i wrote down hundreds of tidbits from different mpuas, lay reports, and personal experiences but the only actual important information that changed my game, and my person are condensed into these 14 notes.

some people have posted lists of up to 50 things but those are useless to me because i will never remember them after a week.

- Eye contact is beautiful. the closer you make eye contact the more powerful it is. hold it for longer than is necessary and learn to love it.

- seductive eye contact is never weird, dont bombard her with it like a sexual predator (unless theres a strong vibe going and its on) , but ive never had a negative experience from seductive eye contact.

- **the best advice ive ever given myself. Picture a persons facial expression/reaction before saying something, then simply get that reaction.
if you want a girl to jump on you and fuck you, imagine her facial expression right before it would happen then just go get that out of her.

- be a person that you respect, if your afraid to open, escalate, close, do you respect that man? you want to be a ladies man, be him

- sexual innuendos are everywhere and they should be delivered to BUILD SEXUAL TENSION. if they arent intended to build ST your just creepy/funny not sexy.

- butterflys in your stomach are natural and will always be there, its about being able to make those butterflys fly in formation when it counts.

- you do not need to establish much comfort in order to have sex. the seven hour rule is a lie.

- Do not ever question your game or yourself because things didnt go as planned. Some girls are duds to some guys, whether its personal reasons, or u just dont get along. never let a woman make you question your game.

- in a place were its socially expected for guys to hit on girls (bar, club, social etc) always be atleast the same level of energy as the hb and always approach within 2-3 minutes of seeing a girl.any longer and she can form a negative opinion if she was watching you. she may also think your creepy/wussy since she looked at you multiple times and you didnt approach till ten minutes in.

- As far as group dynamics go, to entertain a crowd simply do whatever you want to entertain yourself and just dont give a fuck about anyones reactions.
with this its all or nothing. if you go 90% on a joke, famous actor impersonation, etc it will sound forced and not get the reaction you want. you have to go 100%

- you miss 100% of the shots you dont take. the only failure is failing to try.

- if you ever think a girl likes you, SHE DOES. dont question it, she does want you.

- whatever you feel she feels. if your nervous around her, shes nervous around you. if she makes you feel horny/attracted to her on a gut level then the feeling is mutual. even if your wrong (which the large majority of time you wont be) this state of mind can only help.
----------------------------------------------------

edit: sorry guys, i just thought of another one that is necessary for the list.

- Is she says NO and leaves its rejection, if she says NO and stays its resistance. women are forced to provide some resistance because its not socially correct for her to sleep with a guy she just met. If you go in for a kiss and she says no, its resistance because she feels she will be a slut. dont get discouraged, shes still around. try again soon!

Some may think that these points are very beginner, and frankly even i think they are but i find that if i go a prolonged time without gaming a new woman i almost feel beginner again. and hell you always gotta get back to your roots once in a while, even kobe bryant, dwayne wade, and lebron james practice their layups.

Good threat Mr. S. Without trying to revise too much, I will add two things:

Don't ever let anyone (woman or not) let you feel bad about your game, or anything else for that matter. Try not to compare yourself to other guys and don't doubt yourself after failing to meet high expectations. Be patient and learn. Prime example, buddy of mine's a natural and pulls pussy every single night. Hard not to let that affect your game, but I'm getting better at learning form him instead.

Always assume every target wants to fuck you. Better yet, know that she does. This goes to frame control and will bring you to radiate confidence like a rockstar. If you believe it, she will.

Solid post with helpful points that I use as well +1

_________________
Rise up, rise up, rise up

Its not about how you fall...its about how you pick yourself up after you've fallen

nothing in this world thats worth having comes easy

how much comfort do you usually use?

is it enough to do a simple get to know you kinda thing and just escalate that into a sexual convo?

dont get me wrong, im no mpua but it all depends on the girl and the situation.

play the girl, not the game. its a very common female fantasy to want to fuck a strangers brains out without even knowing his name. personally i stay away from sexual convos unless she brings it up, its too risky. use of a sexual innuendo will help create a sexual tone for the whole convo, followed by some micro escalation. just try building sexual tension right off the start and see where it takes you.

