I can get a girl to like me and maybe I can even close her by running stupid ass routines on her and computing each fucking step like fricking computer so as to make her attracted to me, qualify her, build comfort and seduce her through cheap psychological tricks.

However, if I stop using all this shit, and just talk to a girl like normal, as I would with my friends, then everything just falls apart. Even if we have been dating for months and we supposedly know each other, it just doesn't fucking work.

Is it just wishful thinking or is it possible that a girl likes you for who you are, and not for your "gaming persona" that you created.

Yes it is possible, the trick is finding a girl that likes who you are. Putting up a fake persona isn't doing you any favors for you or for the girl as you are just being fake. And I doubt many girls wants a guy that is being fake when it comes to relationships.

WOW. You have serious inner game problems my friend. THE REASON you can't get girls without tricks is because you've used pickup to dress up your issues but you've haven't dealt with the real reason why women are not attracted to you.

Value yourself, and then ask what you bring to the table and how you can bring more. Then you can find a woman that brings that much to the table as value you as a man.

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Yes and no. Yes, a girl can like you for who you are. No, a girl cannot like the routine monkey that tries to fake some persona but isn't actually one in real life. Bottom line, if you "learn PU" as taught by a certain "school" then no, no girl can ever like you for who you are. You attract her by pretending to be something you're not, and once she figures that out, she'll be gone.

Lesson learned, if you want anything more than a ONS, stop rehearsing canned material and be yourself. If you suck and are boring, fix yourself. Then try again, and you'll see that you can get women AND keep them.

Inner game man, change the negative image about yourself. That was also my problem.here in the section natural game somebody has posted a topic called 'being the man'

being-the-man-charisma-humor-presence-b ... 72823.html

read it , I think it can seriously help u

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