Posting this so I can get advice and to keep track of my own progress. Starting tomorrow I'm going to log all my interaction with girls in this thread until I reach the goal: Losing my virginity. I'm 16 years old so most of my gaming will be at my high school. I've never had a girlfriend in real life, but I've had quite a few online.

Weaknesses that MUST be worked on:
In the past I've completely failed to build kino.
I have very little social proof. I have some friends, but I need to focus on making more of them.
I'm often at a loss at what to say in a conversation.
Fail at #closing.

That said, I have an advantage in that I'm naturally not needy and I can be pretty funny.

Advice is well appreciated, thanks in advance.

Right now all I can say is.... you're only 16 and you already found out about PUA... you're lucky Good luck!

Very true, I'm a step ahead of the game in that respect. On the other hand, before I started reading in to this kind of thing I literally had no social skills at all. I've been behind, and I'm only recently starting to break even. Sky's the limit.

This Thread Title made me lol

Just try not to become a social robot as Style calls it.

Psyched myself out today, by far the most uneventful day gaming since I've started reading stuff on here a week ago. I suspect a correlation between my masturbation this morning before school and my lack of game, so I'm going to try cutting back on whacking it. Funny enough as soon as I got home from school I chatted up this HB 7 from my school that randomly added me on facebook a while back and it was a very good convo, further showing the divide in the gap between my IRL game and my internet game. I'm going to talk to her IRL when I see her though.

Today was another failure. No progress, just loss of self confidence. I think my problem is that as I am I'm an outcast at my school, I receive no attention socially, am not in any social circles. This is especially difficult to change this late in the school year when people have already made their minds up about people they know. Any advice for getting in to a social circle?

First of all: LOL @ That being said: highschool sucks if you're not part of the popular click. That's just a fact (in some schools more then others thought). You can try socializing more, but I totally get that that isn't easy as for the most part 'the groups' have already been formed by now. I would suggest for you to focus on getting better socially in your school before trying to do stuff like #closing, cause your schoolimage is SO important for the girls. It's sad, but it's true. That's why uni is so cool XD


Maybe somebody can give you better advice :p You'll get there thought. Peace!

x Lor

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Changed my focus from getting girls to just having FUN and I feel so much better about myself. Yesterday I even had a girl I know in real life gaming me and asking me for my number. She has a bf though, but I think it'll be fun to practice on her anyway.

dude you need to try become alpha.
Learn muay thai or MMA, get buff and get really good at something.
A good way i built confidence was going for nude runs around my park.
Just go up to chicks and ask them to suck your dick that will boost your confidence as well.
Stare down every person you see, except guys who look real tough.
Sit back and relax with your legs wide open and take up lots of space.

good luck mate u can do it.

Im 18 years old, in high school, and also a virgin. I'll be reading your entries once posted, may even help me too. Anyway, good luck.

Lol. This thread is interesting. It stabbed my heart when he said he's a social outcast at school. So I'll try to help if this is a serious thread. Good luck man.

First thing is first. How are your looks. Most people have to change their appearance when they first start. You should improve your image based on your style. Get a haircut, spike it up, I don't know if you shave yet lol, buy a nice jackets, jeans, light colored shirts (no more gray or black unless that's your style. A baby blue shirt would be amazing) dress shoes, no more sneakers, black socks. Buy accesories. Get a bracelet, and a necklace, some nice sunglasses (it doesn't matter if its foggy outside, wear them)

Even if you are the class outcast, if you dress nice, people will be curious - who's this mysterious guy. He always dresses nice, he must have a lot of friends outside of school because he doesn't care to make any inside. You should notice people looking at you and girls smiling and keeping eye contact. If not, your still not risky with your appearance.

Lol tell me when you accomplished that

Hey guys, update time. LESSON OF ALL LESSONS THAT I WISH SOMEBODY TAUGHT ME YEARS AGO: IF YOU'RE BEGINNING AT THIS KIND OF THING, GOAL OF HAVING FUN = SUCCESS; GOAL OF GETTING LAID ONLY LEADS TO PSYCHING YOURSELF OUT AND NOT HAVING FUN OR GETTING LAID.

