So this girl I met 2 weeks ago, she came to visit we me last week wouldn't let me down her pant after multiple attempts. Then she promised we'd do it the next time she comes. So she is planning to come Friday.

Now she is texting me with :

Please don't pressure me to do anything with you. I just want to cuddle.


How do I tell her not to come? Or persuade her to fuck.

Why are you calling her a bitch? Haven't you heard of ASD?
If you can get to kino stage (cuddling) which has been offered to you on a plate, then slowly escalate incrementally and see if she complies, if you turn her on enough then you will have sex, if you don't then thats just the way it is, you don't get points knocked off not performing your manly duty lol.

Tried that last week she has the shields up high. She was as wet as she could be but wouldn't give in.

If she got as wet as you say she did she will give in. If it were me i would spin it and be like, Cuddle? Hmmm, Don't try to take advantage of me when you get here. :p
When she's over I wouldn't really even sit by her at first, be present and implement some DHV, but make her work a little for your attention. After a little bit start some minor kino and throw on a movie, make her want it more than you.

You should be golden!

Good luck!

Sent her the Cuddle?hmmm.. from ^^

response was : Lol, your the one who can't keep your hands off me.

HB7: Im reconsidering tomorrow. I don't want wanna drive that much.
Me : Ok cool do your thing
HB7: but I miss you.
My dumb ass: Make up you mind I am leaving it all up to you. I don't wanna hear anything about pressuring you anymore when I treat you like a princess.
HB7 : I am not coming.
Me Ok cool
HB7: May be some other time
Me : Sure good luck on your exams. (she was gonna study at my place)

Anyway to comeback from this?

You shouldn't have to pressure a girl into anything. No means no. If you're getting rejected when progressing physically, she's either on her period, or you aren't putting in enough ground work. Get her attracted to you and turn her on until she is begging you into her pants. Pressuring her is only going to turn her off.



It seems like you're trying to be a nice guy. If you were a nice guy you wouldn't be making moves after being rejected multiple times.

STOP TREATING GIRLS LIKE THEY'RE GOLDEN! IT'S NOT YOU!

You are wasting your time on girls if you're going to try to nice your way in their pants. It doesn't work. Guys who actually are nice have vaginas and guys like you that pretend to be nice as their seduction strategy are creepy.

This girl hasn't even put out yet, so stop being an AFC and stop putting pussy on the pedestal, ESPECIALLY IF YOU'RE NOT GETTING IT.

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Thanks for the response, but either way after saying NO, she decided to move the trip up a day and come down tonight. My plan is to stay away from her and have her come to me.

Any suggestion on how I should proceed, this is probably my last try with her.

I am just confused she drives down 3 hours to come see me yet she doesn't want to do anything. She just left my place on tuesday and today is thursday and she is coming back.

ASD is something i didn't know about, but i definitely think this is her. Even before she came down she was saying "I am not a slut" even though she met me for 2 hours and decided to drive down 12 am to come see me. Today she is gonna be here at 1AM.

I just need to get past this, if anyone has any suggestions please let me know.

You're fine. If she's coming tonight, she obviously wants something. Girls have this good girl bad girl complex, the good girl side is telling her : Don't hook up, Don't be a slut, you're not this girl and the bad side is saying, I'm horny, I like this guy, I want to be railed.

Use the tactics, make her comfortable for a bit. Then kino escalate and you should be fine.

Actions speak louder than words, she is saying all this shit but at the end of the day she's driving to you.

Let us know how it goes!

Now she bringing a friend...no clue what is going on.

"Now she bringing a friend"!

Keep us posted of all developments lol.

Night of my life. enough said.