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PostPosted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 11:54 pm 
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SO im kind of confused what to do in this situation.

In high school,

when chilling with my buddies, just about all of my friends has what seem to be female initiated kino. Like randomly i will see girls come up and sit on my friends lap or always walking up to him and hugging him and what not. now granted these girls all tend to be within the same grade as him.

At first i was confused because even one of the new kids who just came in and was quiet the same thing happened to him.

Then i found out about this forum and started trying out some of the little things like making eye contact while walking around and simply talking to more people and being more open.

My results have been that now new girls, good looking girls, take notice. and thats good but

My question is what do i do about these old females, when in a circle with my boys and these girls approach and take a "seat" i almost feal awkward and out of place, i dont know what to do i dont want to seem jealous trying to be so forward so often times i simply ignore them and just go on as though they weren't there.

Maybe i need to take initiative out of these situations to build kino between them befor hand but, as i said even the new kid who just came here kind of was just grabbed and only when around these particular females am i at a loss of what to do.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 1:08 am 
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Dude he's the new kid of course he gonna get play. He's still mysterious to everyone. Especialy if he plays it right. How do I know well because my dad was a marine ,and I went to three diff highschools, and got lots of play because of this.
Now for you my friend remember to take each women as the same don't treat them different this is your sticking point I can tell. If you treat the older one the same as the younger one you'll get the same reponse. just be cocky funny when in the group of freinds and be alpha male .
I know it might be hard to built up the inner skills to deal with anxiety at first, but the only way to battle these inner demons is practice,and were better then school tons of girls to get familar with. Just my advice freind I'm sure others will help to best of luck.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 11:38 am 
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lol yea i get what your saying but it terns out that the older ones are easier for me to get, the ones in my junior class are like kind of bitchy and shit.

but the ones older and below my class are fine, im just curious on what to do with them, considering they tend to gravitate towards my group of friends.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 12:18 pm 
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are there anyother suggestions?


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lol yea i get what your saying but it terns out that the older ones are easier for me to get, the ones in my junior class are like kind of bitchy and shit.

but the ones older and below my class are fine, im just curious on what to do with them, considering they tend to gravitate towards my group of friends.
First off, i doubt the younger ones would be less bitchy than the ones in your grade. For the girls that appear in your group of friends, you need to interact with them. Maybe DLV your friend that has a girl on his lap. (but don't insult him to the point where he hates you) You need to get the attention of the whole group so they will notice you then acknowledge you next time you see them. What do is just go and sit on a chick's lap but then again I know them the slightest bit. Just relax and don't directly ignore them especially if they try to talk to you. Try and engage with them without looking all needy.


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lol yea i get what your saying but it terns out that the older ones are easier for me to get, the ones in my junior class are like kind of bitchy and shit.

but the ones older and below my class are fine, im just curious on what to do with them, considering they tend to gravitate towards my group of friends.
First off, i doubt the younger ones would be less bitchy than the ones in your grade. For the girls that appear in your group of friends, you need to interact with them. Maybe DLV your friend that has a girl on his lap. (but don't insult him to the point where he hates you) You need to get the attention of the whole group so they will notice you then acknowledge you next time you see them. What do is just go and sit on a chick's lap but then again I know them the slightest bit. Just relax and don't directly ignore them especially if they try to talk to you. Try and engage with them without looking all needy.
Personally I never DLV one of my friends. He has showed high value to these ladies, so what you need to do is show that you are also of high value, if you 2 work together then he may get the girl sitting on his lap... but you'll get all her friends. :lol:

Plenty of fish in the sea guys, remember as PUA's we can attract our own women... I don't see any need to try and steal women from those we consider our friends.


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lol yea i get what your saying but it terns out that the older ones are easier for me to get, the ones in my junior class are like kind of bitchy and shit.

but the ones older and below my class are fine, im just curious on what to do with them, considering they tend to gravitate towards my group of friends.
First off, i doubt the younger ones would be less bitchy than the ones in your grade. For the girls that appear in your group of friends, you need to interact with them. Maybe DLV your friend that has a girl on his lap. (but don't insult him to the point where he hates you) You need to get the attention of the whole group so they will notice you then acknowledge you next time you see them. What do is just go and sit on a chick's lap but then again I know them the slightest bit. Just relax and don't directly ignore them especially if they try to talk to you. Try and engage with them without looking all needy.
Personally I never DLV one of my friends. He has showed high value to these ladies, so what you need to do is show that you are also of high value, if you 2 work together then he may get the girl sitting on his lap... but you'll get all her friends. :lol:

Plenty of fish in the sea guys, remember as PUA's we can attract our own women... I don't see any need to try and steal women from those we consider our friends.
I wouldnt really say it has anything to do with me trying to steel my friends "girl" its just the kind of thing, where im kind of perplexed with the current situation im in. How would i attract these Hbs. None of my friends go out with them, im just curious what i could do better so it woudlnt seem so ackward and kind of nasty just sitting there watching/trying to ignore.


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