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My only window of opportunity was to chase her in her house and fuck the crap out of her right away. If I had a boner she most probably was excited as well. I had a feeling in that moment, that I should have done it, but then I thought that I could freeze her out a bit and call her later.
Not your "ONLY" window. You'll have a few more with this girl if you seek it out.
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Now I'm LJBF. Maybe permanently.
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Anyway, it is uncanny what level of knowledge for social behavior one can reach practicing this stuff. The more you practice the more you start recognize situations, the more you can make the right decisions at the right moment...
Repetition certainly helps. If you cook fried eggs 1,000 times, your 1,001st egg will probably will be perfect. However, let's take a look at ALL THE DIFFERENCES between your 1st egg and the 1,001 egg.

1. You will unconsciously, through habit, prepare things ahead of time. You'll know that the pan will reach a certain temperature by a certain time. You'll know when the oil is hot enough prior to burning . . . so you'll crack the egg at the right time, prepare the seasoning at the right time, etc . .
2. Because of #1, you will MOVE SLOWER and COOK SLOWER. There will be no surprises. You will not forget something the last minute and run to turn something on or off.
3. The busiest and the best kitchens in the World are run rather slowly. Everything is prepared and when something new happens, they can catch it right away.
4. The worst kitchens look like everything is on fire and everybody is running around like crazy but . . . the food sucks and everything comes out late and cold.

Now . . . again with the the redundant advice. SLOW IT DOWN. Become that calm, efficient, quality producing kitchen. Slow it down during the game and slow it down during your analysis. Do not make rash decisions during your game or during your analysis.
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Regarding changing my goal, I have to tell you kasabi, I really need friends in this city, so I don't mind get LJBF few times...
LOL . . . If you must, why don't you make two different lists? One list can be named, "GOALS" and the other can be named, "THINGS I DON'T MIND." (Just a joke. Your goal and 'things you don't mind' are obviously two different things.) KEEP YOUR GOALS SACRED! Seriously, if your goal was to F this particular girl and you fail, nobody is going to scream playground taunts at you.
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Anyway, lesson learned! Damn, this game is tough! One little mistake, window of opportunity missed, and you're home jerking off like usual!
You make it sound as if the game is over. . . In my mind, it's hardly even begun . . .

This is the type of girl you invite to a bar first. She's a party girl? Really? Let's see just how much fun she really is . . . You'll want to introduce her to weirdo dudes you just met and chat with other girls as if at any moment, you could leave her there with some strange weirdos and go home with a hot girl you just met. (But continue to be ultra friendly and talkative to her when you have time) She'll cling to you like a plastic wrap. (This is your window) Then you basically treat her as a girlfriend that you've already fucked 1,000 times and bring her home with you as this was your 1,001st time. As simple as that.


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30 days in the game

I took a day "off" to think about my goals and to analyze what's happening to me, and my goal in real life.
I started gaming at the beginning of February 2011.
Where am I now?

1) My social life is getting better, I realized it few days ago. If I leave this city, quite some people are going to miss me. My 50yo pivot told me that if I don't get a work permit extension, she's going to marry me. The desk lady from the hotel told me that her 19yo HB3 daughter loves me. An other guy from the hotel told me "Italian, you always make my day". One old men at the bar every time that he sees me he goes ballistic. An 18yo HB9 waitress from the bar told the old bar guy that she likes me. An other HB7 waitress always genuinely smile at me. A desk guy told me I am a natural born comedian.
All of this stuff is happening in the last month. Before this, I was just an other guy for those people.
This is a good inner game boost. I am a loveable guy.

2) I am getting better with girl, after all. I haven't had sex with anyone yet. Last time was 3 months ago with my ex-gf. But I got kissed by a girl last Saturday, this is something. I would have never done it without PUA. Most probably I still would be creeping out my ex-gf right now, trying to win her back, if I never discovered PUA. This is also something. Few little steps, but in the right directions.

