Well, that seems like a plan indeed But I got news for you A:HB8 just sent me a message on Facebook:

Hi FR, how are you? Hope that you are fine.
So, we didn't get a chance to make the pictures:-(
I won't come tomorrow in your party because I going to XXX (another city) today on a road trip, that is a pity!! I wish you a great time in your party tomorrow and a very nice weekend!! All the best to You!!! I see you either in your country or in Brazil.
Hugs and kisses

A:HB8

I can't really be bothered, I called her and talked to her for a little bit. I'm going to have fun tomorrow anyway.

Tonight I'm going out with a friend to a night club for the last time in this city. Mission will be to approach, but mainly to have fun while approaching as there will be no long future with any girl anyway. Just see how far I can push it into a ONS right away

Friday night at the club

Last night I went clubbing and it was difficult. I mean, my motto was to have fun with my friend and sarge at the same time.

Goals:
- Having fun with my friend
- Opening as much girls as possible, see where it goes, I have only two days left here in this country

Strategy:
- Try to be social/alpha and start spontaneous conversations

Field report:
While sarging I had a very difficult time. I noticed that when I'm not with my group of friends I found it very difficult to talk to anyone. I stood there for about an hour looking around not talking to anyone. Just to break the silence I opened a guy standing next to me. We had a nice talk and then he left. I opened a couple by taking there picture and had a nice conversation with them for a while.

After that it was a bit easier, but still not very good. I finally opened some girls. One girl was wearing a panther print dress and she was dancing in front of me.

Me: Hey, do all panthers dance like that?
She: Yes, do you like it?
Me: Not sure, maybe you should take a look at that zebra girl over there.
She: Hmpfff, and turned around

One girl opened me to ask me for the bathroom and I showed her. She gave me a kiss on my cheek. She was only an HB5 so I didn't really bother. I tried some more girls, but did not really have any results that were worth posting here. After a while I was standing in a corner and I saw panther girl walking by again. She sat down on a low seat next to me and I opened her again.

Me: Are you alright?
She: Yes, just a bit tired.
Me: Maybe you should go home then?
She: I can't, my friends don't wanna go, but I'm sick of the music here
Me: I like it, but it's a bit too loud
She: It's shit music, I can't dance on it
...........
conversation continues
...........
She: Sorry, I gotta go and dance again, see ya
--- She runs over to her friends and started dancing with them again.

I saw a gorgeous girl HB9 with tight red leggings. Her ass was one of the best I've ever seen and at the front you could "read her lips". I sat down on a couch a bit far away from her to enjoy the view. I couldn't think of anything to say to her. Then when the music stopped I went to get my jacket downstairs. There was a long line and while I was waiting, the next person to wait behind me was....her.

Me: Damn, this line is so long
HB9: This is gonna take a while
Me: Looks like it.... and I'm hungry as well
HB9: Hungry for what?
Me: For some sandwich or something like that. I like your leggings by the way, they are very.....
HB9: Tight?
Me: Uhmmm, yes they are tight
HB9: Yes, you can see my ass very well (she turns around)
Me: Yup... very nice
HB9: Thanks, but I know it's nice...
Me: OK, I was just confirming it
HB9: OK, thanks

Then I didn't know what to do, I was shocked by what she said and I had no idea how to react to a girl talking to me in that kind of way. I simply waited for my turn, got my jacket and went home.

Results
- I waited for a very long time, standing still awkwardly doing nothing
- I finally opened a guy and a couple, had some nice conversations
- Now it was easier, but still difficult to open
- I opened almost no one in the end
- I had an awkward conversation with panther girl
- I had an even stranger conversation with red leggings girl
- Red leggings girl seemed to be interested, or she just wanted to make fun of me

Mistakes
- I waited to long to open anyone in general
- I had no good opener with panther girl
- I had no opener for red leggings girl, only when she was standing behind me
- I was shocked by red leggings girl's direct talk

What I learned
- I need to get over my AA in places where I don't know people
- Maybe I should start with the newbie game when I'm back in my country
- I'm good with people that I know, but I am still a social retard in other places

Follow up
- Tonight is my goodbye party here
- Goals: Have a lot of fun, have sad feelings, and use those to get some kisses from hot girls

My goodbye party

Goals
Have a lot of fun, have sad feelings, and use those to get some kisses from hot girls

Strategy
Just go and have fun while drinking beers

Field report
During the day I finished packing. My Italian male SPAM didn't want to come to the party and I was a bit annoyed with him. My other two SPAM an Italian HB7.5 that I've fucked several times before and my replacement, a Portuguese HB7 came along.

