What do you do about a bad reputation? If you have other girls literally warn your target off you, saying you've been rude to other women, saying you're a player, saying you've got into fights with other guys, and things like that.

How do you deal with it? Especially if your look is kinda a bad guy look (shaved head, tatts, peircings).

If even getting through that, the girl later wants to break up with you because she complains "you're too much of a bad boy I need a good boy you're not right for me"?

Especially if it's all true and you have done those things, and are more liberal about drinking, drug usage, and sexuality than your peer group?

I own up to a bad reputation, I embrace it and LOVE IT! If you are a tattooed, bald headed player, more power to you. The drug use I don't condone, especially if it's wrecking your personal life. However, don't play your reputation down...girls always fall for the bad boys.

If a girl asks me if I'm a player, I say 'yes, I am...I love women and I'm not ashamed of it.' Either she is o.k. with it, or she is not....regardless, it does not matter. If you are happy with yourself, f*ck it...don't change who you are to fit someone's ideals.

If a girls says 'you are not right for me, i need a good boy'. Your response should be, 'You are right, i am HORRIBLE for you. If you are looking for a good boy, you are definitely barking up the wrong tree babygirl. Maybe you can find your Justin Beaver at the mall or something, cya'.

By the way, her comment is a sh*t test to see if you buckle and try to change for HER. I think you can guess what my response is to THAT.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Most people would say 'just keep being yourself', but I would tell you to tone it down a bit and show that you can also be kind of sweet. I could know, cause I have had a simular situation and the moment I started to be nicer I saw a HUGE improvement in my social life. You're whole 'being the badboy-thing' is (for the most part) a defence-mechanism imo.

x Lor

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