when i go to parties people tell me im a player, how do you get rid of them vibes it ruins your game

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if women say it to you thats an ioi if men say it just joke with them and say "of course i am but ill give you a head start". for the women be cock funny say something like " well, not on saturdays" or something witty

I like to use reframes as in blaming the girl for being a bad influence,naughty etc.. but depends on why your getting player vibe in the first place ,i used to get it when i was too smooth having all the lines and comebacks and an agressive approach semi salesman like but these days i mix comfort with attraction instead of attraction alone and have a more natural style.
heres a cool vid with a player.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLOttrqwuyI

I agree with Maull3r's approach.

You should not be trying to get rid of the player vibe.

And it does not ruin a sarge.

This' another mind-fuck propogated by women.

Now we all know that you should not listen to anything women say in field.

Exmple:If the woman says she hates ice cream.

An AFC who loves ice cream to death would say,Yea I hate ice cream too(lol)!

We should not be trying to fit a woman's so-called ideal.

So if she says she hate players,or that you have a player vibe.

Dont friggin' back down from that!

Say,"yea Im a player"!

"Oh,yea I do get mistaken for a player most times.But I dont think Im that good with women''.

As Maull3r said,one should be using C&F lines in cases like this.

No backing down.

Frankly,it's a shit test for the woman to see how alpha you are-or not.

So never down play the player vibe.

It wont hurt your game.

If a girl ends up rejecting you.

It hd nothing to do with player vibe,but she just wasnt feeling you at all,so she tried dimissing you via player vibe.

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Damn it! I should have read this thread a month or so ago. I got the 'you're a player line' a while back. Just goes to show you no matter what shit tests these chicks toss at you, do not back down, mark your territory.

Maull3r's lines are pretty slick.

@Kloak-Yea Maull3r's approach is spot on.

It's an IOI when girls say you're a player.

Girls dont call AFC's players(lol).

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A lot of times its not really the player vibe that the women object to. What a lot of guys do is try to have some slick line to say to damn near everything that comes out of a chicks mouth. If she asks you what are you drinking, just answer the question. Teasing, c&f, and push-pull stuff is cool up to a certain point. Women love players, what they don`t like are car salesmen.

To be honest lets look at this like wolves. Theres the pecking order in wolves with two alphas. The male and the female. shit tests are like wolves showing teeth and trying to see if you hold your own if u show weakness ur dropped a peg or two and if u just push her around with word play then it shows your confident on who you are and no one can change that. because most of the time I dont drink in the field I get Shit tested by " Why arent you drinking?" " Or what ur to cool to be drinking?" with that either i could AFC it up and give a dumb reason to justify and validate myself. I just reply with a coy smile " Well honey, the reason is that you haven't bought me one yet." couple minutes later u ask where those shots are and 8/10 times this works and you get a free shot

@Mr.Amazing-Lol,straight to the point.

Usually,trying to be extra smooth is what causes the player vibe like you said.

@Maull3r-Wow,nice analogy bro'.

I went through similar congruency test stuff when at bars.

I never used to drink alcohol(not even socially)about 5 years ago.

I would have a bottle of cola or apple juice at bars and girls I game would try bust on me saying Im soft for not drinking.

In AFC days,I would bitch out and come up with some plausible reason to why Im not drinking.

So I know where you're coming from with that Maull3r.

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remember guys, you can have a drink but dont keep slamming them you might think ur better drunk but really ur not its just that your getting the sloppy slutty drunks that dont have any self-esteem. women who are truely beautiful have class so that routine i use is to be cocky funny and se's where in the game i am if she buys one that mean its on, I ignore the 3-4 IOI rule once a women buys a drink for me because i just said too. But being sober and not drinking because of addiction or other morals are great but be funny before you go deep with it, it shows you have humor but also a kind side and right when she feels that warmth take it away with a cocky remark because women want to feel love and all those feelings but in a club it can seem that ur too nice and caring and she will be turned off. This is the hardest game you will ever play because it is constantly is changing and we dont get hte new rulebook until we all fuck up. @K-Loc i would like to talk to you more on yahoo if you are free.

@Maull3r-What you explained is basic gaming.

It cant be explined better than you just did.

Hey Maull3r,private message me about the yahoo thing.

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