Hey guys I'm new to these forums but I have been reviewing this type of material for a bit now and using it to help me mature and lose some of my more stubborn qualities. I feel more than proficient on pickup ( although I still get approach anxiety sometimes and even fail to do anything ) and reading several books and viewing videos has helped me build a stronger version of myself.

One thing that is still bothering me though is my ability to be a very "social" person. As a kid I was quiet around groups of friends but would have enough vibe and humor that people were just attracted to me. This by no account means that I was in control of my situations though and this left me AFC and I didn't know how to interact socially.


Now, I feel like I have most of the other puzzle pieces set to being an attractive male but I still need to work on being a social person. My personality is developing and getting closer to what I deem to be the best way to act. When I first started I came off as an asshole due to my tendency to C&F and tease so much. I am slowly calibrating this and integrating a positive outlook of life where you go out and just meet, talk, interact, with everyone you want to talk to. This process is very tiring, and I must still get my social game together so that I may get more chances to express my personality with others.



TLDR version : How do you become more social! Please help!

have confidence and routines works great for me