There's a HB8 in my class.. I really want to get somewhere with her.. theres this guy in my class, lets call him BBB. BBB is always funny, he is always telling some lame nd funny stuff and shouts crap and this makes everyone laugh.. he always sits with a group of girls and they keep talking to them always.. Whereas I always have fun with ma boys, I make jokes, not always but occasionally.. I always try to remain calm at all situations and so I remain silent, I too talk to a group of girls but only once or twice a day..

The HB8 is a girl who thinks she is soo cool, so she never approaches any guy..Now this HB8 and BBB are seen talking now and then recently.. and she asks some of her doubts in subjects to him, and she seems to be comfortable with that..

Whereas with me, She and I had one deep conversation about our lives a few weeks back, and then i texted her the next day.. Now this was a mistake because i asked her If she wanted me to dress her up.. She did not reply.. I didnt want to say "I should not have said that, Im sorry".. so I did not apologise.. she didnt talk or even give me eye contact for the next three days.. After that as a few days passed, she seemed to have got back in track.. she was smiling and talking normal..

Now, today I saw her smiling and having a good time with her girlfriends.. I knew she was in a good mood, so I went and tried to start a conversation.. but she answered it single words.. It was like she is avoiding talking to me..

Do u think I have a chance with her? Who has a better chance the funny BBB or calm ME??

any tips..

Neither. Your buddy is a class clown. He will never turn his act into proposal for an adult relationship. He already gets his kicks from making everybody laugh and the risk of losing this position alone will hinder him from progression. On the other hand, you're a quiet weirdo but when you speak up, you toss out creepy zingers.

You're living in your own fantasy World of make-believe. You have two choices:

1. Continue to live in your thoughts and pretend that whatever the hell you or some class clown is doing has something to do with betterment of human relationships. Follow this path and in your mid 20's, a co-worker or a member of your family(typically a single aunt) will take pity on your ass and introduce you to the homely daughter of his/her neighbor.

2. Accept that you know NOTHING about this and begin your research. Start writing up your openers. Figure out some routines. Get your closes in order . . .practice. Start at level 1 now and within 2 or 3 weeks, you'll be on par with the average member of this forum. Continue doing nothing and dreaming up fantasies and you'll be doing exactly that for the rest of your life.

Who has a better chance... I'd say him.
Who has a GOOD chance? I'd say neither of you.

BBB:
I agree that he's the class clown. He's always making people laugh, but doesn't sound like the type of guy to go any further. SO he'll make a bunch of friends, yet remain single.

You:
You're the over-thinker. You're the "I care to much about what people think" guy and the "Like me. PLEASE! LIKE ME!" needy type of guy. You'll EVENTUALLY (maybe) get a girlfriend. 1 girl.

From your description, that's what I get from both of you. He has the better chance because he's making her laugh and she feels comfortable around him. Still, he'll never attempt anything more.

You need to stop thinking about outcomes and shit. It doesn't matter. The more you worry, the worse things are gonna get. Try adding some funny to yourself.
Make sure that you're not calm all the time. You know in the moves, the calm James Bond seduces in an instant. Well, you're not James Bond. So adjust your vibe to the situation. If she situation calls for you to be funny, then make her fuckin laugh. If she's telling you about her dead dog, that wouldn't be a good time to crack a joke. You get it?
You can't be calm all the time. It won't work. You need to have more than one emotion. Pick which emotion will work best for that situation.

Bonus:
Oh, btw, I would've done something totally different. You said she didn't make eye contact with you after you sent the text? Well, I would've ran up to her as soon as I realized she was avoiding eye contact and told her "So you finally realized that I can turn invisible.". Then I would've confronted her about the eye contact thing while creating sexual tension with touch. Then went for the instadate.
You can usually fix small mistakes like your little text deal.

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