Met a girl a few months ago. Wasn't overly interested in her but thought I might want to have some fun with her. After a few dates (wouldn't come to my place) she told me she just broke up with someone and felt I was more of a friend. I can't remember the exact conversation. I thanked her for being honest and wished her the best, and didn't talk to or text her again.

Just today she texts me out of the blue asking how I am doing. It's been a few months. I say fine, that things are going well and ask her how she's doing. She says fine, and that she's going back to school in September. Then I just didn't text her back again and left it at that.

So...if I want to game this girl, what should I be doing at this point cause I'm kinda at a loss with understanding why she'd even text me after all this time.

Hello Hefty,

You told that a few months ago she saw you more than "just a friend". You kindly passed and you go on with your life.

In the months she didn't text you she probably tried to hook up with other boys and it didn't worked out. And yes in these months she didn't text you she did probably thaugt about you and all of a sudden she texted.

In my opinion she looks a lil bit desperate. Nothing wrong with it but why do you want to game this girl now and not a few months ago?

Greetz Max.

Yeah I figured as much. That is, that she would be out trying for other dudes and now is coming back to me possibly.

I suppose I want to game her for a few reasons. One being I am trying to get past a oneitits issue. Two she is black, and I've never been with a black chick before. I'm sure there are other reasons, but the bottom line is she's a safe girl to hang around because I never really saw her as a LTR.

So yeah...aside from the other night I haven't returned a text. I'm pretty new at all this pick up stuff. I have no problem getting dates, I do have a problem closing.

Haha nice man. Go and game thsi black girl! XD Awesome :p But what is the problem with closing? Kiss closing? Number closing? Tell me

boy does this shit sound familiar.

the more PUA you do, the more chance you'll run into this situation (not because of how often you PUA but because you're thumbing thru more women). it's rare though, but every once in a while, you'll get a LJBF from a genuinely "hurt" girl - recently broken up, still looking. it has happened to me twice since I started gaming 5 years ago.

you have to seriously take control of the situation and maintain it, it depends on alot of factors whether or not she'll make it easy for you.

depending on how it went before, i would not acknowledge her via text message at all (it's okay if you already have, but don't start chit chatting her in text - this gives her the validation and attention she is asking for without any "commitment.")

If I were you, I'd call her in a few days (mid-week, mon/tues maybe?) and do a phone call only, no asking to date. but propose something fun you're doing without inviting her ("Oh man, I'm so excited this week to hit up this brand new restaurant in _______. it's gonna be killer") make sure you change topics after that quickly so that she doesn't get caught up in it (she will be wondering who you're going with and why you didnt invite her, etc.) make the phone call short, 5-10 mins max. the time will fly by. Also, dont let her VENT to you about her life. if she starts venting, cut her off and be like listen i just wanted to see how you were i can't really be your psychologist in the middle of the day/evening today/tonight - use cocky/funny tone)

then call her a few days after that, ask her to do something casual and make sure it involves heading back to your place at some point. have her meet at your place then run out for coffee or a bite to eat. easy as hell. game as usual when you get back to your house "oh come in for a minute i want to show you something since the last time" then have something fun lined up at home (video game.. music.. movie, whatever) and f-close it up