It's becoming more & more of a case of my friends staying in with their wives & gfs on a Saturday night.

It dawned on me that, as I'm not a big fan of going out solo, why don't I try gaming a Gentleman's club solo!

I'm stuggling a bit with approach anxiety at the moment which is not really like me.

To get me back up to scratch I'm thinking of going & just spending cash on drinks. (Unless of course a girl there buys me a drink first.)

I might even go sober the first night.

After all, girls open you, they're hot, it's a good challenge and get's me out of the house on a Saturday night. No excuses.

I saw on 'The Pickup artist' VH1 Kosmo & Brady doing ok so it's got to be worth a go!

What do we think guys?

I need encouragement to break this long dry spell!

Peace bro

TurnOfClass

are you talking about a strip club??? strip clubs are good but no girl there is going to buy you drink!
heres some tips to strip club fun!
1) get friendly with all of the bouncers!!!! i went to one yesterday that i go to regularly and i speak to the bouncers all the time! as im leaving the head bouncer gave me loads of free entry cards and said im a cool guy that they like having there as i dont cause problems for them. the other thing is if trouble did kick off they would take your side!
2) get friendly with the guy behind the bar!! im quite friendly with the bar staff so sometimes they will slip past a few free drinks which is a really cool thing and at the same time ill buy the guy behind the a red bull as a thank you. one time i went to a club and spent more time talking to the guy behind the bar then any of the girl put together. so if i see him he buys me drinks

3) stay away from the non-chain clubs! when i go i try to stick to chain clubs like spearmint rhino, platinum lace and so on! the problem is that the non chain ones will rip you off and they arent exactly nice places to go to i know a guy(not me) who went to a small one and they ended up with a bill for a girls champagne and 30 mins of her time and all she said to him was would you like a dance! it cost him nearly £200 this is a standard thing in smaller clubs especially in london soho clubs!

4) dont try anything like to k#close in the club! try to get her away from the club arrange to meet or get her number she wont give it freely in the club if she gets caught she'll be fired so she'll maybe write it down and palm it to you. one time a girl tried to give it to me in a booth but id had a drink so i was expected to memorise a mobile no whilst drunk!

5) remember its a job to them they can earn £1000 a night so sadly they will see you as a customer be different then a normal customer!

6) talk to as many girls as possible in the club remember the girls talk to each other and if one of them sees you as an asshole they all will!

7) dont have too many expectations just have fun

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I have been posting various questions on various forums of the past few days and a constant theme I've been getting is that I'm expecting too much when I go out.

It's different people that have been saying this so I will take this on board.

Basically it's about having fun!

There's some very valid pointers in your reply crazyoney2k. I like it. I have 1 question for you & that is do you go to the strip clubs solo?

Peace bro

TurnOfClass

yeah i hardly go with others for a simple reason if i go with someone i have less success, then i get more attention and i dont have to share attention with someone else most of my friends are married or in relatonships

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it is both a good and bad idea ESPECIALLY if you going solo... Mainly because they are hired guns they are SUPPOSED to "listen" and shows signs of "kino" as they line you up as another customer. You have to act disinterested especially when the girls are making their "rounds". Be polite but don't cater to them, don't make up elaborate excuses why you don't want a dance right away.

Some clubs are BYOB bring yourself a few beers kick back, if a girl you want to talk to rolls by offer her a beer. Depending on the club rules some girls will share a beer with you, don't comment on her looks ask her a few general questions. "how is tonight treating you?" as you work yourself through a conversation. I know some people would balk about giving a beer away as a lure but ::shrugs:: it has worked. I have had dancers talk for a bit drink their beer, go on stage come back and pay attention to me not breaching the subject about wanting a dance.

The goal when talking to them is be different, every guy in the place is just staring blatantly at them. If you want to run any game you have to throw that concept out the window humanize them and make them feel like a real person and not just as an object.