3) I am facing my uncomfortable zones. I go out in clubs alone (last time I did that was 5 years ago). I try to push myself to talk to strangers. I try to make as much as eye contact as I can with everybody. I have fun dancing.

4) I went to Toastmaster yesterday. It really opened my eyes. Body language, speak slowly, clear voice, nice grammar, esquisite words, confidece. It really makes a difference. Also, at this club there were a lot of people with handicaps. A guy was blind, a girl had a car crash and was brain injured, a couple of non-proper-funcioning brain old pals. They pushed themselves forward in an incredible way. What they've achieved was uncanny. They were speaking to hundreds of people, in a clear, confident and emotional way. If they were able to do that, I should be able to become President of USA! I think I will continue going to Toastmaster. Is not a good place to sarge, but it's a woderful place for the inner game. I almost cryed when this lady gave a 10 min speech about her car crash in which she was brain-injured and the aftermaths.

5) Sadly, I have to admit, I am not paying attention to my job as much as I should. I need to separate PUA and my job, because the temptation of reading some material at work is always high. And I should stop. Writing a report form work at lunch break, or writing some thoughts like these in my coffee break is ok. Reading other's people material during work time is not ok. I have to separate the twos. Where one is at the beginning of the learning curve, the temptation of reading everything about it is very high! It is kind of an addiction!

6) Slow down and meditation are two elements that I've not been working on as hard as I should. I recall in a couple of occasion, even at the date at the mall, I started slowing down my words... she was getting super-receptive and smiley. Toastmaster from this point of view will help me achieving that confidence with practicing.

7) Do I want to f-close the ExLesbianHB8? Yes I do. Let's the game begin!

8 ) Start tidy things up at work, at the house, in life. I'm too messy right now for my standards. Also, I think I'm sleeping too much, maybe because of the very cold temperatures I'm not used to. Some nights I go down for 10 hours or something. That is too much, I can't make it become an habit.

9) Start a paper journal/note journal as well.

10) Be the MAN, always. Go for it!


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1) My social life is getting better, I realized it few days ago. If I leave this city, quite some people are going to miss me. My 50yo pivot told me that if I don't get a work permit extension, she's going to marry me. The desk lady from the hotel told me that her 19yo HB3 daughter loves me. An other guy from the hotel told me "Italian, you always make my day". One old men at the bar every time that he sees me he goes ballistic. An 18yo HB9 waitress from the bar told the old bar guy that she likes me. An other HB7 waitress always genuinely smile at me. A desk guy told me I am a natural born comedian.
All of this stuff is happening in the last month. Before this, I was just an other guy for those people.
This is a good inner game boost. I am a loveable guy.
Check this out:

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn-the ... languages/

Yes, they market this stuff as a guide for married folks but the 5 expressions of love are applicable to EVERYONE and EVERYTHING. It's not only a gift to those you love but a gift that returns back to you 10-fold. It's amazing to me that so many people freely practice these habits to their pets, toys(such as cars, motorcycles) or even their hobbies but forget to express these things to PEOPLE.

How great does it feel to be liked and loved by others? How great does it feel to have the respect of others? How great is it to see a smile form on another's face when they see you? You are receiving these gifts through their 'languages of love'. Freely communicate your thoughts and gratitude back to them through your 'languages' and allow all these relationships to flourish.

Back to Pick Up:

Whereas men navigate the World with one radar,(penis goes up or penis goes down) women rely on multiple instruments to position themselves. They meet a strange guy for the first time and they can pretty much figure out whether he's a professional or a professional wrench flipper. She can figure out whether he's got lots of close friends or lots of enemies. She can sense whether he gets along with women, kids, older folks, etc . . . (These are all the things that come into play when a girl's heart pulls her towards you or away from you)

Women who naturally gravitate toward men who surround themselves with loving people usually have the ability to give and receive love freely and know that this is a good environment for them. Follow your last post and you'll quickly realize that this isn't really 'pick-up' but rather an invitation.


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Hi! Italian ,

I can from personal experience tell that toastmaster helps a lot.

