Hey guys! I'm going straight to the point:

1) I break out with my ex girlfriend about 3 months ago (3 and a half years of relationship)

2) I'm going out 3 or 4 nights a week

3) I don't have job (don't know what to do)

4) I've met many women this 3 months, I didn't get any KClose or Fclose with any girl that I REALLY like, only with those HBs 5 or 6. (I don't know why I'm not getting the girls I like, all my life was the same, only getting 4s 5s and 6s.

5) My replication circuit in my head is killing me... my ex girlfriend is not very hot, but it's a real woman, I mean, shes great in all aspects, but it's a 6


so my problem is, I don't really know what to do with my life... I'm 24 and I can't stop thinking things like "and what if I dont find a girl like my ex" "what if I find a very hot woman but she's dumb or something"

The real thing is I CAN go back with my ex if I wanted to... but if i go back I can't play this anymore (or maybe yes but not like now)

so I'm between two positions:

1) get back with my girl, she's great but not too hot
2) continue as now, seeking for the perfect woman and completely lose my ex, with the possibility of not getting the woman I like and nothing like my ex



So, I come here to hear some great advices from you guys... what would you do in my situation?

thank you all!

Personally, I would concentrate on finding a job before everything else. Just focus on that until you get one. In the meantime, stay away from the ex, unless she has some job information for you. Once you get a job and start making money, things will fall into place.

It sounds to me, that you have one-its, you'll get over it especially when you'll figure out, that there are even hotter, smarter and better women out there than your ex.
If you have the ability to meet women, then for 100% sure you have the abillity to k,f-close them it just takes a little practice Keep your head up, if you'll keep talking to the women, then surely some of them'll like you very much and you'll be able to close FAST
BTW also if you're able to entertain HB6 you'll be able to entertain HB10, just go for it and first few times you might get massive blow outs, but when you learn your mistakes it makes everything easy


You can go back yes, BUT do you think your relationship'll ever be the same NO. There is more then 3 billion women on this world and I can assure you your GF is not THE #1

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