I remember once I was in a strip club got a dance from a girl that reminded me of an ex girlfriend i had once. Cute face nice body a little bit thicker than my ex but in a good way. As the girl was grinding on me I noticed she hid her sides a bit by not pulling her corset off all the way. I noticed and asked her was something wrong, she said she didn't think that part of her body was that flattering. I told her something to the effect of she looks great the way she is natural being comfortable in her skin is sexy. She blushed continued dance and when it was over and i asked what the damage was she said it was on the house gave me a kiss on the cheek. The rest of the night she didn't try and get dances out of me she hung by me till she had to work and then came back just to chat.




* following is just general tip rather than actual PUA info

about taking care of bartenders, just about any place you get drinks from bar/club/lounge/strip club its a good idea to take care of your bartender. I've gone into completely new places had a few drinks not be pushy be friendly and I watch as free drinks come my way from the bartender.

I tend to be more of a bar/lounge type of guy so I usually strike up conversation with the bartender and order a few drinks. Every now and then buy the bartender a drink/shot most times they won't even charge you for what you bought them. But they will be glad that you even OFFERED to do it. If they do charge you usually they get the next round of drinks.

Especially if you frequent the place, i've gone to my favorite bar in the city and there have been times where my bartender has given me a free round of drinks/shots on every other time i have come up for drinks. If it's a place you go to frequently tip heavy leave a good impression and next time you go in bartender will see you in a crowd of faces and serve you quick.

I've done ok in them. Remember these girl's jobs are INCREDIBLY boring. It's a highly competitive work environment for them. Go on a quieter, but not obviously weird night, like a Thursday.

Demonstrate some value, entertain them with jokes and stories, don't fall into a nice guy pattern and de-sexualise it, make it clear she's a hot peice of ass, use kino escalation.

I wound up giving this amazing straberry blonde one a massage on a middle eastern style bed thing in the VIP area once, and email closed. Depending on your locale, etc. They have to be careful they can get fired for even giving out their number to customers. Luckily I randomly ran into the same stripper and her hot black girlfriend in a restaurant near mine like 2 days later and could then number close.

By chance they lived in my neighbourhood and were moving house as the area was getting gentrified so they were getting priced out, so I offered to help them move, I had a 2 seater porsche at the time, they didn't know until I pulled up after I'd said I'd give them a lift, then they got excited and giggled, they kept giggiling as they had to share one seat, a while later they said it wasn't the first time they'd been on top of each other. At that point I lost concentration and crashed the porsche into the dude in front.

This last weekend I went to vegas for my buddies bachelor party. On saturday night we decided to all head out for drinks and possibly a strip joint. So we somehow ended up at the sapphire which turned out to be an awesome night.

However I left that place with more questions than ever. Because she sits on my lap and we start talking about general topics for a good while. Later she tells me shes feeling me and asks for my number so I gave her my number got a dance and told me she would return.



So now I'm thinking to myself, was she being a stripper or was her attempt sincere?

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Who cares?! It's not like you're going to marry this girl, and hell even if you do, don't discriminate against a woman because of her day job. Or night job in this case.

You have your stuff going on. She has her stuff going on. Was she hot?! That's all that matters.

I'm not dissing her Job in anyway-I'm just wondering if her move was an actual attempt. And yes she was banging along with many other girls in the club, In fact I highly recommending the Las Vegas Sapphire.

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Cool. Good work bro! I was actually meant to be flying out to Vegas in the morning for a bachelor party. But I can't because I'm out on bail. Damnit!

WTF? this guy can't even approach and you guys are giving him advice on how to game stripper?

I had 3 SNL's last month and I probably can't even game strippers. Never tried but it would be hard.


A crucial part of the game is to eliminate AA. I guarantee you, your not gonna get no where until you get AA handled. Going to strip club and having women approaching will not have AA help you out.

Sorry If I am harsh but I am just telling you the truth. Stay away from strip clubs and get out to bars or clubs and approach. If your rolling solo, go to a crowded night club.