Dont use it to as a place to sarge but use it as a place to make social contacts and to work on your inner game.

I have been in toastmaster a year , it was working on my self confidence but i guess i dint need it so dint use it properly than.
Who knew the one i gave everything would leave me.
Sorry for the rant.

Please use toastmaster and enjoy its benefits.
Work seriously in toastmaster, give yourself 6 months at toastmaster and see the difference.

I am also working on my voice with a voice coach.
If i find any improvement, ill Post in detail on working with voice .

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Please use toastmaster and enjoy its benefits.
Work seriously in toastmaster, give yourself 6 months at toastmaster and see the difference.

I am also working on my voice with a voice coach.
If i find any improvement, ill Post in detail on working with voice.
Thanks for the input Illusionist! I actually think I won't need 6 months for see improvements! I've improved somehow even in that one single day I've been there. Just listening to the story of those people was wonderful and inspiring for the inner game.

I don't think I need a voice coach, at least for now... I am Italian, don't forget :-) I can make a girl cum just speaking to her (this is not totally a joke :wink: )

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2u70eco6WY[/youtube]

Thursday night

A little field update, nothing special.

The ExLesbianHB8 is going to Toronto this weekend, so I won't be able to meet her. I send a couple of cocky-funny messages during the week, and that will be it. I think I will freeze her out until next Thursday.

The strategy I've planned to hit on her is very simple: I'm going to play the "pick-up training" card. She knows I'm single and I'm searching on the field.
So I'm going to ask her to try this "new techniques" on her I am try do develop to pick up chicks, like the Shock-and-Awe opener, or the Fucking-Italian-Irresistible-SuperKiss, or even some simple body language stuff.
Just to have some feedback from a girl, you know? :wink:
Then, once we go out in a club, I'm going to try those in field in front of her, and I really want to see what her reactions will be :wink:

I went out to the usual Thursday Club yesterday.

My only two goals of the night were:
1) SLOW DOWN.
2) make eye contact with everybody and wave to the ones that keep the eye contact.

Jesus, slow down looked very simple, it's totally not.
The energy level is very high, walking slowly, speaking slowly and moving slowly is much more difficult than expected. Sometimes I even felt like a retard doing it (walking slowly, while people behind me were almost pushing me to go for a smoke or something lol!).
A lot of times I found myself going faster, without even realizing it.

Look everybody in the eye is much more simple...

The only noteworthy interaction happened at the beginning of the night, with this sweet-face-omg-I'm-falling-in-love-with-you-babe HB9.

This HB9 works at the desk at my gym. Last time I've seen her at the gym she and other employees were having a meeting about "how to deal with clients", for example when they want to cancel a subscription... In the meantime, I was training juggling...

The opener was easy because she was speaking with a girl I know, so there was no risk of cockblocking.
The girl I know leave her and I approached her with "Do you work at the gym?"
HB9: "Yes" - smiling, open body language
Me: "What's your name?" - mistake, even if we met at the gym and she recognized me, still not enought comfort build for names
HB9: "I'm sweet-face-omg-I'm-falling-in-love-with-you-babe HB9"
I shake her hand, look in her eyes and wait for her to ask my name. She does not.
HB9: "Are you having something from the bar?"
Me: "No, I'm not having any drink! I am making an experiment: 6 months without alcohol, coffee and sex"
HB9: smiling "Wow, how is it going?"
Me: "Very bad, it is extremely hard to quit having sex with girls! So, please, stop hitting on me! I can't fail my experiment for you!" - disqualify
HB9 smiles but does not say anything.
I keep 30 seconds of silence but I reach eye contacts from time to time and smile. This was weird as I expected some comments like - I'm not hitting on you!
Me: "So, I want to cancel my membership at the gym!" - bait
HB9: "What?? Why?"
Me: "It's not a very good gym, I've seen better..." -
HB9 - start to qualify the hell out of her gym (that actually is one of the best in town) - hook
Me: "What are you doing??? That is not what your boss was teaching you during the meeting! You have to deal differently with people that wants to cancel membership! And where is my compliment? Your boss taught you to compliment, so, I am waiting for you throwing some compliments at me! You're such a bad student!" - this one is quite a gold comment, it has everything... neg, DHV, cocky-funny, her-qualify, I LOVED MYSELF IN THIS MOMENT
She, blushing and laughing : "You have a nice tie!" - she kinoed my chest

