Ok guys...I'm definitely just getting started in the PUA community and its been mind blowing to say the least. I've read The Game, I've been studying Ross Jeffries, and I've also read the bulk of Pandora's Box. I've been out a few times working some of the different techniques with pretty good success (I actually went out with a girl the other night and started running different patterns and working some of the techniques I've been reading about and got the kiss close and now she's blowing me up online and on the phone...so far so good).

I started looking into the PUA stuff after a bad break up with my ex. It kinda knocked me down a few notches and I was looking for some inner rebuilding when I stumbled across all of this. Long story short we were together for a year and she had to move due to her job and we still held it together for a few months, but the strain of the distance and her meeting new people, and basically me being insecure about the prior two led to her breaking things off because she needed an "opportunity to be single". Its been two months and I've been out seeing girls and definitely am in a much better place as far as confidence and ability to work the game are concerned.

She contacted me after 3 weeks, twice in that one week, and I played it off like I was busy with other shit to do, which was actually true. No contact since then, but in studying up on all of this stuff I came to the decision that part of my development should be to master that which I let conquer me.

I just moved into a new apartment, actually further away from where she lives, but near many of our same family and friends. I sent her a text message saying "Hey, so when are you gonna quit being a science dork down in dub town (slang for where she stays) and come check out my new digs". I talk stupid like this all the time and even when I was with her.

She waited almost exactly 24 hrs to reply saying "What language was that? I dunno"

My question is when you have a past history with someone, how do you work the game so that you can overcome obstacles you had previously set for herself. I'm not gonna reply until I have an opportunity to make sure I'm giving over the balance of power to her.

Just to be clear...this is not an attempt to get back with my ex, but more an opportunity to take a previous position of weakness and hopefully turn it into a situation where I can regain power. I'm not trying to hurt her and I don't want revenge, just want to employ some seasoned tactics to see if I can turn the tables.

Good luck out there fellows

Vyper (because I saw an episode of Criminal Minds about PUA's and this guy was blatantly modeled after Mystery and I thought it was hilarious)

There couldn't be an easier question. You want to turn the tables on her? The best way is to not give a shit about the tables...go on with your life, meet other women and don't worry about the distribution of power.

That's it. Easy as pie.

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