Some great bits of advice here guys, cheers!

Great post!

Nice post.

I'mNaShit - Check your PM'S brotha

Very nice man. Great post.

Good post, the principles you state are very close to what I worked out my self after reading about the "Parato principle" in that 20% 0f what you learn, do, where you go, will give you 80% of your results.

The most intriguing thing you touched on is "- if you ever think a girl likes you, SHE DOES. dont question it, she does want you."

This touches on a quantum level of pick up that you don't hear much about that I've been researching for a while now.

The basis is that your unconscious mind is operating like a super computer in the background and just knows when a girl is attracted to you. If you could harness that awareness and control it's transmission to women.................?

Consider this: Humans have been around for 5,000,000 years......so how did we attract mates before the advent of language? What is the "machine code" of attraction? I think this will be the next paradigm shift in the evolution of PUA.

have you ever seen Tyler Durdens, the blue print decoded? at one point in it he talks about something called the retinal activation system. Basically, your brain will process everything in your field of vision subconsciously and focus on either things of value, or things that could be potentially dangerous. he also says penguins can pick out the sound of their babies cries over 1000s of other penguins because of that same system.

i noticed something similar a little while ago at work, i always seem to be alittle nervous or more so cautious of what i say when there is a woman that i think is attracted to me is around. at first i thought i was just scared of hot chicks but it happened with some women that i didnt find attractive at all as well. wich led me to realize, i can sense when i am in a womens RAS system and shes paying attention to me. even if i have had no contact with her what so ever i will still be able to tell if shes listening to me and the thing is im always right. if theres a group conversation going on she will always be listening to me even when i say things quietly. your brain is an amazing thing.

imagine that, getting nervous around women your not attracted to in the slightest. its cuz they are attracted to you! crazy shit.

Interesting thoughts, you should make a thread.


-----------------


In the meantime... Great post Mr. to add up some things I just thought:

*Media taught all of us that the best life a man can get is defined by the number of girls he fucks... and well my friend you won't be so happy as James Bond you will end up alone. Watch the movie Alfie and you will get the point.

* Understand girls react in the same way to core things (7 attraction switches, etc.) but they are different if you can show her how she is different to YOU than any other woman, she will love you.

_________________


My website: www.pualife.webs.com

New TWITTER account: http://twitter.com/xfman1

Facebook: xf_pua@hotmail.com

Let's not forget that we didn't have all the social conditioning back then.

i dont think he means social conditioning, he means your instincts can tell whos attracted to you, thats how people who cant communicate with each other besides pointing at stuff will wind up fucking.

In hypnosis there is a principle called "going first" were you put yourself in the mental state you wish your subject to enter.
The principle is, the subject picks up unconsciously micro body language cues which set the frame of the interaction. The clues are called BMIR's (Behavioural manifestations of internal representations) and we give them off all the time.
Have you ever been behind a car on the motorway and just "known" that they are about to switch lanes even though they weren't indicating? Thats subconscious BMIR's leaking out of the driver then you picking them up also on an unconscious level.

I think these BMIR's are the default level of attraction code and would explain a lot of things in PUA; for instance, why do naturals open sets so well without facing rejection?... Because they don't expect to be rejected!

Why do you do so well with HB6-7's once you have a few HB9-10's under your belt?....Because you GENUINLEY don't care about them which causes the aformentioned 6-7's to detect this,attribute you with higher status and thus creates attraction on their behalf.

In one of the "Interviews with dating gurus" series from David Deangelo an interviewee (can't remember which one) once told a story of a time himself and a wingman were in a bar and without saying anything they pretended and visualised that they were the rich successful owners of the bar and just stood there looking at the other customers with this thought in their heads to amazing effect.

Now this is a far out concept but I have tried it myself and 1 in 3 times you can get an effect which can only be described as surreal. Stand there and visualise and totally believe that you're a millionaire rockstar whom all women adore and your BMIR's will follow and be picked up by HB's on an unconscious level and they will approach you.
Any feedback on this guys?