At this point (I was going to reel "Ok, I'll keep my membership" and release ) but, to my complete total shame, I was AMOGed by some guy.
He approached ME, shook my hand, assumed a dominant position on my HB9, cut me off, and he started speaking to her. Jesus.
They walked away almost immediately, I have to assume they know each other (I don't think he's her boyfriend). I got cockblocked anyway.

Later on, I've seen her with some of her girlfriends texting like crazy in a quiet zone of the room. I didn't want to disturb. She seemed too much into it.

I left the club early because I had to work next day.

Lessons Learned
- slowing down is very difficult, I need to practice much more.
- on the other side, if I speak slowly, I have more time to think about what to say. The bait-hook-reel-release technique I was nonchalantly throwing at her wasn't planned and was wonderful. I could have never thought about it if I wasn't slowing down words and thinking about it. :D

Mistakes
- asking for her name too early in the stage. Even if we've seen each other in the gym, I shouldn't have done it
- I could have opened with the bait-hook-reel-release! That would have been hilarious! Opening with "I want to cancel my membership at the gym!" BOOM :shock:

Update of the journal
- In the place where Toastmaster meeting are taking place, there are also guitar lessons and drawing lessons. I may start attendig those two. They will add a lot to my style!


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... I am Italian, don't forget :-) I can make a girl cum just speaking to her (this is not totally a joke :wink: )
. . . On some nights, I am an Asian Italian. :lol: :lol:

And don't confuse 'slowing down' with 'low energy'.


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Great posts kasabi, i agree with what he says italian, you are doing great man, but slow it down a bit. Take it easy and enjoy it. Also, dont take the game so seriously, it IS a game after all. And, you will notice over time how as you get better at this the easier it gets... girls will be stricken by you and you will have not done anything consciously. It will just flow out of you naturally. Girls arent mean or bad or anything, dont fall into that stupid trap. Just because she said NO now doesnt mean that its NO forever... you gotta realize... there are no rules in life. Life is what you make out of it. So go out and play by your own rules. Also remember, if you dont give up... you never lose.

Also Italian, take some time to think, when you are skirt chasing, and ask yourself... WHY do you wanna sleep with this girl?? what are your motives, and what makes her so special to you, if you can answer those questions, then you will naturally know if shes a skirt putting a lot of effort into.

And i hate to sound like a broken record myself too, but yeah bro... dont be afraid to take it slow... sometimes, if you take it TOO fast, you end up blowing and potentially good opportunity, and are not able to carefully plan out your moves... not only that, but patience is something that is valued by all women. Look man, as long as you are constantly escalating on her, you wont be friend-zoned, no matter how slow you take it, just be careful, slow game is for relationships, not for womanizing... so learn to calibrate... anyways man, gl with your journey, remember that most of what you are doing is to learn, but have some fun along the way, the game is meant to be fun, dont take it too seriously....

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A boring weekend

This weekend I didn't go out on Saturday and I didn't go to the library as planned on Sunday, both because of a really bad weather and 50 cm of snow falling down during the night and messing up the streets.

I went out on Friday, by the way.

Friday 9pm, meeting with some CouchSurfing people.

I went to the meeting bar, there was this CouchSurfing HB6 (later promoted to HB7 because of her attitude) and 6 dudes with her, that didn't belong to CouchSurfing.

So I figured it wouldn't be a good time to sarge (also I suspected one of the guys was her boyfriend), but it could be a nice exercise to AMOG the group, that was clearly NOT having fun, or at least not having the kind of fun they should.

