There is this girl i've been flirting ALOT with when we have been at the same parties. I did some push and pull last time i saw her and recently we've been puffing each other like crazy. So the sexual tension is there obviously after the conversations i've had with her.

So when i logged into my facebook after school i see that she is single

So the question remains.. My guesses is that a couple of boys will start writing to her and that kind of stuff now that she is available. But there is two things i'd like to do. Just asking you which one of them is the best to do at the moment.. since we've had no sexual interaction yet.

Should I wait a while and write: "Oh so your single now. Does that mean your available for a coffee? "

She left behind a scarf at my place after a party and I could easily just tell her: "I've found your scarf, you might want to come and pick it up" And when she is over here I just tell her how boring it is and if she would like to watch a movie or something.

So which one of these should I execute? I am still thinking over number two since I haven't done anything with her yet and its maybe pushing it a bit fast?

Women leave items at guy's houses so they can return for them. It's an ancient tactic. Go fuck her.

though it was long ago she left it.. before we even started speaking to each other..

i think u should go with the scarf who cares if it was a while ago......dont do the first one thats wat all the guys are doing to her now u have to be different

^ This!

And yeah, don't do the first thing man. You got to stand out from the crowd!