So I got this chicks number, and at the time she was definitely into me. However, over the past few days it SEAMS as if she may be losing interest. which is why I am here posting, to get some advice from you playas

Last time I was with her we chilled till 4 in the morning, and I eventually built up the confidence to K close at the end of the night. Shoulda done it way earlier, but was in my head too much.

Ever since that night, we have been sporadically texting back and forth, but nothing too interesting or serious. Which is where and why I think she is flaking (via text) because our conversation just hasn't been all that entertaining.

but the part where I get confused is she is still the one initiating SOME conversations through text, but a few that I have started... I'll talk to her and she'll flake out and not text me back or it will take 5 hours to get a response.

Wasn't sure what to do or how to recover from where I am at. Lol and just now she texted me back, but thats my pet peev... when people take forever to text me back. so not sure if I have built enough attraction or interest. I kinda think this may be the case, but she is also been showing some pretty significant IOI's so not srue if that is true.

How do you guys deal with flakes, or what advice to you have for someone in my situation? Also, any suggestions for text game would be greatly appreciated.

Thx

- aFTeRm4Th

Sounds like shes having some fun with you to me. I would just try not texting her back at all for a few days. See if she keeps texting you. At some point you gotta quit the texting nonsense and make the move to meet up with her.

I myself don't like the texting game too much anyway, I may send one or two, but will always take like five hours to reply and I will always suggest we meetup that night/day. If they give me some bullshit excuse, even if its real, I just don't text back at all. They usually text me in 2/3 days again. From there again I'm suggesting we meetup that day, usually this time they are free

Rebel

Sometimes women WILL cancel over legit reasons, but hardly ever twice in a row. If they do this 2 or 3 times, find someone else.

Not that she is canceling anything... We have actually hung out a few times, its just my pet peev when texting when people take 5 hours to respond or dont at all. But I think I figured out why, was looking back through the texts and they were just boring as hell. So started throwing in a little flirting and more interesting conversation and it seemed to go well.

So now I just need to keep escalating the "flirting" with the texting to establish more interest, and set up a time for a 2nd/3rd.

Text game has always been my weakness, what general advice do you guys have for texting?

Also, I think my game plan for when I meet up with her next is just to play cocky/funny, cuz I'm pretty good at that and just DHV the hell out of myself. Pretty sure she is already attracted, but just to be safe. Also, might throw in a few minor negs but she is a pretty shy girl and HB 8 so I don't wanna neg her too much. And then start moving on the male to female interest.

This has also always been a weakness for me, actually conveying how I am feeling towards a girl PROPERLY and showing my attraction. And in the past because I havn't done this, girls will get bored or whatever and move on. My assumptions are to just keep it interesting through flirting, having her qualify herself, and then me showing IOI's towards her. But what advice do you guys have for this stage of the game? Perhaps some real suggestions from experience and not from a book (the MM lol)

- aFTeRm4Th

First off, flakes will happen - it's just one of those things that never goes away (like a bad STD!) Girls will be really into you in THAT MOMENT, only to lose interest, be busy, start seeing someone else, or a million other things, a few days later. You just can't hang your hopes on one particular girl, and just always have 2 or 3 in the mix at any one time so you never get outcome dependent (needy).

In this case, you hit an important point - your texts were getting boring. If every text is basically "when are we meeting" then she's gonna stop responding. However, sending a few random funny ones, without any invite, just to pique her interest, will keep things ticking over nicely.

The BEST thing you can do is to CALL. As long as you're not completely shit on the phone, having a proper conversation (lighthearted, funny) will build nice comfort, keep the emotional momentum going, and make it much more likely for her to agree on an invite.

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