Over the past few days I've made my main focus practicing talking to GUYS. Although that doesn't mean I've completely excluded girls. Before I just never really talked to anyone much, so to get my foot in the door I've practiced with guys and I've had success there, I'm slowly becoming seen as a lot more outgoing than I was, and I feel so much more confident.

This girl I've known all year who I eat lunch with has been showing some IOIs. She initiates kino a lot to me, catch her staring sometimes, and always sits by me at lunch....and today she just randomly bit me on my arm. |: She has a bf though and I feel like it's too late in the game to even number close her...we'll just see what happens. This girl in my English class has been doing that to me a lot lately, which I find weird since she supposedly only likes black guys LMAO. I should talk to her soon.

I've been trying to get to a store to get some new clothes for a few weeks now, but my mom is always too lazy to take me anywhere. She'd rather just sit on the couch and do nothing, which is exactly what she does when she says she's busy, she won't even take me driving to get my hours up so I can get my license. The fact that I have no transportation anywhere and live in the suburbs so there's no place in the immediate vicinity to go to has really held me back. If she actually took me driving sometimes, I'd already have my license! Extremely irritating.

Oh, here's me btw:
https://uloadr.com/u/2S.jpg

Not sure what to do with my hair. This weekend I'm going to see if I can get a haircut and at least get a trim.... I don't know if I should make any other changes to it though.

You're a really good looking guy. Nice flowing hair, nice jaw line. I say keep the hair. It looks really good.

But for the hard part now. What do you think about getting a tan. Just going to the beach this summer will do it. I can't really tell but maybe you have to pluck your eyebrows. If you pluck your eyebrows, you will look more groomed. (make that an opinion opener. "Hey guys, I only have a second but what do you think about guys who pluck their eyebrows... I'm asking because my friend wants to do it but he doesn't know many guys who do it."

Those clothes man... You see how dark they are compared to your skin color? It kinda feels like that's your personality. It feels too dark. Get light colored clothes. I think I mentioned a baby blue t-shirt for you earlier. Now I know for sure it will look good on you. Be risky. Yellow and white shirts will attract attention. Nice jeans and black shoes. No sneakers. All clothes must fit well. No baggy clothes like you have in the picture. The clothes must lay on your skin with few wrinkles.

The less layers you have on the better. You have 2 layers inside your own house. That's no good. Expose your skin. Another rule - the more skin the better. Get v-neck shirts. Get a white button down shirt. Roll up your sleeves to expose skin. Get a random necklace with black rope. That will be one of your peacock objects. It will stand out compared to your skin tone and girls will have an excuse to approach you. "Omg I love your necklace, what does it mean." Get a black leather bracelet to match your necklace. Get those sunglasses.

Check out your posture. The best way to remeber good posture is lengthening and widening your body. So standing up straight is the best way to lengthen your body. Having your hands out of your pocket is and shoulders back is widening your body. You need to constantly check this. Every time you go through a doorway you check or every time you get a phone call. Find something.

How's your communication. Speaking, eye contact, and hand movements (while remebering your posture) Speak slow. If you stutter something that means your way too fast. Have pauses in between. Example: "So today.... I went to the mall... to buy...a... pair of pants." You are a badass, your listeners have to wait for you to finish speaking slow. Speak from your chest. To see how this feels, take the deepest breath you can, and repeat the above sentence.

Eye contact - talking to hot girls is like looking at the sun. You want to look away at some point. The more eye contact the better but not 100%. Look to the side when you start to talk then look back at her mid thought. Rule - more eye contact the better. (remeber your posture, wide and tall)

Hand movements - Don't be shy. You are a badass. Whatever movements you do look dominant and also helps you get your thought across better. Rule - the more movements the better.

Getting your appearance down is so important. Beauty is on the inside but if it's covered by shit, no1 will want to take a look at it.

Afterwards, we have to work on openers, transitions, DHV stories, games. I see you have a dog and a cat. Start thinking of times when you had strong emotions with your pets. Where you angry, sad, protective, etc. Well turn those into DHV stories.

What the hell!??? lol