I have been with a girl for a few months now and now it is obviosuly beginning to settle into a more comfortable honeymoon period rather than the excitement of the beginning.

A couple of days ago I had some insecure moment where I began to think the relationship may not be as exciting any more and that im not making her more attracted to me.

The killer is that i talked about my fears with her, now im worried i look insecure, and that she will lose attraction to me. Also for the first time in our relationship she wasnt in the mood for sex, this worried me even more- something she picked up on

How can i show her that this was just a one off and essentially maintain the attraction or possibly rebuild some additional attraction?

Thank you guys

"I thought about the conversation we had and I realized I was being a little dishonest with you. I didn't want to hurt your feeling but the truth is that I am starting to lose the excitement feeling that we had. I don't ever want to be the old couple who sits at home and watches television. What can we do to keep things fresh?"

This will remove your onus of insecurity and give it to her. It also gives her a chance to tell you what you are doing wrong. It hints towards her desire to be in a long term meaningful relationship and she will picture all the girl shit like your wedding and your first kid and yadda yadda yadda. Then you reaffirm that you are a team and can work together to solve any problems.

Maybe she will say "Well we have never tried position ABCDEF or G."

That would be awesome.

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