Ok so there is this girl that I have been attracted to. Well I went up to talk to her today. She had moved to a different seat in class and always seems to walk by me when leaving. I started talking to her telling her that she looks really familiar, which she does, but like I told her, I can't think of who she looks like. We talked for a few minutes, but didn't tell each other our names. I was running late for a class, but told her that I would get back to her next week about it.When I started the conversation, I was a few steps behind her, and she stopped walking and faced her body towards me. She seemed to smile and laugh a lot, and she was focused on me and had her eyes looking at me.

My friend said it seemed like she was into me, and he said it seemed like she was expecting me to talk to her. He had also said he could hear her laugh and he was a ways away from me.

I am just getting into PUA and I am trying to work on natural game. I don't really like remember stories and what to say.

Natural game for beginners... sounds like a bit of a paradox really. If you're a natural, you wouldn't need to be on a PUA forum. That's not a criticism, just an observation.

Have you read any of Mystery's stuff? Most "Natural" gamers used to used canned material, but once you do it enough, you've then gained enough experience to stop using them. But you've got to go through that process to get to that stage.

There is no "magic bullet" cure for AFCism... if there was, our job would be alot harder, because everyone would be "good" with women!

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Well, I kind of interpret natural game a little differently then I guess. I have read some of the stuff published by Mystery, but my problem is that I am rarely in clubs and meet most women during the day. I feel that if I used some of the things mystery taught, I would become reliant on it and use it until it is no longer good.

I do incorporate some things he and style have taught, but I have found myself liking the teachings of vin dicarlo.

Either way, was this a good sign during the opening. I only see this girl once a week. What should I have done differently and what do I need to do next time I see her.

You seem like you're doing OK. But as I said, you just need more practice - as do I!! Don't think about routines getting old... it's more your approach to them that matters... just think of them as training wheels.

With respect to your experience...

I think she's interested.. you've just got to make sure you don't come across as too needy or desperate.. play it cool and take your time.

DON'T put too much into "getting this girl". If you do get her, it's cool... if you don't - just means you can do more sarging!

Sarge on!

Zan

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Thanks man. I really appreciate it.

Well, so off the top of my head:
She's giving you proximity by walking by you.
She gives you her full attention when talking to you.
She laughs when shes talking to you.

You've set yourself up perfectly to give her a nickname -- gauge how attractive she thinks she is. The prettier she finds herself, the more solid and strong of a self concept she has, and the more cocky you can be with her. As such, I'd give her the name of an ugly or a promiscuous celebrity that you think she reminds you of.
This gives you conspiracy with her, and lets you call her across the hallway as "Lisa Minelli" or "Lindsey Lohan" or whoever, so the two of you have a shared joke you can always fall back on to get a smile from her.

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I guess its started

Everyones learning even the tops are still prac. the arts because theres always new women and new ways they'll be sneaky. dont get to comfy because thats when Friend zone appears just play it safe