Hey fellas, heres the deal. I met this girl couple days ago. We texted one day all damn day! I wasnt able to talk cause I was at work. Everything was going fine and she was into me.

Then the next day or tow we tried meeting but didnt happen cause i was working nights and she on days. On day 3 she had to go on a tour (she leaqves for 4 days at the time and is actually very busy, 12 hours on and 12 off to make it worse she works 6pm to 6 am so we are on opposite schedules) since she left txting almost dissapeared to 1 txt a day tops.

I knew she was busy so I didnt wanna bother her too much. The first night we txt couple times but I stopped caus I hate getting short txt's back so i cut her off easy. The next night she txt me apologyzing for not being able to talk (score I didnt answer till the next day and she didnt reply till the day after. WTH!! shes playing me lol either way her last txt said this:

"heyy Janzi Im sorry we havent been able to talk this tour is just miserable and busy as hell"

I recieved that txt last night and didnt answer cause I was sarging and was txting other girls anyways. I rly like this girl she has some awesome tatts and sweet piercings (main reason i havent just cutt her out completely I hate waiting hehe) but she is comming back from the tour tommorow and I dont know how to respond to her.

I know I have to answer otherwise she might loose interest completely but dunno if to be cocky/funny or be nice or what. Can I get some help or some example as to what to tell her? thx fast responses are rly encouraged lol

TY, Janzi

stop worrying so much man. text her back being like "ah dont sweat it girly, ive been busy with *whatever you like* anyway. shame tours not working out so great, im having such a blast with *insert some fun/cool thing you do* ill take you along when your home..."

dont let it get any longer than that, i would give some vague future projection so she knows your down to meet up again but you dont have to. make it clear that you have other stuff to get on with and arent too stressed. if you fancy it just say "ill get in touch when youre back" that way she cant conveniantly forget and theres no pressure on her atall.

why dont u try ringing her when shes back? that way u can set up meeting her straight away and she can text u from then on after the phonecall, and carry it on from there until u meet up

hey thx a lot for the help guys I did text what you suggested kinda modified to what she likes and things we have talked about and it worked great.

We went out bowling (which I hate but she enjoyed) then brought her to my place for couple minutes so she could help me to finish putting up a fish tank i bought earlier during the day. She loved the Idea that we had the same kind of fish hehe Later I showed her my place and bedroom of course just to build some comfort. Then we left to dinner and that was awesome as well, finally we came back to my place to watch some funny videos on my laptop that was positioned on my bed... the rest is history some DHV, full evo phase shift and voila.

Once again Ty

PS she just called asking to stop by my place to hang out before I go to work

I agree with el_rubia..

Just be a cool guy, I mean she was thinking of you/missed you and hit you up out of the blue.. Thats huge!

Now that's what's up! Keep us posted man. Sounds like you have this one welllll under control

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time to stop texting

give her a call....set something up.
youve got to move this to the next level and it sounds like that would take forever if you wait on this type of texting.

give a call----hopefully you can reach her. if not, then leave a message but try to call at a time she will answer.

good luck and let us know how it goes.
Cheers!