I immediately realize that the group would split in two (Me-HB7-herBF-Man1) + (the other three guys). OR I should entertain the whole group with a speech or with something like that.

So I started talking about Italy with the "separated group". I started out socializing with HB7, that was my way in. She was the one that "organized" the night...

After 30 minutes of fluffing with HB7 and herBF, I started thinking about AMOGing the whole group. So I took the bait with a guy that told me he's going to Italy in the summer for visiting his realtives.

I started teaching Italian to the group. I really made their night. They could't stop laughing. I started with the normal words, and then suddenly switched to the swearing part! I took out a little empty booklet from my bag and I started writing down words and sentences in Italian.

I will write down here the swearing part because it's funny and because I can use this gimmicks again in sarging... It is a nice way to introduce sex into conversation... AFC Daniel, you can do the same stuff with your French!

Baciare - Kissing
Limonare - Kissing with tongue
Pomiciare - Making out
Sega (literally "saw") - Handjob
Pompino (literally "pump-job") - Blowjob
Bocchino (literally "mouth-job") - Blowjob
Scopare (literally "sweep") - Fuck
Fregare (literally "scrub down") - Fuck hard
Fottere - Fuck really hard
Inculare - Fuck in the ass

Then I was teaching them how to say "I want" "I can" and "please"... so they were making sentences in italian like "I want to fuck you in the ass, please"

It was hilarious, it really made my day, and I was pleased they were having a night completely different from any other night they had, because of me.
I let them have the booklet when I left (early at 10:30, because the AMOGing went perfect, but there was noone to sarge there...)

I should perfection this gimmick when I sarge. I have to start very slow (for example with food and polite stuff) and then switch to the sex and swearing stuff. :lol:

An other little gimmick I did (until point 3) to the HB7.

1) You know, I noticed here in Canada, when people meet each other and when they say bye, they hug or sometimes even do nothing.
2) In Italy they kiss each other on the cheeks. Two kisses one for each cheek. (kiss the girl to show it)
3) A more formal way of greeting is - shake your hand then kiss (kiss the girl again to show it)
4) To the people I know better, it is common to do 4 kisses, two for each cheek, (kiss the girl 4 times to show it)
5) To my best friends, only the VERY best friend, we kiss two times one for each cheek, and one little kiss on the lips... at this point, you either try to get her qualify "of course you're not a good friend of mine, so you don't deserve a lip kiss yet"... either you go for the kiss close.

I also did other tricks with Italian language (that is REALLY a huge weapon in my bag for sarging), I may write them when I'll perfection them and use them extensively... so stay tuned!


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Haha! I'll try it with French indeed! Thanks for the vocabulary, I'll have some fun with my Italian friends here :)

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This is not going to be a memorable St Patrick Day

My inner game is basicly wrecked again.

Yesterday night I had to work until 4am because of an emergency happening in a quotation for a freaking 130 millions dollar job, and I was the only one able to do the quotation, and the deadline was today, so I had to work all night. I am tired and lazy today.

Yesterday I called ExLesbianHB8 (to vent a little bit for the unexpectedly long day at work), she didn't answer. :?
After that, I called an other number (closed few days ago) I was messaging with, she didn't answer. :x

Today I texted ExLesbian HB8 to see what she was doing for St. Patrick Day. No answer until now. :shock:
Then I discovered on Plenty of Fish one of the chicks I was messaging with blocked my account, for ridiculous reasons (if i guess it right). :evil:
I texted my CouchSurfer HB7 friend asking what she was doing for St Patrick, she said she'll go out with some coworkers. No invitation (not that I wanted any, I don't really like the place she is going to spend the night...) :roll:
Then I called one of my male friends (he's gay by the way). No answer. :twisted:

WTF is going on???

Why is EVERYBODY flaking on me on St Patrick Day?

What the hell is with these Canadian people, why don't they pick up their phone?
Why do they even have a phone if they don't pick it up when it rings? Ahahahhahahah :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

I guess it will be an other SOLO night, as usual.
Not the best beginning of a party night, anyway...

