Busted Gaming???



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 17 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Tools & Techniques of Game: Meeting, Attracting and Seducing Women » Approaching and Opening




Author Message
 Post subject: Busted Gaming???
PostPosted: Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:25 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Dec 24, 2010 8:58 am
Posts: 117
This happened to me on Saturday night! I was gaming a girl asked her to pick a number between one and four and she says

HB "You're doing the game!".
Bloke "What are you talking about?"
HB "The Game! I know you're doing it"
Bloke "Yeah my brothers a psychologist he taught me this game"
HB" " I know how it works"
Bloke "Okay GO are you thinking of 2??"
HB "No it's 3"
Bloke "Oh my brother told me it's always 2 :("

The key is to have a very strong frame. Make her feel silly for saying something so random and foreign to your innocent ears. Eventually I isolated her and she told me

HB "The Game is a Secret Society of guys who get chicks."
Bloke "Like the Illuminate?"

I told her a story about how I tried to join the Illuminate and mum cracked it. Then she explained more about "The Game" to me I acted interested and dumb the whole time.

So a girl ended up telling me how the game works (to the best of her ability). She told me she'd blown off other guys in the past she'd caught using the game on her (bloke "Wait! You actually met guys from this secret society??".) Yet I went on a day 2 with her yesterday and it's pretty much a done deal. On the date she tells me even more about the game, amazing.

It comes down to 2 things if you get busted gaming
1. A strong frame
2. Confidence in the fact that if your game is strong a girl probably won't know half as much as you do. It's likely she'll know what a neg and a cube is and that's it.
(for the record I ran the cube on her too, another one of my brothers psychological tests lol!)


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:41 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sun Mar 07, 2010 9:30 pm
Posts: 87
this should be the official thread for covering our asses!!!


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Mon Feb 21, 2011 3:10 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Fri Feb 18, 2011 5:20 am
Posts: 88
I don't use routines for this exact reason, but I guess it didn't completely blow up in your face.

Good thing you're quick on your feet.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Mon Feb 21, 2011 6:06 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Dec 24, 2010 8:58 am
Posts: 117
Most PUAs will have a deep seated fear of being discovered. It can add to approach anxiety. It will detract from you overall game, if before every gambit or routine you think, "shit i hope she hasn't heard this one!"

This is why it is important when you advance your game to move from canned openers to those that are improvised. If I had given this girl a canned opener (like I had many other sets that night) She would have been much more likely to blow me off (not literally, unfortunately). I asked her why she was all by herself or something "don't you have any friends?".

Also the way I see it many gambits are very very powerful tools. Just because some girls may have heard of them there's no reason to throw them all in the bin. It's worth the risk that you may get busted because 8/10 girls won't have heard of the game.

For the other 2/10 have your escape route planned before that horrible day comes and maintain a strong frame.
Quote:
Good thing you're quick on your feet.
It's not about wit as much as it is about a strong frame. I guarantee all people who have been busted gaming and overcome it have one thing in common. A much stronger frame than the target. In other words your frame that you have never heard of the game before must be much stronger than her frame (of catching you out running game). If your frame is strong enough you can get busted and even say something like "Yeah so what you lucky bitch!" without blowing out.
If you shake in your boots and go, " aw shit you caught me :(" well,
game over


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Mon Feb 21, 2011 9:26 am 
Offline
Dedicated Member
User avatar

Joined: Mon Nov 09, 2009 7:46 am
Posts: 528
Website: http://www.facebook.com/spreadloveders
Location: US
a deep seated fear of being discovered? wtf?

_________________
Attraction is a choice.
ITS YOUR CHOICE!
Spread Love
-Ders


www.facebook.com/spreadloveders


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Mon Feb 21, 2011 10:59 am 
Offline
Moderator Emeritus
User avatar

Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2007 2:35 pm
Posts: 2091
Website: http://www.sashapua.com
Location: London
Best way to diffuse the problem of "being discovered" ?

TELL HER YOU'RE HITTING ON HER FROM THE BEGINNING

_________________
SEX Technique Material http://bit.ly/iFdky0

FREE PDF w Openers, Date ideas and Videos on Direct: http://www.sashapua.com


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 8:09 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Dec 24, 2010 8:58 am
Posts: 117
Deep seated fear meaning no one wants to be found out running game and this can cause worry for many guys. If you never worry about being sprung you don't open many sets or you have a magic confidence that I do not.
Quote:
TELL HER YOU'RE HITTING ON HER FROM THE BEGINNING
I have too many times gone into a set and missed the target because I outright hit on the obstacle and ended up wining her instead of the target. So I'm gonna start opening sets and instead of ignoring the target I will make her the focus of my attention with with the group as an afterthought. Especially if the group is a mix of 7s and 8s. I've found MM techniques really only work well on HB 10s. I think I will still use indirect game, but directly on the target.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 12:19 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Tue Feb 22, 2011 12:36 am
Posts: 20
Quote:
Best way to diffuse the problem of "being discovered" ?
Being discovered?
Discovered doing what exactly?
You're just there for your own fun, is there anything wrong with it?
With such additude it doesn't really matter what you say, you put her back where you want her in no time
:)


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 7:28 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast
User avatar

Joined: Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:10 am
Posts: 65
Website: http://taooftalk.com
I consider Stock Routines to be "training wheels" for the PUA in Training. As you gain experience, get into funny social situations, and flex your social muscles from going out, these should be cycled out for original routines: remember, there is a huge difference between "training wheels" and "crutches" -- don't rely on stock, because this will inevitably happen.

I have a good 8-12 openers, all original, that I use nowadays.

If you're looking for good ideas for original openers, watch a few hours of Comedy Central Stand Up Comedy -- think about it. These guys put it all on the line every night and open to a crowd of 5000, and have less than 2 minutes to get every person in the house eating out of the palm of their hand. They are the ultimate PUAs.

_________________
http://www.taooftalk.com | Tao of Talk | "Talk Isn't Cheap." -- Got Trouble Opening and Holding a Conversation? Let Me Help You. It's What I Do. Send Me a PM or Visit My Site.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sun Feb 27, 2011 4:53 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Dec 24, 2010 8:58 am
Posts: 117
Quote:
I consider Stock Routines to be "training wheels" for the PUA in Training.
Yep totally agree. I just haven't thought up many originals yet. Care to share some examples? Promise I won't steal! Also are the openers you create situational or na?


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 10 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link