About 5 months ago, I'd been seeding this girl, lets call her Alpha. 2 months after i'd started talking to her we eventually got together and started seeing each other. Things were great, we really connected and I was starting to think she could be my girlfriend. Then, all of a sudden, she wanted a break, she said I was too obsessive and needed to breath. At that moment in time, I was shocked and confused, I couldnt understand why she didn't just ask me to stop, instead of calling a break.

I did the wrong thing by talking to her still, trying to find out what i had done. A week later, I worked it out that the break was just a polite way of saying she didnt like me anymore, and all attraction had gone. I was pissed off that she'd fucked me over.

Now, its just over 2 months since she called the 'break' and shes started talking to me again, she's complimented me on my looks etc. and her friends are asking me whats going on with her and i. Nothing is going on, but now i am starting to think that she might be slightly interested again.

As she fucked me over, my gut instinct is to leave it, and not even try with her, which I think is the right desicion. But shes a solid 9+ out of 10, when we were together it was awesome and i know if we tried it again I wouldn't make the same mistakes as I did the first time round.

Any opinions would be great,

Retro.

In my opinion,
Go for it... go have fun, tease her, play with her, learn from her.
Don't be to serious, don't go into the relationship or whatever it is, expecting anything from her. Don't try change her. Don't let little things she does upset you, don't get jealous, please for f*ck sakes don't become possessive, obsessive, needy or clingy. ( sorry, just emphasizing because i just came out of relationship where i was pussy whipped, and that's exactly what happens when you're whipped, whether you want to or not)
Don't get annoyed when she doesn't do what you want her too, lead her but don't force her.
Realize that you can't make her want to talk to you, love you, miss you. Thats that.
You're the male her, you're in control, keep it like that and you will keep her. You have options, you have woman begging for your attention...if it isn't true... believe it, make it your reality!
And, if she can't handle you, for you. Move on buddy, she wasn't meant for you, there are thousands more like her.

Good luck, and keep everyone posted on how it goes!
Guru

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thanks alot man, im gonna jump on it
peace

My beloved Retr0, I would also advise to go for it, but this time you be in control. I'm no expert obviously but last time I think you let her do all the controlling and you never got your say- learn to say no to her, fuck her around a bit so she has to work for you (don't answer texts calls and stuff).

Also mate, I found this pretty interesting/useful

http://www.menshealth.co.uk/sex/mens-he ... g-mistakes

Blue

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