WTF. Why would a milf be prude?

thats at least the vibe I get from her.

heres the situation:

1)woman is twice my age but looks damn good
2)I build attraction and comfort
3)she starts hanging out in my work on her breaks and chatting.
4)she is single and possibly has not been with a man in months or years.
5)this is the weird part, **SHE IS KINDA DITSY** for an older woman. i told her that she looks damn good for her age and it seemed like she got nervous, wtf!

she never says anything even remotely sexual. its like she doesnt even have a sex drive. although she is always up-beat and happy. If I try to say anything sexual she just ignores it or gets nervous.

I am an attractive younger mature man and I have had multiple older women come on to me pretty aggressively so i dont know whats up.

you think maybe because she is slightly religious this has anything to do with it?
some examples of building tension would be nice.

Not only is it impossible to figure those reasons out, but it seems like a waste of time.

If you follow the system right, her emotions will overcome her reasoning.

If I was in your position, I'd determine where I stood and see what rejections, if any, were present. That would tell me what to do next.

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I havent really pushed anything on to her so I haven't been rejected.

I hear all these stories of older women being aggressive, this one one is not in the slightest.

What I need are some sly comments I can make without having any awkward moments.

Challenge her to a thumb wrestling match. Get physical.

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she hasnt shown any interest though further than just chat buddy/acquaintances.

its really annoying. i would think someone in her position would be desperate and a lot more aggressive.

it would be really awkward to initiate physical contact in a business situation and at this point.

I honestly think the physical barriers are in your head. You see her tense so you feel awkward trying anything. Today I was sent an email by the forum admins about some kino techniques; E.g accidentally touching a girl's boob and crotch area. This might help you break down those barriers.

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for some reason i did not get that email. do you mind posting it here??

can someone give me an example of the bolded?

I dont see how one would do that and NOT have it be all awkward.

wouldnt you have to be nearly in the seduction stage by then???????????????????????

bumpo

Some of the stuff recommended here has been straight up creepy. Bump her boob or crotch? What are you 12 and want to know what a boobie feels like?

Thats daft, your just going to look daft if its not been taught to you, by the sounds of things your badly explaining Gamblers stealth attraction method. Skip that unless your going to buy it and practice it before using it.

Two things both sound daft but can most likely save you a lot of wasted effort;

1. How old is she? early to late 30's or older?

2.Whats on her Left hand, do you notice a ring or the marks that have been left from a ring, such as a slightly lighter spot?

I would suggest toning it down with her slightly, don't tell her she looks damn good. Compliment her on something specific such as her nails or the way she has her hair that day or something. I can only speak from experience but i have found that older women will spot a pretender a mile off and going in all guns blazing will make her think your a cocky wee boy. She is almost guaranteed to have more baggage if she is older and still single. Its about sending the right messages without her getting her "He is creeping on me" shield out. Play it relaxed compliment her but don't over do it. Use soft neg's like a small off hand comment about her drink (Never food), or that she looks a little tired that day, but make sure that as it says in the game that a neg follows a compliment not before or on its own.

She is also probably flattered by the attention so if she is a little awkward she may be a little shy. Because you are at work you have the upper hand, if a conversation is going well you are in the perfect position for time constraints and a reason to leave i.e. you need to be doing something.

Make her feel that she wants more of you, like not at your work or that she has to work a little harder for your attention at work.

You have probable heard of a pivot, like the stance you stand in when you are one on one with a target. Its the same with conversation, you want her to think you could leave at any moment and that she has to work for you, meanwhile showing interest.

Check how she responds, she may just be a little insecure and needs coaxing out of her shell. Keep working at it buddy because in my experience the older women don't get named after a jungle cat for nothing

Regards, Saint

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need more advice

older women love oral, lol

good to know

What else do you want to know man?

Regards, Saint

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how to get this woman to realize that its time to get naked for me damn it! lol

she just doesnt get the damn picture. so thickheaded.

I thought milfs were supposed to throw themselves at you