i have this problem before i open i use a pre opener to show a bit of comfort ' and a great first impresson the problem is after the pre opener i want to give a spontaneous opener but all i can come up with is something old (i wanna be natural) i wanna know the solution

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I Just Dont Give A Fuck

Try something like this, when you make your pre-opener say:

''Hey while you're up here, tell me something real quick, would you ever slept with your best friend if she asked you to after she broke off with her boyfriend.''

I always use this same transition and I've came up with this new opener, but the credit really goes to IsraeliDude and his situation, so he gets the copyrights:

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That is just an example how a new opener is formed, so you can now create your own one:D

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How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD

can you explain a bit more?

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I Just Dont Give A Fuck

First you use your pre-opener right? Or a social question, which looks like:
''Hey do you know where starbucks is / Do you have the time / How can I get to x,y,z...''

After that you have two options:
a) You make a transition (''Hey while you're up her tell me...) on an opener (Like the one that I gave you or some other opener).
b)You make an observational remark (''I see that you're wearing a necklace, my sister has the same one, where did you get it'') and then develop that into a topic of conversation.

What I described here is opening and then transition into conversation

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How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD

thanx mate

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I Just Dont Give A Fuck

With me I usually always check out a girl for a second before I walk up to her. I'll look at what she is wearing, what she looks like.

example: This HB11 at the mall was wearing true religion jeans. She was with her friend i saw her in the hat store I say

me: "HEY! You stole my jeans!"

by looking at what she is wearing I thought of a opener.

also you can think of something that has happened to you earlier in the day, think about something u and your friend were discussing. Like me and my friend (We both live in Utah) saw CJ Miles (a basketball player for the Utah Jazz) Just walking around in the mall.

example: I go up to a girl probably 5,6 and im 6 ft i say "Hey am I short to you?" she says "No your like average height..."

I say "Yeah I just saw CJ miles walking around here and he made me feel like a midget!"

she says "Yeah your kind of short"

I say "haha how short are you again?"


got her number (;