I'll try to fix my inner game asap, I have still few hours before going out...
8) 8) 8) 8)


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This is just a vent, so don't read it :?

1) My inner game is definetly wrecked.

2) Tomorrow is my birthday and I officially have NOTHING to do.
I have no friend in this city. The only people I can call "friends" are out of town, so I can't hang out with them. My other option is to have some lame poker game with a group of 50yo ladies. Not looking forward for it.

3) I had a text convo with ExLesbianHB8, she basically said she had a date and a party with her friends, so she's busy tomorrow and it is clear I can't go to her party. I think I will freeze her out for at least two weeks.

4) I am really bogged down and tempted to call my ex, but I know it will only result to a devastating crush and burn. I won't do it.

5) Yesterday night out clearly showed me that I am not opening as much as I should. I HAVE to get rid of this shyness. I have to freaking open, man.
The night game is very tough for me.
This weekend has to be all about AA. Going SOLO is a nightmare when you can't open sets in good quantity.
I have to get rid of it definitely, once it for all.
I am even thinking about buying some drinks for the chicks. I really hate it, as it shows weakness, but it's for the sake of the journey. It is a development step. Once I get finally rid of this AA, I'll not buying drinks anymore.

P.S. I just recieved a text from CouchSurferHB7! She invited me in a house party!I have some friend, after all!
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Hey Italian,

I've been through a real AFC phase too lately.

Relax. Read some material and re-conquer your confidence. In my case, I've read 60yoc first chapters on mindset. His micro-avoidance concept is really interesting. Get out man and kill every small hesitations to rebuild your inner state. Hesitating to ask for some informations to this cashier? Go for it. Kill the micro-avoidance that prevents you from having nice social interactions. It worked for me :)

Hope this help.

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Happy birthday!

The "community" is quite developed in Canada. Have you considered to join a local lair?

When I moved to Montreal, I was lonely and found really cool guys thanks to a forum. It might sound lame but it's worth to try it.

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Keep opening, keep meeting, keep closing . . .

Various women will naturally gravitate towards some people more than others. You will eventually be able to enlarge your pool by figuring out certain traits/tendencies of various women and playing off of their needs/fears but for now, you'll want to just keep going with what comes EASILY for you. Everything you've been doing is fine. Just do it over, over, and over again with enough women and many will tag along for the ride.

It's once you gain some confidence with your basic style that you can start branching off and trying new things to 'enlarge' your pool.

Put it this way. . . if you're a young engineer applying for a new job, they don't hire you for 100 different skills. They hire you because you're decent with your core competency. It's once you've mastered this skill with that particular company that the execs might want you to take a business course, learn some finance, operations, marketing, etc . . . so that you can communicate with more members of the company and MANAGE more people.

Everything will fall into place. Have some patience, don't look to far ahead, and continue what you've been doing. All of this will happen faster than you realize but if you fall into thinking "I have to get all the girls, all the time, right now," you'll miss out the the girls who are standing right in front of you.


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Saturday night: social proof

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AcSa7R7PUAA[/youtube]

Attention readers: this field report is FULL of stuff you should never do, and absolutely avoid. So, most probably you won't learn anything from it.

So.
Until the last minute I was very indecided about going out or not. My inner game was wrecked and I was not in the mood to go out.

I basically forced myself to go out. It was my birthday after all. My plan was to go out with 40$ total and buy drinks for some girl. This is not my usual plan, I hate buying drinks as it come off as a try-hard and DLV. But I figured, let's do something different from the usual.

I read the first chapters of 60 years of challenge, and it really helped me. Rejections are a joke in nightgame. They always happens. Opening is not fun, is not supposed to be fun, is just a way of screening the girls.

So I went in tha club, it was kinda of early. I spot a girl sitting alone. She was a HB8. I opened immediately. It turned out she just came in this city, 4 days ago. I bought her a drink. She left me after 2 minutes with the excuse "I have to go to my sister on the dance floor". Anyway, the night was begun!

