Hey guys, i recently came across an opening sticking point... i really have no idea how can i open in a loud venue, i mean really loud like DnB or Electro partys, it's impossible to talk to anyone there if you don't isolate.

Do you have any idea on how can i do this?

I go there because i like the music and there are always really hot girls there, and it bothers me a bit that there is nothing that i can do xD.
And the music don't stop so i really need a non verbal opener or something like that, maybe a easy to understand short opener... but keep in mind that these girls are not the barbie type that go out to meet guys, but they are usually really friendly.
If you can give me any tips i would appreciate it.

Hey yeah I got the same problem here at home, back here all clubs and discos are loud like you would dance at the back of a rocket engine [For fun me and my friends once acually measured volume of the place 106dB ]

Anyway even if you open with short opener, you still have to talk and music kills your words, so the best way to do it is with body language, you just come in and start dancing with her, grab her lower back, reel her in and dance, from there you can start escelating, you don't really need to say anything, just use facial expressions and touching

Hope this helps

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I know i need to open with something non-verbal, but dancing here isn't an option. I am talking about Drum n bass, electro or rock concerts, i have no ideia how to dance this with an HB.

Eye contact, when she looks, smile, wink and when she smiles back you go in and start dancing or just go in and introduce yourself

Cheers

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well if it's like deaf inside these places you go then you probably won"t be able to talk a whole lot as you mentioned, which means you will have to be able to read body language. If this is a dance club, here in the US I just look for some cues, show everyone that I'm having an awesome time, smile then if things look well and you start getting that eye contact and smiles back then just walk up and start dancing with them if they find you attractive by any means they will let you dance with them for qualification... You can use a lot of kino in these situations as well such as, lightly touching her on the arm to get her attention and speaking into her ear, then just go from there! Good Luck!

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I made a thread on this exact topic: guide-to-gaming-loud-venues-vt86526.html

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