% she didn't had intentions of going home with me. Which i was OK with too. I don't have to F close on 1 date.

She was resolute in saying that she went home. I asked her to let me know when she arrived home,to show i care.

I wish I knew what to tell you but I'm a complete noob at this too.

I have been in a similar situation though so I hope somebody answers your question.

Bro, this sounds like a typical woman. It sounds like she wanted to have some fun, she was controlling EVERYTHING, even to your acknowledgment. You didn't game her...she gamed you. You know women, naturally, are good at gaming. She got her attention, her fun, now she is ready to study. She is doing HER thing, you just happened to be apart of it for a little bit. GIRLS are generally like this, flakey! That is why is is good to try and escalate as much THAT night, because the next day they have new things to attend to, other than you.

Cpt...

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First, what makes you think she didn't want to go home with you that night?

Second, she lost interest because you stopped being a man.

As a man it is YOUR job to ALWAYS be leading. She had to do that and the next day she lost all interest she had in you the night before because you failed to step up and lead. Women don't want to be the leaders...they want you to take the action.

Even when you called and asked "what we gonna do?" was you following again.

"I'll be there at 9 to pick you up!" would have been a much better text.

Always be leading.

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