Hello PUA's!
My name is John, I'm from Portugal and I'm 17 years old.

I've been reading fastseduction, and I consider myself AFC, and I actually laughed at how well is the site explained! The way the levels were explained were so like "Hey isn't this website made by me? Because that's what I'm thinking at the moment", it's like the creator know what is in my mind!

And I'm here to get some advices, to start off I'd like to say that my life wasn't being the best since 3-5 months ago, since than everything started to get brigther and fun, I started to get friends, go out with them, basicly having fun!

But, why am I here? I am here to get advices with girls, I never kissed a girl because to be honest I never tried to get to them...And I only had crushes and was afraid, but since those 3-5 months ago things have gotten better, I finally said to myself that I got man-up and get balls, that's what I did, now I don't have problems saying the girl is pretty or cute, but I have another problem...I'm blocked by the "Only friends" barrier...For example, 2 weekends ago, I was with a girl flirting, out there in the night cuddling, but when moments to kiss appears and I seemed to be stoped by myself (And I know she wanted to)...Than 2 days after I gonne to ask her if she likes me and she says "Only friends, sorry", and I was like "oh, ok, I knew it, why did I ask? Plain stupid...But hey was my first try, gotta learn from it.."

I don't know what you think of this, but I'd like a comment about it please? Something like a heads-up or tips..I don't know...something?


By the way, this carnival, a girl I don't see for like 5-6 years? Have been asking me if I go to the carnival party here in my city, I said probably I will, but what could I do? When I see her there? The place is like a disco...Any tip/suggestion?

And about the eye languague can someone give me a heads up?


Hope to see some responses, thanks
Sincerely,
JohnPT

Always keep good eye contact with your target. It shows confidence and is attractive to women.

If you are in the position where you know the girl wants to kiss YOU (like you said you were), then say to her, "Do you want to kiss me?". It is a complete mind fuck for the girl and it comes as a surprise. If she says "you mean you want to kiss me?" or something along those lines, just gently pull her in close to you and go in for the kiss. Don't ask to do it. If she really doesnt want to kiss you, she will pull away and if she does that, then you need to work on building a better emotional connection with her before moving onto physical moves.

Hey John!

Don't feel to bad about all this, some people bloom early, some late, some never. But give yourself props for taking the biggest step....which is accepting and now working to change it.
I must say though, it won't always be easy, you won't always feel comfortable with what you're doing or what you're saying....but, you will learn a lot, a lot a bought girls, yourself and social dynamics.
Its the most amazing thing when you see everything you've read, been told or learnt fall into place. When everything starts making sense, and you know how every situation is going to unfold.

But more about your situation. Everyone gets hit with the LJBFs, trust me.
Straight off the bat, I want you to accept and believe this about girls: " They are but only pebbles on the beach" - Mr Leek. Because you're going to fall for a chick sooner than later if you take this seriously, and then you'll have to focus on keeping her. Just remember, than any girl is replaceable. But you'll have lots of time when that comes around( and it will).

Don't be afraid to touch girls, and i mean non-sexually before you're intimate or before she lets you haha. Touch her arm, place your hand on her hips when you close and talking to her. Don't be afraid to kiss her if you can see she likes you, if she pulls away....move on. NEXT! Don't be afraid to make the first move. Girls can sense when you're uncomfortable, trust me. They don't miss much, so stay confident, believe in yourself, and go have fun!!

Guru

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Thanks for the responses guys.

I just want to get over this and start with the good PU art.
I need to keep trying, I won't be quitting for sure, I will need time and effort...

My mind is already set...
1. Getting into shape, lost already some pounds, aiming for a 6-pack and nice arms, changing my visual...
2. Get a job, get money, buy fancy things... (Get independant from my parents)
3. Train everytime I can when I am near a girl, today I even flirted with a girl via phone, private call to a friend of mine, he got annoyed so he asked me to annoy her and I did my job and it ended up with flirting...I felt good after doing this, I thaught I was never able to get free-minded like that...

This are my 3 dots I want to follow for now, my final objective is someday I can get the maximum number of girls phone numbers in a night, if I can acomplish that I'm sure I will need no more training, though I got a other smaller objectives such as having a good night every week or so...

I might be a little ambition, but I like to think high...and I think there is nothing wrong it that is there? xD

But I am really focused on this, I am bored of watching some of my friend getting laid like every single week and when I look at myself I see a "retarded" guy who never kissed a girl...really I'm determined to follow the art of the pick up and I hope someday soon I can get a chick to play with

Yes! Awesome!
Just don't put too much pressure on your self, you aren't familiar with girls yet, so you will get AA. And sometimes you won't have something to say.
When this happens, just relax. Don't beat yourself up about it.
Just forget about it, analyze what happened if you can, but mainly move on.
But good luck man, I'd love to be up dated on how things go and how you progress.

Guru

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Welcome to my reality ~ DeAngelo

That's a great ideia, I might do a journal, not daily, maybe weekly or so...

I just watched yeterday night the Pick-Up Artist from MTV and I was outstanded by how people with 25+ even 45 years old didn't ever have sex or even kissed a girl...that gave a lot of confidence to be honest, I never thaught there would be people like that anywhere...I guess I was wrong ^^

Hey and thanks for showing interest on my progress