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hey guys I've been looking into social circle game and it is argued that if my social circle game is good then my inner game will get strong, my cold approaches will get better, etc..
plus social circle game is much easier than the cold approaches.
what do you think should I just concentrate on social circle game now and build my inner game and then go for cold approach or shud I be keep doing cold approaches until I become good at em ?
IMO, you should do both cold approaches and social circle game. And as for improving inner game I found out that I had to work it totally independent from gaming girls.
We've all heard Mystery and Style say Success is going to solve your inner game problems and feeling of unworthiness (I've had for a long time). The problem with that was no matter how many successful nights I'd had, after one bad night I would feel like a total failure.
What really have helped me with inner game are affirmations and hypnosis.
The bottom line is, you should use every opportunity to interact with people, so it's not cold approaches OR social circle. To say that you're gonna build your confidence from the result that you get through social circle game and that that will help your cold approaches sounds like you're taking the easier road. This isn't easy. As Mystery says This game is 100 times more difficult than most people think. But it's 1000 more rewarding. There is no cutting corners on your way to success.
Change your perspective. Tell yourself that you're a fucking superstar and you don't give a fuck if they like you or not. Be positive and don't be afraid to jump in the fire. It is scary, but there is no other way.
CHAT