Hey guys, I'm working on an article for my blog and i wanted to post it here first to see what you all think. All the code got striped so you can't see things like bold, red or links but i'm sure you'll still get a good feel for it.

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I've dated and met all kinds of women in the last 10 years. But most importantly I have been a people watcher my whole life. Observing reactions, facial expressions and general behavior. I think this is why now that I've gotten to understand women and dating I tend to come to certain conclusions and develop strong opinions that tend to be accurate.

The hotter a girl is the greater the chance she is crazy. Now let me deeper then that statement. It's not an absolute; it's not Hot = Crazy. It's more like the hotter a girl is the greater the chance and mass of her crazy. This isn't to say that really ugly women can't be crazy and in fact they might be crazy for the very same reasons that really hot women are crazy. But I'm starting to get a little ahead of myself.

Disclaimer: This isn't fact, it's more of a working theory to consider and perhaps help you understand female behavior.

Lets define crazy as being out of touch with reality and or having incredibly unrealistic expectations. I'm not talking about a girl who wants to a fairy when she grows up or even someone who expects politician to keep their promises. The best illustration I could give you comes from a DVD I saw called "An Evening with Kevin Smith" In the video there is a story about Prince (the singer from the 90's) and how Prince has lived in Prince land for so long that he can't really distinguish between reality from what he expects from others. It's incredibly funny, you owe yourself to check out the video here.

I'm officially calling this Child Star Syndrome. Can you imagine how life would be if when you where a child, everyone treated you differently and you got everything you ever asked for? If power corrupts, imagine what it could do to a young person. If no one shook you out of this false world your disconnect would simply grow to the point where you were intolerable or simply put, crazy.

Now I want you to keep in mind that this warped reality wasn't something that a childhood star chose for themselves, it was thrust onto them. Managers entice with fame and wealth, producers are willing to do anything to keep the actor "happy" and parents are ill equipped to keep their children in line. Additionally, there is no way a child could understand the implications this would have on his life. Even if he did, how could he stop others from treating him differently and creating unhealthy boundaries in every relationship that was formed?

I think Hot Girl Syndrome works in the exact same way. Put yourself in the shoes of a hot girl; imagine a point in her life that people started to treat her differently then everyone else. It wasn't just because she is female, but it's because she is beautiful. People started staring at her for no apparent reason. Men would go out of there way to do things for her like opening the door, helping her carry things and offering to do her favors. Often times these where things she should have done for herself, so that she could learn and grow, but someone else stepped in and did it for her instead. Worst of all people never told her NO. May be they where afraid or intimidated but most likely they where hoping to get something out of her.

Most of us don't have a long line of minions following us everywhere doing our every whim. In fact it's quite the opposite. Every time we step too far out of line, we have someone in our life that lets us know that we are in the wrong. May be it's your best friend, your boss or even that girl you approached at the club that threw a drink in your face. This is what I call social feedback; it's vital to having a healthy outlook and understanding social dynamics. Without healthy social feedback you become emotionally and social subnormal. Every time someone snaps at you, responds oddly or tells you that something is wrong, you didn't fail socially, instead you just got important feed back.

Much like the crazy hot girl who didn't get enough healthy social feedback. The problem with the crazy ugly girl is that she constantly gets unhealthy social feedback. People reject her before she opens her mouth, make fun of her behind her back and generally treat her as if she is less then human, kind of like how most of us treat the homeless. She doesn't have the same social experiences as everyone else because the bar is too high most of the time. The ugly truth: Generally speaking, the more attractive you are the greater the leeway you have in life.

The point I want to leave you with is this. Treat all women the same, regardless of their beauty. You'll be doing her and yourself a favor.

-Sharp

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Two things I live by...

I can easily tell if a person is crazy by whether or not they have breasts.

I can always tell if a girl is lying because her mouth will be moving.

Not 100% serious but it's funny how often it holds true.

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omg jits,

horrible,

but true lol

Guys, I'm looking for useful mature responses.

If 100% of the women you meet are full of shit, then you need to change how you meet women. If you only attract women who are full of shit, then there is something wrong with you, you have to fix first.

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i read your article.

it's pretty good. and thanks for sharing.

you make valid points, and in a vacuum, they would be completely true.

but what you make no consideration for is childhood and early adulthood, not "all" parents give special attention/permissions to their "hot" daughter because, well, they aren't trying to have sex with her like the rest of the world.

i have met and seen some stunningly beautiful women who were unbelievably nice. however, as you'd guess, this is incredibly rare. almost one in a million.

the one common factor in all these situations, i am guessing, is family upbringing. most of these girls were very conservative, religious, came from healthy non-broken families, etc.

so, i agree with a lot of what you said, but i would just add to the conversation by saying that good parenting and a healthy upbringing where the "future hot girl" is taught morals and ethics (and overall decent human behavior) can counteract a lot of that other lack of feedback they will get later in life.

Yep, so here is the thing. The biggest thing that hot girls resent is that one day they woke up and everybody started treating them differently. They don't act crazy they act entitled. This feeling of entitlement means they don't use the same filters as others since they get what they want regardless. So you may not see the seriousness of my post but the fact is all girls (all people really) are crazy. The hot ones seem crazier because they don't need to "keep it together" to impress anyone.

PS: your entire post is almost word for word the same as a big chunk in double your dating.

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I appreciate you guys giving me some real input. I think i'll add sentence about hot girls who are not crazy just to wrap it up.

Oh man i haven't read that book for so many years. It might have gotten in my head. Then again most puas just say the same thing over and over again. I think its because if you've done it long enough you start to come to the same conclusions. The only real difference is where they are coming from and the kind of person they are.

So here it is the final version with picture and links: http://manvsdate.com/beautiful-crazy/

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Actually, this is an excellent article and thread. I just posted one before I saw this and it's exactly what I'm talking about there - hot-chicks-amp-pretty-girls-dilemma-vt86750.html

Thanks I appreciate it. I'll make sure to write more in the future. Feel free to leave a thumbs up on my site.

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