| Hey Guys, need serious help with this situation and QUICKLY!!!!!!!
My best friend's ex-girlfriend's cousin is the girl in question here. She lives overseas. She must have been browsing through her cousins pictures on facebook a few years back and friended me. We would fb chat once in a while, usually only a few minutes of bullshit, nothing meaningful, and we didn't talk in maybe a year, I never thought anything of her anyway.
About 6 months ago, we started facebook chatting and this time like every day and for long periods of time. She is really cute and turns out pretty cool. Anyway, she's been giving me IOIs all over the place, I neg her playfully, its been fun.
Three weeks ago, I saw that she was on fb chat on friday night, so I negged her and told her wow, you must have a really boring life, or something to that effect. She scrambled to try and qualify, but bottom line, she couldn't, lol. She told me she is at a friends birthday party and drunk and wanted to see what was up on facebook so she signed on, and that she is addicted, etc. I asked what they were drinking, she said Chivas, and I told her I hope you saved me a shot, she goes absolutely, so then I tell her I'm headed to the airport and I sign off.
Last monday, she hits me up and asks where the hell were you I saved you a shot, I told her, well, I got on a plane but I got sidetracked by the stewardess, lol. She was like whaaaat? I could tell she was jealous. Later that week she leaves me crazy messages like where the hell are you get on fb chat, etc. I got on a while later and she we ended up having a crazy conversation which ended with her telling me something about making mojitos on the beach and drinking with me, and something about you never know, dreams just might come true. While this was happening, I didn't tell her, but I was planning a trip to the country where she lives for some business conference, I only have a total of 10 days here, I arrived 1 week ago, 4 days left...
When I'm here, I tried a couple of times to hint to her that I was here and she didn't get it. After 6 days (yesterday) when I was finally done with the conference, I finally told her out right I'm here, SURPRISE. The next day she hits me on fb chat again and tells me I got a cold, I couldn't even get up this morning. I tell her to go to bed, she says, I would but I don't wanna sleep alone, I asked do you want me to come read you a story? She says I would love it. I said, okay which story do you want me to read you, she goes, the boy and the stewardess, and I go to her, thats an adult story though, she started laughing. Then I tell her I have a good remedy for colds, 1/3 chicken soup, 1/3 hugs, 1/3 kisses. She says I already have chicken soup, I say alright, do you want the the hugs and kisses though? She says yes, so I say okay give me your moms number so I can tell her to come hug and kiss you. (was this too much neg/overkill??) Then I say, come on, give me the address, I have a great story for you and she signs off abruptly (which she has done before).
Yesterday, she caught me on the fb chat, as I started typing hi to her and she catches me with my name first. So I say whats up? I thought to myself, this was finally my time to make a move, because its now or never, so I ask her, Are you mad at me? She says a little. I say well if you promise not to disappear on me again, I promise to make it up to you. She says I neve ran away then she asks me, are you here?? (meaning in the country) I didnt know if she was playing with that questions, and I'm making my move, so I said, yes, i came to see you. She answers with what great sun, ah? So I say, I tell you i came to see you and you wanna talk about the weather? She says yes, I say, well now I'm mad at you. She then asks me, are we drinking tonight, so I say, did you save me any chivas? she says no? so i say oh, i see how it is. I didn't wanna give in and let the getting together be on her terms(was this stupid?) Now all this time, I never got her phone number, so I decided to try reverse psychology and go to her, by the way, why dont you answer my calls (hoping she would say you dont have my number and I would say give it to me) so she says stop driving me crazy lol, and then I reply you confused me. She says, youre not the first one, I reply quickly, wanna bet I'll be the last? She laughs like hahahaha, then I say, thats what I thought/I thought so... Then I felt like I shouldn't reward her behavior so I say you know what, forget it. She replies, I forgot it. Then I say if you change your mind, this is my number....
Of course she doesn't call, but the truth is, I wasn't expecting her to. The questions is, what do I do now. How do you I re-open the conversation with her? Do I say something like, Hey, you never called? There is alot of chemsitry between us--How do I seal this deal already? Was I wrong not to accept her offer when she offered it?
Where do I go from here. Time is of the essence...
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