Hi. I'm 29, from Los Angeles.

IMO, I've been lucky enough to date above my league (physically), though I do get hung up on things. I don't know what my exact motive is in signing up, beyond curiosity. I do like mind-fucking people, using attitude and words. That might not be the preferred term, but it's my term.

The biggest problem that stands out in my mind is that I don't like coldly approaching women. My dating history is solely made up of girls I've worked with as a volunteer, friends of friends, etc. If nothing else, I don't like having some unchallenged fear of kicking my ass; even if nothing came of it, it'd be cool to know how to introduce myself, initiate conversations, with women in bars and clubs, without worrying that the sense of rejection would affect me.

It's easy but it''s kind of like a game so your not going to be pro at it when you first start and if anyone who is successful says it was then they're lying.. what I do is just say hi to everyone until I don't care anymore, then I initiate a conversation after wards, then naturally you will pick up on naturally what to say in the moment...but no matter how much you study this stuff if you don't go out and just do it, your not going to get any better.

What up fellas. I'm new to this board also, first post here.

I know what you mean about the cold approach in the bars. That shit still kills me. Its like anything tough though, the first three pass then its gravy.

I'm good with day game (kinda prefer seeing a girl's vibe sober and work well by myself), working to get better in bar club situations.

If you're up for it, let's go roll on LA. I'm 34, passing for 26 and ready to build a new social circle that's gonna be productive for my life. I'm a natural I guess you'd say. It seems like I'm fucking up less than I used to and it's led to some good places.

Anyway, get at me. I need a wing. I like to roll sober not judging or hating on anyone's game, but keeping it all on the up and up.

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