We stopped to get some beers before joining the party and by the time we were arrived, some people were already there. I high-fived and hugged the guys, while hugging and kissing the girls. My date for the last week, did not show up, I knew this already, also one of the two girls I kissed on the lips earlier this week would not come tonight. Too bad, but no worries

To be honest I didn't feel like gaming that night. All was about having fun with my friends, of which some I will probably never see again. Others I will for sure see again as I consider them to be among my best friends. I think during the night I have met only one new person, a nice Swiss HB7. I talked to her for a bit, but decided it was more important to spend time with my friends.

Every time someone left the party, they would come over me and say goodbye. I was very busy and it was emotional from time to time as well. I actually did get a lot of kisses from the girls. Loads on my cheeks, some on my lips, never with tongues, but really, I was not aiming for that.

There was a small situation where an HB6 friend of me was starting to get really into me. I considered isolating her outside for a bit, but I decided to let it go and stay inside with the rest. By the time almost everyone was gone, me and my SPAM decided to take a taxi and go home.

Back home
This is where the interesting stuff happened The night was over, but actually not yet! As the Portuguese HB7 already took my room earlier this week, I had to sleep on the couch before leaving. Not a big deal, but it was kind of uncomfortable. She was already very tired and went to bed straight away. Me and my Italian HB7.5 were a bit hungry and we decided defrost a pizza in the oven. We were talking about how sad it was that I was leaving. As I said before, we fucked each other a couple of times when we started to live with each other, but later on we became best friends. I can say she is the best friend I have ever had in my life. She now has a boyfriend. After eating the pizza, the story went like this:

Me: Hmmm, that was good, I needed that pizza
She: Yes, but now it's time to go to bed and tomorrow you leave (with a pouty voice and face)
Me: I know.... (I gave her a big hug and started kissing her forehead)

....silence, while hugging....

Me: Arghhh, one more night at that small couch
She: Yes, but tomorrow you can sleep in a bed again right?
Me: Yes, but I want to sleep on a bed now, can I sleep with you in yours?
She: Uhhhhhh??
Me: Come on, we have slept in the same bed before, even after you have a boyfriend. No sex, just best friends spending the last night together because I'm gonna miss you.
She: OK, why not

At that time, I was seriously not even after sex. We had slept together in the same bed multiple times without having sex as well. Specially since she has the boyfriend nothing sexual had occurred between the two of us. In bed I hugged her as I would always do and she fell asleep. As I can pretty much not fall asleep when touching/hugging someone in bed I separated myself from her, turned around and wanted to sleep myself. Not much later, she turned around and started hugging me. Then her hand went down and she grabbed my dick. Of course it was on and I did not hesitate to fuck her one more time before going away the next morning. After the sex we fell asleep.

Results
- I had a great night out, meeting all my friends and got drunk
- It was a sad night, having to say goodbye and farewell to a lot of people
- I got laid with my best friend!
- I am still happy and sad now that I'm back

Mistakes
- No mistakes this time!!

What I learned
- Sex still feels good
- Sex with your best friend, doesn't have to be the end of your friendship
- I don't need to game to get sex sometimes (however I told her about the game and tested some routines and openers on her to get her opinion)
- She is my semi oneitis, as I already miss her like crazy

Next up:
- The trip back home....

The way back home
So... what you guys didn't know yet, was that I am a Dutch guy who was living in Dublin, Ireland. On Sunday I went back to the Netherlands to continue my life there.

After the exciting night in which I f-closed my Italian SPAM it was time to go to the airport. She's my very best friend and even though we fucked, this is not going to change our friendship, in fact it strengthens it. As I was carrying around three bags with only the opportunity to carry two at the same time she offered me to bring me to the airport. We had an emotional goodbye, but hopefully it will be a "see you soon" as I wouldn't like the fact to not see her for a long time. Including her many others that I left behind.

