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PostPosted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 2:17 am 
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So I got a Number from HB9. We meeting up tomorrow. Been talking to her for a week. and I have no clue where to take her for a date? plus I don't know how i would act? we met a party. didnt talk much but she added me on fb and thats where most of the convo happened. So I think in person it might get a lil awkward. how can i avoid that? any pointers on conversation or where to take her


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 2:36 am 
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So I got a Number from HB9. We meeting up tomorrow. Been talking to her for a week. and I have no clue where to take her for a date? plus I don't know how i would act? we met a party. didnt talk much but she added me on fb and thats where most of the convo happened. So I think in person it might get a lil awkward. how can i avoid that? any pointers on conversation or where to take her
she probably just wants to fool around. So go to a park and fool around.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 2:39 am 
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Take her out for a drink, casual like maybe organise to me some friends after then you can bounce locus and almost have a second date. Make sure its a mixed male female thing tho.

If you cant drink yet you can still do coffee and arrange the same thing.

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I asked her how long she got and if its just me and her or if shes gonna be with her friends. This is what she says

"I have a few hours. anddd whatever you wanna do.. do you care if people come or not? Well plan something to do when we meet up"

basically I wanted to chill with her alone. But I think she wants to bring her friends? And its just gonna be awkward for me if she brings guy friends with her? but i dont wanna seem like anti social lol so what should I do? Should i suggest maybe i can bring a friend and she can bring a friend and we can just chill or should I just tell her straight up we should chill alone? how do i go about this?

How should I respond?


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sounds like you got in over your head?

you asked her out, but have no idea what you are going to do or how you are going to act?

inner game, my man.


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I asked her how long she got and if its just me and her or if shes gonna be with her friends. This is what she says

"I have a few hours. anddd whatever you wanna do.. do you care if people come or not? Well plan something to do when we meet up"

basically I wanted to chill with her alone. But I think she wants to bring her friends? And its just gonna be awkward for me if she brings guy friends with her? but i dont wanna seem like anti social lol so what should I do? Should i suggest maybe i can bring a friend and she can bring a friend and we can just chill or should I just tell her straight up we should chill alone? how do i go about this?

How should I respond?
That sound like she's testing you, how do you fix that? You test her back. Challenge her, say to her that you're going (skydiving / bungee / rock climbing) and she and her friends should join you and then see if she has the 'balls' to do that with you :D No I'm just kidding, but really you can do that and since she'll most certainly say no, you say to her something like: ''Oh OK you're not so adventurous as I thought, oh well I've got another adrenaline rush thing for you, let's go to dinner.'' :P

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I asked her how long she got and if its just me and her or if shes gonna be with her friends. This is what she says

"I have a few hours. anddd whatever you wanna do.. do you care if people come or not? Well plan something to do when we meet up"

basically I wanted to chill with her alone. But I think she wants to bring her friends? And its just gonna be awkward for me if she brings guy friends with her? but i dont wanna seem like anti social lol so what should I do? Should i suggest maybe i can bring a friend and she can bring a friend and we can just chill or should I just tell her straight up we should chill alone? how do i go about this?

How should I respond?
IS EVERYONE SERIOUSLY MISSING THIS??? She wants to hang out alone and hook up. If you try to push her to make decisions your going to trigger her ASD and then you are gonna lose her. Say "I just wanna hang out with you. I feel like we had a special connection and I would like to explore it more." Then spend the whole time making out, bro.

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^^^^^^Seriously only7, listen to the advice above me if you still have time!!

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