Is there a list of IOI when having IM conversations with a women? (Which might include webcam chatting also.)

-But something like, laughing at your jokes. Or even taking abuse (such as wishing she would die and this would make mankind a better place [not sure if this steps into the friend zone])

-Or, neither denying or accepting sex. As in, when suggesting sex, she says neither, but just sort of plays along with the sexual subtext. Although mentioning "you will never be that lucky".

-Hating you.

-Sharing stories about her ex bf with you and his wussiness. And how she "fucking hates men".

-Not wishing you good luck or rather wishing "hope you fail" whenever you are about to do something

-Calling you a freak, weird, and by a nickname.

I have some more to add but I can't think of them yet.


Also from my side:

Would it be good or bad to mention to her "I know you want me", or "love me or hate me, you know you want me"? Does this come up as insecurity or positive thing. Mentioned it a couple of times and got a few "couldn't care less responses". Is that playing hard to get, or does she really mean it?


Mod notice: if you feel this thread belongs in the online sarging section, you can move it there.

It's a fine line between just flirting and meaning it.

I hate online dating and messaging for the fact that most of the females on there are totally satisfied with just harmless flirting.

They have no intentions of truely hooking up.

I believe it's the case with this girl.

If you'd gotten her # prior,there's a greater chance of her being more than just a serial flirt.

To me,it seems like you're strictly chatting to her online.

You should not take serious anyones' IOI's online.

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[quote="k-loc"]It's a fine line between just flirting and meaning it.

I hate online dating and messaging for the fact that most of the females on there are totally satisfied with just harmless flirting.

They have no intentions of truely hooking up.

I believe it's the case with this girl.

If you'd gotten her # prior,there's a greater chance of her being more than just a serial flirt.

To me,it seems like you're strictly chatting to her online.

You should not take serious anyones' IOI's online.[/quote]

Oh, thats a new thing I have learned.

But I was speaking a bit hypothetically. Say you asked her to show her underwear on webcam and she complied. Would that count or would that be just harmless flirting? (I would usually respond by being repulsed when looking at them, and then usually saying "those panties would look better on your head".)

I'm not sure with what you mean by "more than just a serial flirt" or the entire bit in fact.

To explain a situation, a girl has asked me for my number, and I gave it to her. She does occasionally text and we already have agreed to meet. I had to pop the question twice though. One after a few chats, and one after some weeks. The first time a bit of interest was shown with the words along the lines of "yeah, I guess so". The second time was with greater interest with words like "yeah of course", followed by a quick "when though?"

And I think you have a point there of not taking online IOIs seriously. Thanks. Although those flirtatious responses and IOIs (if they can be called as such) do continue on to text.

Thanks for the response btw.

Edit: I don't know why the quotes are broken.

Mostly depends on context, but perhaps a smile or wink, at the appropriate times. It is hard to tell though, without seeing them in person.

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I'll just bump this thread in hope of getting more responses. I'm pretty sure someone has something to add here and it would be much appreciated.

Why are you even bothered about IOIs from messenger. Not to put this harshly but stop being a pussy and try and arrange something with her. That's literally the ONLY way to find out whether she likes you or not.