Met a 27 year old last weekend, we got on well and the next day I text her late, and woke her up. I tried to act cute and it backfired, she told me I woke her up.

Any advice? A week later, should I bother with her or not. I don't have many other options, but she did asked exchange numbers and never txt me. I text her a few times and got ignored. It sounds like she changed her mind about me!

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I couldnt wait for any replies, so i went ahead with something of my own.

I just text her saying you asked to exchange numbers, I thought we were friends now and guys have feelings too. She replied instantly saying, she didnt want to lead anybody on because she's been heartbroken the past 3 months, I guess she come out of a relationship.

Tell me what you think of my next reply?
"Thanks for quick and honest reply. I figured as much. That's too bad, I'm a great catch. I hope you find your way, smiling looked good on you. (which is did btw)

she just replied with a

was that kind of gay or did I do all right?
Hopefully she thinks of me in the future, or next time she sees me, she might be cool.

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i think what you said sounded pretty cool, especially the part about looking great with a smile. it was like you told her she was pretty and you wanted her to be happy at the same time. that's cool. good job, i'd say.

Then I'll leave it on a good note. I don't really want to pest her, hopefully theres an inception of me being a good guy in her head now, she can sleep on that.

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Hey Crazy Jester, I dont know if you want an opinion from a female..
but I think you handled that pretty well.
Usually when a guy texts me a couple times and I dont respond, it's a sign that she's not interested. So maybe next time, switch it up, call her instead and say "We're going out." Dont leave it open ended, set up a time and if she agrees, you're a shoe in.

LetsJump, I'm all for a female opinion.
I'm not sure I have the confidence to do that yet.. But it's worth a try.

So when I call her, it's something all the lines of, "We're going out, xxxx place at xxx time."

Thats baller. It's well out of my comfortzone, so I guess she might go for it.
How long should I leave it??

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Yes, try!
Make sure it's not too aggressive or she might get turned off, if you dont think you can do that just yet, take it simple.
Say, "Let's go out" And before she can answer, give her a place and time, make sure it's not too soon or too far away, within 2- 4 days is ideal. From there, work your charm.

Just keep her number and text her month later

If she doesnt go for it, at least I tried.

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Not gay at all dude, you played it cool the entire way. Good luck to you in the future Crazy Jester!

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