About 10min into arriving at this club my friends went to the dance floor and I was looking for someone to chat up. Just off the dfloor I saw two girls dancing together wearing similar clothing. I used a playful opener referring to how they were wearing the same dress and she thought it was hilarious and even told her friend. We talked for a bit small chitchat and introduced each other. Btw it was until I actually went up to her did I realise that she was 10/10.

I convinced her to come onto the dancefloor with me which was a sign for me that there was some interest. Everyone on the dancefloor was staring at us girls and guys including my friends thinking wtf how is this happening. We got talking on the dancefloor asking what I did, my background and she was telling me she was recently divorced and I think this is where I fucked up when she asked my age.

I was honest and said I was 20. She said she was 26. I found out this was a lie today because I tracked her down on fb shes actually 33 or something and stupid me was saying how when your 30 you got to start settling down and shit but because your 26 you can keep partying. After about 10min her friend comes out of nowhere and pulls her away and I am guessing the hb10 signalled her to.

I have sent a message to her on fb but I feel like its a very slim chance she will reply she has kids as well!

I should have at least numb closed and hooked up. When age comes into play does anyone play along and lie about their age? I feel like if I said 24 it couldve been a Snl so depressing ...

Edit: She is 26 talking in chat

Not very long ago I had a situation where older girl was trying pick on me saying "How old are you? 17-18?" and I replied "Nope, I'm six and a half actually."
Age doesn't matter as long as You don't show You're insecure about it. That's my opinion.

Agreed!

Last year when I was 19 I was flirting and fooling around with an 24 year old (HB9). I figured she was about 22 tops and she figured I was about 23. It was when we took our stuff to another level of dating that our ages came to discussion. I told her that I didn't mind the difference, she agreed on that. But then she flaked out in the end...

When your mid 20s and the girl is like 30s there is no problem, lots of women in that age just want to have fun, especially if you meet them in a club, actually I met a couple of women in their 30s lately feeling attracted to me (27).

The problem could occur the other way round with girls around 18 if they are not experienced. Last night I met a 18 year old HB7 who told me she wanted to get married by the time she´s 22... I ejected and saw her hanging out with some other 18 year old dudes (yeah there were lots of kids, since we decided to go clubbing earlier) Though a 18 year old could also be quite experienced and just wanna have fun with an even more experienced guy. Girls mostly go for elder men.

So it´s less depending on their age but more on their maturity and personality I guess...

Nice dude. Yea that's the risk of talking about serious stuff - age, nationality, what does she do for fun. She might find out something that she doesn't like about you without giving you the time to show that you're a good guy. Being playful and bouncing every question is always the default for me.

One line which has always worked for me, with the right delivery of course.

''Oh you're older? Nice. I have a thing for older women. They are just so.. ''

Add whatever you want at the end, but make sure its an uncommon word. Older women like sophisticated men using sophisticated words. Oh yeah, one more thing.. include a pause and DO NOT break eye contact before using your ''weapon of choice''

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

That's neediness, and a huge DLV....

Some stuff that's worked for me when I'm asked about age (I'm 20) is either be vague or throw some crazy comment. Some of the stuff I actually got from Style, author of "the Game".

Her: Hey so how old are you?

1.) "Too old to answer that question"
2.) "72 but I look younger because I don't smoke"

3.) Works better after rapport is built
Her: I'm 33. How old are you?
Me: I'm 20.
Her: Wow you're young.
Me: Yeah well you can be like my sugar momma, but you gotta be on my waiting list cause I got 2 others lined up. (or something like that)

Hope that helps for future references

An update ive been speaking to her for the past week on facebook this whole time she thought I was 27. She called last night and at the end she said shes only looking for friends. im going to try meet today

How else could I find her

I'll be remembering this one