Back in the Netherlands
As soon as I was back in the Netherlands the hell started. I couldn't walk with the three bags and needed from the airport to the bus, from the bus to the train ticket desk, from the train ticket desk to the train, from one train to another and from the train to the car. I had to ask approximately 10 people to help me carrying one of my bags for a while. This wasn't easy, but I'm glad some people were really helpful here. At that point I didn't game anyone as I just needed help and wanted to go home as soon as possible.

Approaching in the train
However, as soon as I finally reached the train I felt like I needed to contact my family to let them know when I would be arriving at their place. My Irish phone didn't work, so I wanted to approach someone to borrow their phone and perhaps pay for the call. As I was standing next to my luggage instead of sitting relaxed I just felt like approaching the first person that I would see. Good thing it was a HB8 who was half Dutch, half Moroccan. She was there with her 2 year old son though.

Me: looking for eye contact and smiling while she is entertaining her kid
Her: looking and smiling back
Me: Aren't kids great? I'm coming back from Ireland just to see my sister's baby grow up.
Her: Ohhh yes, they are wonderful, I got three kids myself. Did you say you're coming from Ireland?
Me: Yes, I lived there for 1.5 year, but now it's time to go back here...
Her: Wow, interesting (and she started to ask me a lot about Ireland)

Well, the conversation went on and on and on, firstly only talking about Ireland, coming back to the Netherlands and my sister's baby. Then when I asked her about her three kids the conversation changed into shit talk about her ex boyfriend (the father of the boy that was with her in the train) and how she hated him because he doesn't want to recognize his child.

She seemed to be very fond of me because I came back from Ireland, just to see my sister's baby grow up. According to her that makes me a wonderful father, in case I ever will get a kid (DHV). I told her I wasn't sure about that and told her I had not much experience with little kids at all, but that I was very excited to start experiencing it. In the meanwhile I tried to interact with her kid ass well and the conversation continued.

At some point I managed to stop her talking about her ex boyfriend and we got back to regular stuff again. Then I realized that I had to leave the train at the next stop and as she mentioned before that she's living in the same city, but just one single train stop further I asked her for her phone number and I easily got it.

Mistakes
- I did not KINO the HB8 and I didn't talk sexually with her. (not strange as she was with her 2 year old child)

Results
- #closed an HB8 right after arriving back in the Netherlands
- approached plenty of others who helped me with my luggage
- No KINO and sex talk might result in a LJBF situation

What I learned
- I thought it would be difficult to communicate in Dutch now I am used to game in English, but this was not the case
- Half Dutch/Half Moroccan girls are hot!! I never thought about that combination in the past
- Talking in a train is easy

Future strategy
- I got her number and told her I will contact her in the next few days when I got my new Dutch number
- I don't think it's a problem to be LJBF with her as I got almost no friends here anymore
- Still wouldn't mind f-closing her, with 3 kids she seems very sexually experienced
- Make sure to wear a condom I don't want to be delivering her kid number 4

Quick update:

Today I called the half Dutch/half Moroccan girl to let her know I have a local phone number now. She immediately started asking me how I was, I was settling and what I've been doing the last couple of days. I kept the situation short. She then said she wanted to see me, so I offered her tomorrow and she was fine with that. We will be in contact about the details, as of time and location, but it seems good. Now I got some time to brainstorm on where I would like to take her as it's been a long time since I've been anywhere in this city.

Nice job, man!

Make sure you start applying kino as soon as possible from the beginning of the date, since you didn't do anything on the train (yeah it would have been difficult but not impossible!)...

Try to have fun with her, avoid dinner or movies... is there an amusement park in your city? Even just a normal park would be nice if the weather is good!

Have a wonderful date!

Thanks for the heads up and suggestion It's nice to get a reply from time to time. I still don't know yet where to take her, but I was not planning to take her to the movies or dinner. Park could be nice, but it depends indeed on the weather, also on the time we are going to meet. If it's during the day, it sounds good. During the evening would be more difficult, as a park isn't as nice during th evening.

Wow FR! I've been out for 4 days but I can tell you've been busy!

Congrats for all these results! It feels good to see your success. It motivates me even more. The dates you and TheFuckingItalian have had are really inspiring to me.

I hope I'll get a date soon to practice too.

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