After this first "rejection" nothing really mattered. Literally. I was opening like never before. Sometimes I was opening with weird stuff, like if some girl even slightly bumped into me, I was all like "Ahia! OMG you hurted me, you're bad, apologize to me!". I wasn't always recieving positive vibes from the other side, but that was not the point. I was talkative and opening.

I went to the bar. An HB7.5 girl was alone ordering some drink.
I said: "May I buy you this drink?"
She: "No" - looking at me weirdly
After 30 seconds
She: "Ok, yes!"
At this point I really wanted to punish her, saying something like "you missed your window of opportunity babe, next time don't be such a bitch"
But, instead, I bought her a drink.
She left me after 2 minutes like the other one. She even managed to mention her boyfriend in this two minutes, that apparently is a soldier in a mission in Lybia or something. Lol.

A birthday treat

Still, rejection didn't matter. I was on fire.
I went on the dance floor. There was the HB8 girl I opened at the beginning of the night. I started dancing with her. She was very receptive. I made all my dance floor moves with her. She was having a lot of fun. She said "wow, you're an awesome dancer! you really know how to dance". Thank you babe. I grabbed her , I moved my leg inside hers, I started rubbing her pussy with my leg. At the same time, I started speaking italian in her hear. I said her the most dirty stuff that came into my mind (who cares, she wouldn't understand). At that point I went for a sexual bite on the base of her neck. I took a bunchload of meat in my mouth and bite very strong. She was compliant and turned on. I went for the make out. Some resistance here. We made out for a couple of minutes.
At this point something clicked into her mind. She separated from me and started dancing with her friends, then she said "I have to go to the bathroom".
I think I know what "clicked" into her mind. It was me buying her a drink as an opener. I was framed as a "try-hard DLV guy that has nothing better to do that buy drinks to girl to get their approval".

Anyway, the night was still young. And I builded a huge social proof with my dance moves with HB8.

The sloppiest #-close ever

I started dancing in the cages. I opened a 2-set (HB6 & HB7) that were glancing at me. I bought them drinks. After that we kept dancing together.
They went to the bathroom and I went to other parts of the club.
At this point I saw the HB8 I made out with earlier, making out with an other guy. Lol. At the end of the night I will see her again, making out with a third guy. She was without shoes and clearly drunk and not fully in control of herself. Lol.

The couple HB6 & HB7 came back to me. Now I was starting getting really annoyed at them. HB6 was basically begging me for buying them an other drink. I was getting uncomfortable, but after all, she was just a kid and it was my birthday.
I said: "I never buy drinks to girls because girls don't respect the guy that buys them drinks"
HB6: "But I respect you!" - bla bla bla
Me: "Ok, give me your phone number"
They gave me their phone number, for the most SLOPPY number close ever. They gave me the number ONLY because they want the drink. Lol.

I started dancing in the cage. I have to tell you, people here don't know how to dance. I feel like I'm the King here, because I am able to move. At some point, a guy started FILMING me with a semi-professional camera for a good ten minutes. I couldn't believe it. This was a HUGE social proof.

The quickest #-close ever

I was walking when this 3-set came in my direction. The third person of the 3-set, an HB6 without boobs, put a hand on my chest, smiled at me and gave me those "I would fuck you" eyes. But she kept walking and passed me, she clearly had no intention to stop.
I turned around and, to my own surprise, the following words came out of my mouth "Give me your phone number!".
She stopped, flabbergasted, and gave me her phone number.
Just like that. This is my personal record. Getting a girl phone number in the first 10 second of interaction.
I really felt like GOD. That was awesome.
Thanks to social proof.

Lessons Learned
- This was a good day for opening a huge amount of people, social proof and self confidence boost. It really helped me. Open, open, open. Rejections are a joke. Lol

Mistakes
- Where do I begin? Everything was a mistake, apart from the quickest number close and the making out session.


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