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You're a really good looking guy. Nice flowing hair, nice jaw line. I say keep the hair. It looks really good.
But for the hard part now. What do you think about getting a tan. Just going to the beach this summer will do it. I can't really tell but maybe you have to pluck your eyebrows. If you pluck your eyebrows, you will look more groomed. (make that an opinion opener. "Hey guys, I only have a second but what do you think about guys who pluck their eyebrows... I'm asking because my friend wants to do it but he doesn't know many guys who do it."
Those clothes man... You see how dark they are compared to your skin color? It kinda feels like that's your personality. It feels too dark. Get light colored clothes. I think I mentioned a baby blue t-shirt for you earlier. Now I know for sure it will look good on you. Be risky. Yellow and white shirts will attract attention. Nice jeans and black shoes. No sneakers. All clothes must fit well. No baggy clothes like you have in the picture. The clothes must lay on your skin with few wrinkles.
The less layers you have on the better. You have 2 layers inside your own house. That's no good. Expose your skin. Another rule - the more skin the better. Get v-neck shirts. Get a white button down shirt. Roll up your sleeves to expose skin. Get a random necklace with black rope. That will be one of your peacock objects. It will stand out compared to your skin tone and girls will have an excuse to approach you. "Omg I love your necklace, what does it mean." Get a black leather bracelet to match your necklace. Get those sunglasses.
Check out your posture. The best way to remeber good posture is lengthening and widening your body. So standing up straight is the best way to lengthen your body. Having your hands out of your pocket is and shoulders back is widening your body. You need to constantly check this. Every time you go through a doorway you check or every time you get a phone call. Find something.
How's your communication. Speaking, eye contact, and hand movements (while remebering your posture) Speak slow. If you stutter something that means your way too fast. Have pauses in between. Example: "So today.... I went to the mall... to buy...a... pair of pants." You are a badass, your listeners have to wait for you to finish speaking slow. Speak from your chest. To see how this feels, take the deepest breath you can, and repeat the above sentence.
Eye contact - talking to hot girls is like looking at the sun. You want to look away at some point. The more eye contact the better but not 100%. Look to the side when you start to talk then look back at her mid thought. Rule - more eye contact the better. (remeber your posture, wide and tall)
Hand movements - Don't be shy. You are a badass. Whatever movements you do look dominant and also helps you get your thought across better. Rule - the more movements the better.
Getting your appearance down is so important. Beauty is on the inside but if it's covered by shit, no1 will want to take a look at it.
Afterwards, we have to work on openers, transitions, DHV stories, games. I see you have a dog and a cat. Start thinking of times when you had strong emotions with your pets. Where you angry, sad, protective, etc. Well turn those into DHV stories.
Yeah I'm probably going to be going to the beach this summer so I'll end up getting more tan then. However I hold paleness as an ideal so it isn't a big deal to me. I'm somewhat pale because it looks good to me, and I like girls who are pale.
Not all my clothes are so dark, but I'm going to the store soon to get better ones. Also I had on two layers because it was FUCKING COLD.
Been working on my body language and posture a lot lately and it has led to more people approaching me.
Good idea with the necklace, I'll try it out.
I've seen more progress already. There's a girl in my other lunch block than the one I mentioned earlier who gets super flirty with me and I'm pretty playful about it back. She flirts with a lot of guys, but she seems to be giving me special attention lately.