Short. A girl I went to college with one year ago. I do not really know her, I think she was intersted in me at the time . 2 years later - I wrote her on facebook: Hey whats going on, where do you recommend to work. Short stuff etc

reply:" Congrats on your grad! It is good to graudate etc etc.....I recommend this job and that job, (lots of smileys) She gave me a lot of good info. , and at the end "write me back if you need further help". smiley"

ok facts: I do not "know" this girl really.It should be akward to reconnect. We have not met in 2 years. She not ugly, I would say a seven.

The premise: we do not know eachother "rellay". almost too much time has passed to contact her. BUT. she HAS been interested in me based on looks only. What to write her back on her email?

My first question is: what do you want with this girl?
My second question is: does she live near you?

If you want to date her and she lives near you, you want to gauge her current level of interest before committing to an awkward meeting. But based on her response I would say she's open to the idea of getting to know you better. Here is what I would post in the reply:

Hey __________

Thanks for all of your help! You seem to know a lot about (job). I'm still trying to decide between (job) and (job) It would be great if we could meet for a cup of coffee or tea this Tuesday. I have a couple more questions to ask you but it's a little difficult to explain over e-mail....

Thanks



Keep it short and simple. She really only has two choices: yes or no. But based on the casualness of this e-mail and her prior interest in you, she'll most likely respond with a yes. All you do now is get to know her better over coffee or tea, which is not a big investment of time or money. If you get to know her but don't like her, exit politely. If you get to know her an do like her, set up another date.

Hope this helps!

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