Hi I'm new to this. I've recently moved house and have joined a local gym. I don't know anybody in the area but there is a pretty receptionist there who I want to ask out but don't exactly know how to approach her, as shes at work. She always comes across as really friendly and smiles and says hi but I never know what to say to her and I need an opening. Any help would be greatly appriciated.

I'm in a similar state there is a girl at my gym who works as a weight room attendant she always stares at me lifting weights but looks pissed off when she is working. I would just start in you case by walking in the gym and look like ur txting on your phone. when she is there to swipe your card and let u in look up from you phone and say something like "hey i need a quick opinion.."

She will respond with an okay or something of the sort.

Say you and ur friend have been txting all day about would you marry based on only looks or money. This puts her at a disadvantage if she says money call her out for being a gold digger if she says looks tell her she is concieded. then just playfully give her a hard time for her answer. after that its up to you what you do.

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