Hello, new to the PUA thing. Help a neophyte out!

I've been thinking of the "rude" approach lately, and I was wondering what you would think about such an approach. Like "hey b*tch, let's f*ck sometime"? Forgive and correct me if I am wrong, but since girls are generally more into the "bad" and "mean" guys, I was wondering whether that idea would also apply when it comes to talking to them for the first time.

HAHAH, I certainly choked while drinking my water when I read this as it would be funny as hell for me to WATCH someone approach like that....

I would suggest.....NO! lol

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I'm still not quite sure why it wouldn't work. I've read some stories of how it worked. Or are those exceptions rather than the rule?

Why do so many of you think that to be a "bad boy" = to be disrespectful?

Women do not like being disrespected... no one does. The 'bad' boy has certain characteristics that women are drawn to ... dominance, independence; he takes them through an emotional roller coaster, he's unpredictable, unwilling to conform. She feels she could change him, save him... all these things make him desirable.

You're not a bad boy; I'd venture to say you don't possess any of these traits ^. And now what you're planning to do with this opener of yours is fake being disrespectful- something that women are not drawn to anyway...



-Roz

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I would venture to say it probably has never worked...even those who say it has are probably lying...I can't think of any woman who would react well to being called a bitch....lol and THEN told to fuck!lol

But, who am I to say, field test it on your own...just take video of it so I can watch it from a distance...

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Thanks for the input.

So how would one become a bad boy, and how could I acquire those traits if I don't have them like you say I don't?
I'll give it a try to just a few women... Even if it miserably fails, at least I'll get a cheap laugh or two.

basically to act like mel gibson,

you've gotta think like mel gibson!

it not, no one will be fooled!

That really isn't going to get you anywhere to be honest. I can't imagine a situation where that opener would work, unless of course the girl was really really drunk.

Deliberately p*** her off. Nothing serious, just playful and a bit over the top. When she gets angry (or pretends to), tell her, "Look, I know what your problem is. You're just mad cause u wanna f*** me and I won't let you!" Look her straight in the eye when you say it, in a playful manner. Works like a charm. She'll pretend to be indignant, but her eyes will be GLUED to you from there on out.

PS The hotter the girl is, the better it works, because 9s and 10s have probably NEVER run into a guy with the gits to say something like that.

Another one (piss her off first, enough to make her give you the silent SPAM):

"I know why u don't talk to me. It's because you're so turned on by me, you know that if you even so much glance in my direction, you're gonna come in your pants!" Then blow her a kiss, smile and wink. I am SHOCKED at how well this one works. Again, the hooter she is, the better this one works.

Or, you could try the opposite approach:

http://www.zanperrion.com/the-essence-o ... uction.php

Better yet, mix and match -- one minute an angel, the next a devil

A friend of mine did this exact approach and it worked

He however is a male model with millionaire grandparents so......

It's an interesting approach. Instead of asking why dont u tell her. "were f***ing tonight" and then move on to a strong DHV gambit. If you ask, you betray your confident, strong, frame. You seem to be looking for a reaction. But if you tell her, you keep your frame, open her, gives you a chance to transition. Whatever you say next must be really good.

Not my style but i'd love to see it.