I am and fairly new to this forum and im not sure if this in the right section so please feel free to move it.
I need as much advice as i can get on this once and any comments are welcomed.
I will try and keep this as short as possible.
Met this HB9 on a night out a couple of months back. She was with her mate HB7 who i was talking to at first. Unfortunatley i was making boring generic, what do you do for a job? chat.... Chatted for a while (didn't set time constraint). Eventually started talking to HB 9 who i teased and negged a little had a bit of a laugh and a chat. It was time for us both to move on so i we said we would probably see each other out the following night in town and left it like that.
A few weeks later i was shopping in town when i noticed HB 9 was cashier in the shop. Went to pay for my things and chatted to her breifly making a few jokes laughing together. When i realised she overcharged me i went back giving me perfect oppertunity to neg her a little and chat for a bit longer. By the end of that she seemed interested in talking to me. Later that day i messaged her on facebook.
Me:
It was really bugging me where I knew your face from but I remembered! I met you when I was talking to your friend in the bar. Sorry you had to put up with me at work lol! My Mum was really happy in the end and I earned lots of brownie points, so I guess it was worth all the fuss. Although I’m not sure I can forgive you for scamming me out of my 3 for 2 deal! ……. I will have to watch out for you next time! .
HB9
Hahaha! Good I'm glad your mum was happy with my fantastic service! Brillaint guessing I was a mess when u saw me as I don't remeber?x
Me:
Fantastic service……. well I suppose that’s one way of describing it! Well don’t think you were that drunk, you did fall over but you said that was cos of your dodgy knee…..sure ……. You were being cheeky trying to get me to buy you a drink though! You failed! Chatted about your hairdressing course, where they clearly showed you how to get the brightest blonde hair on the planet! I thought I was blonde…lol Where do you normally go out? Perhaps you might be successful and get a drink out of me next time lol x .
HB 9:
Haha no seriously I have knee troubles...duh! Normaly out in town as its easy to get home..yourself? And yeh after the scene at work today you owe me more than one x
Me:
Well i used to go to wells alot more but recently been goin to town because of the same reason. Im within walking distance of the town but i still seem to get a taxi every time lol! Town isn't the greatest night out espcially after i went to SOS on friday to find a total of 6 people in there, complete joke! Did you hear the news about the long bar in town? I think one will do for now dont get ahead of yourself missy
x .
She never replied.
Spoke to her briefly on facebook chat after convo was painfully slow so i got bored and signed off.
Saw her a week later in town. She approached me and asked me if i was going to buy her the drink i promised her. I bought her a drink we chatted for a while. She then took me to a different bar we had a few more drinks alone and got on really well. I was making her laugh a load and teasing her a bit too. By the end of it she was touching my face and holding my hand obvious ioi's. She even said she couldn't wait to introduce me to her mum! I played a little game i found on here, if i won she would buy me a drink..... obviously she lost and instead of buying me a drink she said she would give me her number. We went back to the origional bar/club where we were dancing, other guys approached her and she pushed them away and came straight back to me every time. Later on before i went with my mates to the big club i told her where i was going and she said that she was also going there with her friends and she would come find me. I went there and she never turned up.
I text her later the next day:
Me:
Hows your hangover? cant have been nice for you this morning! x
No reply
I few days later
Me:
When are you taking me out for coffee then :p x
HB 9:
I dont like coffee! So thats out the window x
Me:
Well looks like youre just going to have to take me out for lunch then lol x
No reply
Later that day
Me:
Ok miss talkative...lol Ive got to pop into town tomorrow and friday how about we get lunch in your break? x
No reply
I then bumped into her again on a night out as she was leaving. She said she had work early the next day she seemed happy to see me and as she drove away she blew me a kiss!
A few days later i again bumped into her on a night out. Again very happy to see me. She ask me to keep her company while she had a cigarette. I chatted to her for about 45 mins. She was saying how she wanted me to take her out for lunch. I said its a little difficult when she doesn't reply to any texts. She then made up silly excuses why she didn't text me. She asked me to buy her a drink; i said i dont buy drinks for people i dont know! She replied well then you had better get to know me then..... After a while as a test i said that i was going to go back inside to see my mate. I got up out of the chair, straight away she pulled me back and said that i couldn't leave her. After a while of chatting she said that she wanted to go in and dance with me. I went in with her, she went to speak to her girlfriend quickly, i said i would meet her on the dancefloor, she never came and she dissapeared out of the club. (Which was the only place open in that town)
The next day i text her
Me:
What you upto on your day off? Let me guess the excuse this time......The dog ate your phone?! Do you even have a dog? lol
HB 9:
Sleeping! Ive only just woke up! Slit my foot open last night
and yes i do have a dog thanks x
Me:
Woah thats a good effort! Cant say i have ever managed to sleep quite that long! Aw how did you manage that? x
No reply!!!
This is soo annoying, every time i satisfy myself that she is no longer interested in me, i always seem to see her when she displays ioi's again.
I havent limited myself either as i have been pursuing another girl at the same time, but both dont know about each other.
This is not a situation i have encountered before is there any advice you can give me? any suggestions of how to play the situation? or Feedback etc?
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